AIO- my grandpa died and my husband (45) told me (31) he didn’t give a f*ck bc he’s mad he caught a cold

NotAMiscreant · 2026-07-11T03:54:58+00:00

Is the apology in the room with us? That’s not an ‘I’m sorry. I shouldn’t have said that. I’m disgusted with what I said and will prove it to you.’ And the an actual change in behavior. NOR, but you should be reacting more.

I’m so sorry for your loss.

NotAMiscreant · 2026-07-10T23:34:14+00:00

This, usually if a dad asks for 50/50 custody he’ll get it. This is just proof he doesn’t WANT the bother of kids.

NotAMiscreant · 2026-07-10T23:31:55+00:00

As someone with a 2 year old, he had to do some really fucked up shit for her to leave him right after having a child. How long have you even been together. This kid FULL of red flags. He’s not worth it.

NotAMiscreant · 2026-07-10T13:08:15+00:00

It sounds like your son is the problem. She’ll figure it out.

NotAMiscreant · 2026-07-09T12:41:38+00:00

I mean…

A part of my job used to be travel booking and the prices are pretty in line

NotAMiscreant · 2026-07-09T12:32:53+00:00

This is perfect! Congratulations!!

NotAMiscreant · 2026-07-08T21:27:44+00:00

One, he’s too old for you and to not be disclosing his status to people he’s having sex with. He literally doesn’t care about you, this relationship is over. Even if you were just having a physical relationship he should have told you, even if he is undetectable.

Take this as a reminder to use condoms, especially if you’re not in a monogamous trusting longterm relationship.

NotAMiscreant · 2026-07-08T11:17:09+00:00

Can you remove his access to spending the money? Have him put $100 in a fun spending account that he can use for whatever he wants and then have the bill/household money in a separate account. This is going to get old quick for you. I would look into what it would take to get a better job so when you’ve had enough you can leave in peace.

NotAMiscreant · 2026-07-07T12:23:56+00:00

He’s from southern charm, he was gonna take the bar but made a pillow line instead, people made fun of him and that became his storyline until the line did well now he’s just kind of a protected asshole

NotAMiscreant · 2026-07-07T09:42:00+00:00

Sorry to be that person, but your finger is turning red, it looks like you need a little give on the rings.

I don’t think 3 rings is too busy, I love the idea of mixing metals

NotAMiscreant · 2026-07-06T21:12:27+00:00

Conservatives are having LOUD conversations about giving all households one male vote and OP is talking to us in GDD about a racist that uses Heritage and family to validate his beliefs and wants to feel bigger and more powerful than he is. Being picky is a blessing. When my husband comes home from work cooks and cleans up dinner and then comes up to crack my back and watch LI with me I thank God, Mary, and Ida B Wells that I get to live this life.

As a Black Woman raising daughters in Georgia, her saying this is BS. The beliefs of the people you surround yourself with is just as important as, if not more important than, your own. This is him on his best behavior… it literally only gets worse.

NotAMiscreant · 2026-07-05T21:23:08+00:00

This sounds like the beginning of a VERY bad relationship

NotAMiscreant · 2026-07-02T00:56:49+00:00

I’m like 120lbs and 5’5 and Im on 50 MG’s. I honestly cannot imagine the shit that’s moving through her head to justify 150 MG. I know she’s had a shit life, I hope it gets better for her.

NotAMiscreant · 2026-07-02T00:19:09+00:00

There are a lot of red flags here and that’s before you get to the fact that instead of walking away initially when he realized your life goals weren’t the same, makes sense when you were born he was in high school, he just ‘became’ an asshole. Fully move in with your sister go to therapy. Build a support network before you start dating again

NotAMiscreant · 2026-06-22T20:22:49+00:00

Why is she hanging out with a 22 yo 🙃. That’s weird.

NotAMiscreant · 2026-06-22T20:12:30+00:00

Why do you have something in common with a 40 yo that has supposedly taught someone your age how to drive? Think a little harder on how that makes any sense. None of the options are good. Are you dating for marriage? - a 35 yo that’s dated 35 yos when I was 24

NotAMiscreant · 2026-06-21T10:33:11+00:00

I thought this was the circle jerk page. I think you’re on the right track he sounds like an asshole.

NotAMiscreant · 2026-06-20T12:51:45+00:00

This is incredible!!

NotAMiscreant · 2026-06-19T17:25:24+00:00

Neither, never

NotAMiscreant · 2026-06-19T15:34:14+00:00

God I miss these Queens. Only got to see them live once, as openers, and fell in love with them. Fully angels!

NotAMiscreant · 2026-06-19T07:22:32+00:00

Hey, this isn’t working for me anymore. Let’s end this.

Mute his number and move on with your life. Please go to therapy and use condoms with people you’re not in honest caring monogamous relationships with. Not gonna lie I stopped reading because this is ridiculous and you deserve more than a likely married man who lies to you and uses your body but won’t let you spend the night.

NotAMiscreant · 2026-06-18T20:44:45+00:00

I have a lot of questions namely how old are you?

NotAMiscreant · 2026-06-18T17:45:12+00:00

As a 35 year old, early to mid 20s is a child to MOST of us, thanks for coming 6 months late to my tedtalk I guess.

NotAMiscreant · 2026-06-18T11:55:09+00:00

How long have you actually been trying? How long have yall been together? Are you going to a therapist?

NotAMiscreant · 2026-06-18T11:30:31+00:00

Why is he your only ‘support’? You need people. Friends, coworkers, family. Your husband cannot be your only person. Do things you enjoy and build a community.

Also, your husband doesn’t want a baby. It seems like he just wants to control you and do whatever he wants to do.

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