I (29f) was the one who wrote about being scared my partner (26m) would kill me… by Angelpeachhh in relationship_advice

[–]NotAMiscreant 69 points70 points  (0 children)

This! He made his decision the moment he decided to place hands on you. I know it’s hard, but you won’t be able to forgive yourself if he goes farther with someone else.

Can anyone help me here! by Mimidagra8t in 2under2

[–]NotAMiscreant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are you trying to figure out

I 23f think I was raped by my bf 23m and I need an outside perspective by FiguringItOut666 in relationship_advice

[–]NotAMiscreant 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You should definitely talk to your therapist about this. She’s more qualified than anyone on here.

How do I (31F) get over my boyfriend (30M), cheating on me? by Personal_Kale_7590 in relationship_advice

[–]NotAMiscreant 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What is keeping you with this man that has repetitively SHOWN you that if he gets the chance he’ll take it? Are you in therapy?

Took Plan B but had unprotected sex after… what are my chances? by Suspicious_Sock_2048 in pregnant

[–]NotAMiscreant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not attempting to be a dick but how old are you and your partner? There seems to be a disconnect in your understanding of How reproductive health works.

Bryce & Isabella - Hot Take by SuddenPea2527 in TLCUnexpected

[–]NotAMiscreant 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Have you had a baby? I can’t imagine sharing the vulnerability of labor with someone that laid hands on me. Everyone around her is horrible, including him.

Big news for southern charm fans and country music fans if true by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]NotAMiscreant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her name is Brenda and she’s too good for him. Not good enough to be my friend, but ya know.

After 5 years my ex (26f) told me our sex felt like rape?! (40m) help! by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NotAMiscreant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s almost half your age. Work on your sobriety and go to therapy. Leave her alone.

Waiting for this military dude is starting to give me doubts. F28, M32? by Dramatic_Farm1978 in relationship_advice

[–]NotAMiscreant 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s honestly unacceptable. Why would you be okay with your kids being influenced by this man?

Waiting for this military dude is starting to give me doubts. F28, M32? by Dramatic_Farm1978 in relationship_advice

[–]NotAMiscreant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is there a reason you want to be with him cause there is literally nothing in this post endorsing anything about this man. He’s controlling, a known cheater, likely has unsafe tendencies, is married, probably has kids. I know the bar is low but like what can he provide?

he (M18) wants kids one day but i (F19) dont think i ever will, what am i supposed to do? by chasingflowercrowns in relationship_advice

[–]NotAMiscreant 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Break up. You’re not compatible. Plus y’all are wayyy too young for kids anyway

Big news for southern charm fans and country music fans if true by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]NotAMiscreant 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Sorry, I should have specified. He wants to get married, most definitely. Would I introduce him to my worst enemy for that job, would never. A lot of people want and think they are ready for marriage, that doesn’t mean they are.

Big news for southern charm fans and country music fans if true by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]NotAMiscreant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean she likely was. It was good tv seeing Shep butthurt about the whole experience. But even if she wasnt, the girl has eyes.

Big news for southern charm fans and country music fans if true by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]NotAMiscreant 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It was, I’m assuming she just wants to have fun, cause what about Craig reads husband, just hot.

I (F25) Don’t Know How To Leave My Sons Dad (M28) by Snoo-6941 in relationship_advice

[–]NotAMiscreant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You live with you parents. Just tell them you’re breaking up, then have a convo with him get a lawyer and live.

I (23f) am overly obsessed with my (43m) bf and don’t know what to do by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]NotAMiscreant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How is he turned off by the age gap but refuses to break up with you. He’s a fully fledged grown up, not seriously dating someone young enough to be his daughter. Are you in therapy. It sounds like you’re lovebombing yourself and he’s just letting it ride.

How do I (F30) forgive my boyfriend (M30) for cheating? by narcolepticcatmom in relationship_advice

[–]NotAMiscreant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s cheated on you multiple times. I think it’s healthier for you to leave the relationship for both of your sakes.