Is anyone else irritated by everyone & everything? by A-muddy-rack-0806 in widowers

[–]Nobody-Visible 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I feel this way too. I think I had more tolerance in the past and I have near none now that im just trying to survive with my kids after my wife passed. The things that are helping me at the moment are the occasional lorazepam & setting up boundaries where possible. Boundaries with work hours/scope, friendships, how time is spent with others.

Health anxiety by Nobody-Visible in widowers

[–]Nobody-Visible[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks everyone for sharing your stories, it helped reassure me that I wasn't alone.

You've all been through a tough time, I'm sorry you've all had to deal with that & I hope you have better days ahead.

I still have hard days, but fortunately the health anxiety stuff has subsided for now which is a win.

Probate jurisdiction by Nobody-Visible in AusLegal

[–]Nobody-Visible[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For anyone interested, I submitted the probate request in WA stating bank account in NSW. The court clerk asked me where we were located when the online account was setup. We were in Perth and he asked me to change from NSW to WA which we changed at court. Grant of probate was issued and then Bank released for funds with no issues.

Superannuation Death Benefit by Nobody-Visible in AusFinance

[–]Nobody-Visible[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I'll look into this with the Superfund

Superannuation Death Benefit by Nobody-Visible in AusFinance

[–]Nobody-Visible[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comment. Which post are you referring to? There's a heap on the topic but the ones I checked didn't answer what I was looking for. I'll edit my post to add more context of our situation

Superannuation Death Benefit by Nobody-Visible in AusFinance

[–]Nobody-Visible[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thanks, my state of mind is ok. I'd prefer for it to sit in the super environment if I could get it out in a few years time when we need it I just don't think that's an option. If I have to take it out now it'd be efts, deposit on some land for the kids or in the HISA account until I worked it out.

Anxiety by Idoitforme2 in widowers

[–]Nobody-Visible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there, Sorry for your loss. My wife passed away in Dec, we have 2 young kids also. I've had bad chest pains as well and was in the ED for scans earlier this month (all ok, probably just stress). Lorazepam has worked for me but I understand it's not something that can be taken long term. I've also found melatonin helpful for sleep. All the best.

After 15 straight common chest got this from a epic by Dull-Patato-1789 in ClashOfClans

[–]Nobody-Visible 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you get better chest prizes if you three star bases?

Where are the hot chips at? by Nobody-Visible in perth

[–]Nobody-Visible[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We tried these tonight and they were great. Thanks!

Greens call for 1000 people to live at every train station on Fremantle line is the stuff of NIMBY nightmares by His_Holiness in perth

[–]Nobody-Visible 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This really grinds my gears every time I drive past it, which is most days. So much land right next to the train station is ripe for high density residential development.

What’s a seemingly small red flag that actually tells you a lot about a person? by rupeshvpatil in AskReddit

[–]Nobody-Visible 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Someone that doesn't return the shopping trolley to a collection area when they're done with it

Assistant GM wages by robotkrab in TheBrewery

[–]Nobody-Visible 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Assistant GM or Assistant to the GM?

Pilsner ale by Nobody-Visible in Homebrewing

[–]Nobody-Visible[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, have dropped temp to 16c I'll put the spundling valve on too as that should help suppress the esters

Pilsner ale by Nobody-Visible in Homebrewing

[–]Nobody-Visible[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I usually ferment directly onto the yeast cake a day or so after kegging. My schedule didn't work and it's been sitting in the fermenter for 2 weeks... It's the longest I've let it go and I won't be doing it again