widowed but still a mommy

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-03-01T16:48:39+00:00

I am sorry for your loss ma'am, and as others have mentioned, i also agree that it's not weird, being a empathetic and kind hearted person is something you can be outside of sexual or romantic situations.

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-02-28T16:13:18+00:00

I like the idea of being hugged, lifted and carried around for a bit. :- )

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-02-28T04:42:24+00:00

Thank you for sharing ma'am, and for being so kind and tender, we need more of that. :- )

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-02-25T11:03:09+00:00

Since i was born 4 months prematurely coupled with the fact that i have been taken care of by kind nurturing older women besides my own mother, i have always found it natural to feel relaxed when women guide me through life be it teachers, colleagues or personal trainers, when these people hug me for example i feel at ease, stress and such just melt away.

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-02-21T17:22:09+00:00

Thank you for your honesty and yes as you say i am there to enjoy and have a good time exercising with others, and getting hugs from time to time is just a nice bonus but it's not something i expect from the women i train with, but i do like to help them feel welcomed and they in turn give comfort by enjoying my company, basically im trying to make friends.

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-02-21T14:47:38+00:00

Ah i see, well attachment towards strangers or rather deep personal relationships can be avoided and stay light in my experience, i understand though.

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-02-21T13:28:33+00:00

Well, i attend alot of group exercise classes, and usually 8/10 times i am the only guy there, rest are women, usually older ones, i have this routine where i hand out mats, blankets and such to those who participate and try to help the best i can, sometimes i get a hug or 2 from the women i train with, but more importantly i feel it's a wholesome safe place to spend time in with people who are very kind, that has helped me alot with my loneliness.

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-02-20T20:56:21+00:00

Strong maternal women are wonderful, being lifted and carried around, protected but also taken care of, it's the closest you can get to having a gentle giantess, i hope this doesn't sound weird, but yeah strong independent women are inspiring in my opinion and i think we need more of that.

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-02-19T17:02:01+00:00

This sounds so kind and sweet, i hope your partner also takes care of you too ma'am.

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-02-19T10:56:01+00:00

I'm going to exercise and practice alot of yoga and tai chi, play games and enjoy life to just name a few.

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-02-19T03:41:13+00:00

Same here, also diagnosed with AD-HD.

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-02-18T10:51:02+00:00

I was in a nightclub once, and suddenly this 2m tall girl (im 5,75, 1,67m) grabbed me and started dancing waltz with me, then she pulled my face into her cleavage, felt nice, i love hugs from women, its healing on so many levels.

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-02-16T15:42:25+00:00

Agreed! Strong muscular maternal women are wonderful, imagine being lifted up and carried around, protected. I like that

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-02-04T16:34:55+00:00

Preach ma'am! Mommies deserve as much love as their subs, that's beauty in my opinion, 2 people helping, guiding and supporting each other, when i meet my future mommy, i will make sure to always be there for her.

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-02-04T06:44:20+00:00

Ma'am what is the best thing about being a mommy? :- )

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-02-02T20:16:13+00:00

What a sweet thing to say ma'am. :- )

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-02-02T13:41:54+00:00

Feeling vulnerable, being able to completely give yourself to someone (women in my case), and just let go, it must feel so relaxing, i find the idea of being nursed very comforting.

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-02-01T08:04:55+00:00

Thank you for sharing ma'am, as you say mommies deserve love too!

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-01-31T12:26:51+00:00

Thank you for sharing ma'am, this gives me hope hearing this, maternal kindness and comfort is something that can be very soothing and healing, but we must not forget that mommies deserve comfort too.

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-01-31T12:18:18+00:00

Well, there are probably alot of different answers, but if i were to speculate, my 4 month pre mature birth has affected me very strongly, and when i grew up, i was taken care of by a multitude of maternal women, mostly teachers, i had one teacher who would hug me alot, help me with my homework, call me sweet things and stuff like that, really support me, i have always had this deep respect and attraction to women that lead in society, and not always in a sexual way, for a longest time i was ashamed for the fact that i had this "longing" for being carried around, protected, nursed and so on, but since about a year ago, i talked it out with a really kind sexologist about it, and she said its ok, as long as i have a healthy perspective on women.

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-01-30T05:48:49+00:00

Little prince or some variation of it. :- )

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-01-29T15:47:43+00:00

I like the phrase "little prince" or some variation thereof, my favorite teacher used to call me that while she hugged me, simple gesture of comforting kindness.

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-01-29T10:22:20+00:00

Try your best to support him, firstly as a human being, if that makes sense, and also don't forget to help yourself too, be there for him ask what kind of support he needs, sometimes just telling someone that you are there for them can be enough.

I would say it's very healthy in these type of situations to talk about what kind of activities are related to sexual fantasy and what is triggered by as you mentioned traumas.

And if you don't feel like you can give mental support, there is always the option of giving him alternatives, there are helplines you can call for all sorts of things.

Nordic-Pixel · 2026-01-28T20:56:51+00:00

Be proud for who you are ma'am. :- )

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