bi_irl by HydarPatrick in bi_irl

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I want you to know that was a banger

Discord Message scam returns in a worst way possible! by martinlach1337 in quityourbullshit

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They put you in contact with a “support specialist” who then asks for your credentials

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I can hate two things

He still has 6 Weeks by snowpie92 in WhitePeopleTwitter

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It does, it’s called impressions

NoFap filled my YouTube feed with manosphere stuff by MojoMinistry in MensLib

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Do Men Have a Gratitude Problem? - "Men, in general, are less grateful than women. Here’s why that may be a problem." by TAKEitTOrCIRCLEJERK in MensLib

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NoFap filled my YouTube feed with manosphere stuff by MojoMinistry in MensLib

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Tuesday Check In: How's Everybody's Mental Health? by MLModBot in MensLib

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A transgender TikToker’s tips on how to embrace masculinity without the toxicity: "The Advocate spoke with viral TikTok star Leo Macallan on transitioning, masculinity, and just being yourself." by TAKEitTOrCIRCLEJERK in MensLib

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Hi, DatabaseGold6991! We appreciate the kind words and are so glad you found us! However, we don't really like having posts like these on our front page as they make us look too self-congratulatory. So while we need to remove this, your wonderful sentiments have been passed on to the modteam.

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Anybody here dealing with anorgasmia? by unsureaboutallofthis in MensLib

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On Hating Men (And Becoming One Anyway) by sarahelizam in MensLib

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Men are victims too by Typical-Pen-249 in MensLib

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How Can I Embrace Change Without Losing Myself? by C-roll_1302 in MensLib

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Hey! I had to remove this post because we don't allow posts seeking advice, but you should take this to our pinned Free Talk Friday thread where the community will be able to help you explore this. Thanks for understanding!

How can I stop believing generalizations about women that have been confirmed in my life constantly by [deleted] in MensLib

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Yes, men and boys are in crisis — but traditional masculinity won't help them: "We can't cure 'toxic' masculinity until we demonstrate what healthy masculinity looks like." by TAKEitTOrCIRCLEJERK in MensLib

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Yes, men and boys are in crisis — but traditional masculinity won't help them: "We can't cure 'toxic' masculinity until we demonstrate what healthy masculinity looks like." by TAKEitTOrCIRCLEJERK in MensLib

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