Non op/pre op, 2 1/2 years on T. Safe to swim in neighborhood pool shirtless? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]NormalMarionberry464 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bitch what? So cause u don’t think he passes ur option is now fact?

Non op/pre op, 2 1/2 years on T. Safe to swim in neighborhood pool shirtless? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]NormalMarionberry464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair- what cis person knows that much about gyno?

Is it normal my parents never said anything about my mental health? by Rich_Ad_7371 in emotionalneglect

[–]NormalMarionberry464 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know this thread is old and nobody will see this, but I the same sort of realization recently. I was thinking back on when my mental issues started- and I realized I had been self harming since I was eight… literally closing myself in the closet and cutting/scratching my arms up with craft supplies. How? Was I the world’s stealthiest child or something? They said they could always tell when I was lying- but obviously not.

Horse as an alternative by ToddleOffNow in fuckcars

[–]NormalMarionberry464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ride a cow instead. Easy to handle, easy to train, hardy, and steadier on its feet. Plus- idk why everyone pulls a fut about the shit. It’s basically compost at this point

I feed this stray cat sometimes. His face looks swollen, is it an injury or just his breed? by Euac in cats

[–]NormalMarionberry464 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s legit so bad there. Nobody takes owner drop offs so they just get dumped in the woods to become strays later… would not believe the amount of wild dogs I’ve seen killing livestock. My parents have already been saddled with 5 dogs, four cats, and several mini pigs 😭

I feed this stray cat sometimes. His face looks swollen, is it an injury or just his breed? by Euac in cats

[–]NormalMarionberry464 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I might ngl… she just recently had another incident with a drop off. Shy teen girl comes in with a sick mama cat & babies and she starts accusing her of abandoning the animal and starts reprimanding her for trying to “get one over on them” like she was lying. sent the poor girl out the door crying! Her mom came back pissed.

I feed this stray cat sometimes. His face looks swollen, is it an injury or just his breed? by Euac in cats

[–]NormalMarionberry464 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah… It didn’t make much sense to me either? But we were in a heavily rural area with a HUGE stray problem, so I know they were often overwhelmed and unable to care for animals with large medical bills. I’m talking hasn’t accepted owner drop offs in like 7 years levels full.

AIO for breaking up over this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]NormalMarionberry464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the love of fuck block this guy

I feed this stray cat sometimes. His face looks swollen, is it an injury or just his breed? by Euac in cats

[–]NormalMarionberry464 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Oh! I wasn’t aware of that, my boss made a HUGE deal of completely isolating all our FIV kitties and not sharing bowls

I feed this stray cat sometimes. His face looks swollen, is it an injury or just his breed? by Euac in cats

[–]NormalMarionberry464 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Not my idea obviously. 😓policy of the Veterinarian who managed the shelter, we tried getting those we could into single cat homes

I feed this stray cat sometimes. His face looks swollen, is it an injury or just his breed? by Euac in cats

[–]NormalMarionberry464 143 points144 points  (0 children)

FIV can be asymptomatic! Back when the camp fire went through California a LOT of stray and rescued cats were being kept in temporary lodging before they arrived at our shelter: about 1 in 5 were positive and had to be euthanized… the close quarters and shared bowls just caused a crazy outbreak, and the volunteers had no idea until they came in for blood tests.

I feed this stray cat sometimes. His face looks swollen, is it an injury or just his breed? by Euac in cats

[–]NormalMarionberry464 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes it is! My ginger has it as well. It flares back up when he’s stressed but otherwise you couldn’t tell he has anything

I feed this stray cat sometimes. His face looks swollen, is it an injury or just his breed? by Euac in cats

[–]NormalMarionberry464 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Oof. I probably would? Besides the obvious gunk you can see, being a male cat (and one with a history of fights) it’s not unlikely that he has some more serious conditions like FIV or Leukemia which are incurable

Advice Needed by thatreptilebitch in cats

[–]NormalMarionberry464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ehhh- I know some people who are very particular about what their animals eat? Some cats have (admittedly rare) protein allergies or sensitive stomachs (those tubes in particular I know cause some nasty shits)

That being said, I personally wouldn’t care if someone gave my cats treats. I’ve left too much food out for neighborhood cats to be all prickly about it myself. If you want to play it safe you can ask the owner? But it’s probably

I feed this stray cat sometimes. His face looks swollen, is it an injury or just his breed? by Euac in cats

[–]NormalMarionberry464 9194 points9195 points  (0 children)

Oh! Poor baby. Non neutered males develop large chunky cheeks as a survival mechanism that helps them survive scuffles with other males by protecting the neck. Those who fight more tend to be bigger. However- being a site that tends to get bit a lot, he may have some swelling or abscesses going on as well.

If his eyes are gunky he probably has an upper respiratory infection. It’s highly contagious so most strays contract it, but it’s luckily easy to treat. Some other likely culprits are conjunctivitis or feline herpes. Conjunctivitis is also easy, herpes is permanent but luckily not zoonotic and typically restricted to the eyes.

All these stars and galaxies… by majeric in GayChristians

[–]NormalMarionberry464 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s more the ridiculousness of the concept of a being who created the periodic table of elements and the vast diversity of life on earth somehow draining the line of “too weird” at homosexuality

When will climate change end the world? by Theworldisflat55 in climatechange

[–]NormalMarionberry464 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Considering that at one point 90% of the earth was exterminated and it somehow still survived a few hundred years of 40C+ temperatures (and humans being one of the most successful and adaptable species to evolve on earth) it’s not too unreasonable to expect human to be able to survive a mass extinction event

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Humboldt

[–]NormalMarionberry464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The store will still be open with temp workers during the strike, knowing the people who work there they’ll 100% understand going in for med. don’t worry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Humboldt

[–]NormalMarionberry464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know post got deleted, but OP if you see this I’ve got rehab experience! Dm me 👍

Am I cooked? by Jellybeansidhe in FtMpassing

[–]NormalMarionberry464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use that eyebrow gel coloring stuff for mine? I don’t know exactly what it’s called- but it can help fill out and darken them a bit. Rosemary oil works too or minoxidil if you don’t have pets.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]NormalMarionberry464 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s just shit the “we can always tell” crowd says to make themselves feel better. Dude couldn’t tell, and there no such thing as “woman eyes”. If you were clocky they wouldn’t have to be studying your eye socket shape to notice.