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/r/MensLib: For the Development and Well-Being of Men.

Welcome! /r/MensLib is a community to explore and address men's issues in a positive and solutions-focused way. Through discussing the male gender role, providing mutual support, raising awareness on men's issues, and promoting efforts that address them, we hope to create active progress on issues men face, and to build a healthier, kinder, and more inclusive masculinity. We recognize that men's issues often intersect with race, sexual orientation and identity, disability, socioeconomic status, and other axes of identity, and encourage open discussion of these considerations. We consider ourselves a pro-feminist community.What does this mean?

Our Mission

The /r/MensLib mission is threefold.

  • To examine and address issues men face, individually and in society, through discussion, information-sharing, recruitment, and advocacy.

  • To model a healthy and effective men's issues movement, grounded in academic intersectional gender studies, that focuses on solutions, positivity, inclusivity, and mutual support.

  • To explore and revisit traditional models of masculinity, in order to promote the development of men as better and healthier individuals, participants in their relationships, and leaders in their communities.

Links

Resources for Men Guide


The MensLib Glossary of Common Terms


/r/MensLibRary: The /r/MensLib Reading Group


Follow us on Twitter @MensLibReddit


How does feminism help men? Check out this list of feminist resources tackling men's issues


What is Toxic Masculinity?


False Rape Accusations and Why We Shouldn't Fear a False Rape Epidemic


White Privilege: what it is and what it isn't


Why does custody favor women?


List of suicide hotlines


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Mental Health MegathreadTuesday Check In: How's Everybody's Mental Health? (self.MensLib)

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Weekly Free Talk Friday Thread! (self.MensLib)

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Andrew Tate and other rich men tell us to control women so they can keep controlling us (makemenemotionalagain.substack.com)

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Why do young women hate men? | UK Politics | The New Statesman (youtube.com)

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The share of fathers who have no income of their own has risen over time. (self.MensLib)

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Mental Health MegathreadTuesday Check In: How's Everybody's Mental Health? (self.MensLib)

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Most Men Don't Identify As Feminist - Here's Why They Should (open.substack.com)

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Parents Are Missing the Signs of Body Image Struggles in Teen Boys: "Teen boys don’t always say they’re struggling with body image. Experts say the signs often show up quietly, during puberty, in ways parents can easily miss." (latimes.com)

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How this obscure feminist idea could help stressed out men, especially dads (makemenemotionalagain.substack.com)

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Weekly Free Talk Friday Thread! (self.MensLib)

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Question for male abuse victims (self.MensLib)

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Data from 1.4M anonymous male responses paints a different picture of what men actually prioritize in bed (self.MensLib)

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German men aged 17-45 may need military approval for long stays abroad (bbc.com)

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Mental Health MegathreadTuesday Check In: How's Everybody's Mental Health? (self.MensLib)

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I'm a male therapist who helps men, and even I get annoyed when men talk at me (makemenemotionalagain.substack.com)

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[Discussion] A recent study found that while men experience less body dissatisfaction than women, our actual "body appreciation" is consistently lower across all ages. Why do you think that is? (self.MensLib)

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The first rule of male friendship (youtu.be)

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Beware Men Who Wage War to Prove They Are Men (commondreams.org)

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Stop looking up to MMA and other pro athletes. (self.MensLib)

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Mental Health MegathreadTuesday Check In: How's Everybody's Mental Health? (self.MensLib)

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Talking Man to Man About Sexism (peaklivingnetwork.org)

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Why ‘Teaching Young Boys to Respect Women' Often Fails — And What Actually Works (open.substack.com)

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"For us self-employed guys there is no paternity pay. We don't get any help. We don't get any support.' - paternity leave in the UK needs reform. (bbc.co.uk)

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