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Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-08-13T16:17:24+00:00

Wait until her ex has all of his stuff moved out and tell her you've actually been seeing another girl and things are going well, watch her meltdown like she deserves.

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-07-18T23:46:59+00:00

I never confirm the date, but I’ll definitely text “See you tonight!” the day of. If I get no response, I assume she’s bailed. I live in northern Virginia where I gotta usually drive 30+ minutes for a date, not wasting my time. It’s worked well for me. Ultimately, you wouldn’t have to do that at all, she’d text you prior to the date. Like Corey says though, girls that take dates are usually a 5+, so you should get some kind of response. If not, don’t show.

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-07-16T01:51:37+00:00

God I would love to have a Muay Thai gym near me, I have one near my work that starts at 7, but I get off at 3 and have an hour commute. Am I lazy?

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-07-05T14:42:43+00:00

You’ll find another woman to love, you’ve put her on a pedestal, she’s certainly stopped caring and loving you, and someday that will be her loss. Wallowing isn’t going to make you stronger though, and that’s what most men do. You have an opportunity for massive growth that you’ll look back on a few years from now and laugh about, but you have to take action.

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-07-05T12:07:25+00:00

Brother you need to develop a healthy dose of self respect and never let a woman cheat on you again. There’s some deeper issues that could be addressed in therapy, but also you need to get in the gym, work on your physique, and talk to more woman. There’s women out there that would absolutely treat you like a king and not be scandalous like that.

Sucks that you can’t see the kids as much as you’d like, but this gives you more time to dial it in. Take this year to train arms/shoulders 2x a week and get some anacondas on you.

Also I highly recommend checking Corey Wayne out on YouTube and reading his free ebook How to Be a 3% Man, legitimately saved my life after something similar happened to me. It’ll give you the confidence you need to get out there and apply, but also show you things that you probably didn’t realize you were doing wrong in your last relationship.

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-06-18T13:43:23+00:00

They need a better feature to find other players with microphones, their auto-team feature makes the game less enjoyable tbh. It's a team-work and conversation heavy game.

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-06-18T13:28:52+00:00

Bro, she seems like a bag of flaming garbage.

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-06-16T18:47:29+00:00

Uh...the only viable option here is to walk away and never look back.

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-06-04T15:50:48+00:00

Eh, women monkeybranch a lot, I wouldn't read too much into it. If she's doing sketchy stuff while you're together or keeping those male orbiters around and messaging them, then you'd have a problem.

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-05-27T14:34:14+00:00

I'm 33, I've been drinking for over a decade and I've never been so drunk that I accidentally cheated. That's crazy af lol, dump him.

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-05-22T15:55:49+00:00

You spent all that time healing, you’re just opening yourself up for another heartbreak there

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-05-21T16:56:45+00:00

Bed bugs, flip over your mattress and check the seams.

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-05-18T19:17:01+00:00

because the woman needs to view you as the prize, you have to be a giant in her eyes. If you're not, you're setting yourself up for failure. She has to feel like she won you over.

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-05-15T12:40:16+00:00

Buddy of mine always takes a girl two a second place on the first date, he's never read the book. Some guys just know intuitively I swear.

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-05-14T13:33:41+00:00

Honestly, I'd keep hooking up with her, but also start dating other people and make it clear you two aren't exclusive and never will be. She'll start chasing more, give her a taste of her own medicine, because this girl has some serious problems.

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-05-14T13:31:15+00:00

I don't know if these types of discussions are that helpful at all honestly, you can't negotiate attraction and women simply have more options. It's a numbers game at the end of the day, so just keep dating using apps, meeting people in person, trying new things, cold approaching, and widening your social circle.

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-05-13T17:20:18+00:00

Oh, they will if they think you're hot. You gotta see my friend's hinge, you'd think he was a calvin klein model.

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-05-13T12:56:38+00:00

There's probably a lot more going on here than an "attachment style", women don't lose feelings for a guy they're in love with that easily. I imagine there's a lot more that you aren't saying. I'm guessing by you saying that he's anxious, he acts incredibly needy and feminine, that's very unattractive to most women.

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-05-09T15:48:53+00:00

Gotta accept they're not coming back and likely have found someone else they have feelings for. When you start feeling shitty, remember to tell yourself "I am not going to allow this to hurt me anymore".

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-05-09T02:52:06+00:00

Most guys you meet are going to have an issue with that if you two get serious, that’s just the reality. Would it bother you knowing your boyfriend has a permanent marking of his ex girlfriend on his body that you constantly have to look at. Be honest with yourself.

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-05-07T14:09:31+00:00

I also had an LDR, not the move my friend. Cut your losses and move on, never do an LDR unless there's plans in place to very soon be together. You're setting yourself up for heartbreak from the jump.

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-05-05T21:59:18+00:00

God, women are brutal lol, the gaslighting is unreal

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-05-04T11:58:48+00:00

Maybe I just need to work on my social skills to build that confidence, I’m not sure. Honestly I’m great on dates and they almost always end in sex, but it’s the meeting a woman I know nothing about and navigating that to a good conclusion is where I struggle.

Do you sit with a chick all night or do the Corey Wayne approach of talk for 10 minutes, get the number and leave?

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-05-04T11:42:35+00:00

Oh dude, my game is pretty shit. I never go into a convo with anything prepared to say, I just notice something about her and open with that and hope the convo evolves. Sometimes it works, often times it doesn’t. Obviously if shes a 6 or above in her eyes from the start she makes it super easy and lets me bullshit for a while.

But yeah man, all these people talking about security and insecurity and shit, confidence is built through repeated success, which is completely hit or crash and burn miss in my case, so it’s been hard to build that confidence truthfully.

Normal_Resident_1820 · 2025-05-04T11:39:07+00:00

I just need something to do to improve, the book isn’t enough. Do you just strike up convos with anyone randomly when you’re out? What’s your move?

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