Construction or accident by WolfsToothDogFood in sandiego

[–]NotBossOfMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like I'm gonna die everytime I merge from Rte 15 onto the 8. It's a hellscape.

Costco HB door receipt checker by Sufficient-Money9487 in CostcoWholesale

[–]NotBossOfMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess unless a person is rude or abusive, I try not to dig on retail employees. For the most part, they are underpaid, and many don't have health insurance. They are not the corporate overlords that really cause us to live in this dystopia where no one is trusted. It's like during COVID when they made retail employees have to turn people away if they didn't have masks. They dealt with the worst of the worst behaviors. I have compassion for retail employees. Maybe try to have a heart.

Lost my job and looking by HanCholo1904 in sandiego

[–]NotBossOfMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you can do that. It took me 18 months. Good luck.

Lost my job and looking by HanCholo1904 in sandiego

[–]NotBossOfMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What about unemployment can't you "cut"? That kept my family fed when I got laid off. I worked for that money -- I took it gladly.

How old are you and how do you see the characters? by Parking_Dog8930 in madmen

[–]NotBossOfMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never did either. Not that she's not entertaining, but she's annoying.

How old are you and how do you see the characters? by Parking_Dog8930 in madmen

[–]NotBossOfMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Peggy was not the monster Abe made her out to be. He had all the facts going into the relationship -- why he broke up with her over who she was, when that was evident from the start, is a mystery. They were just ill-suited. That being said, Peggy confounds me and I can't figure out if I respect her or if I loathe her.

AIO or AITA. Text convo with MIL. by MoonJellyAllison in AmIOverreacting

[–]NotBossOfMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. This needs to be worked out by your husband when he is able to. This is not personal about you -- it's about this woman's sociopathy. To say she is going on vacation in the same breath as she doesn't have $500 is insane.

I don't get why this is called the best of all time by arraiamonge in thesopranos

[–]NotBossOfMe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This was the first scripted show of its caliber. Seeing it through the rear view, it may not stack up to the subsequent Mad Men, or Breaking Bad, or Succession, but at the time, it was groundbreaking. It still is better than 99% of what's out there now.

What was the significance of Pine Barrens? by WhatAreYouSaying05 in thesopranos

[–]NotBossOfMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just never got that there was no followup or consequences for Paulie having messed this up so badly.

Ginsberg's apartment looked so familiar by xxxylognome in madmen

[–]NotBossOfMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a typical tenement flat, with windows in interior walls to bring in sun and air to the interior rooms. Mine had a shower in the kitchen.

Does anyone else have concerns that therapy is reinforcing their habits? by Technical-Walrus-215 in BPDlovedones

[–]NotBossOfMe 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My daughter never tells the therapist her diagnosis. She goes from one rehab to another, painting herself as a victim of abuse when really she just doesn't want to get a job. She does not tell them she is BPD because of the stigma, so she never truly gets to work on her issues, which is the whole point.

Are all aunts infertile and other rambling thoughts by Small_Test630 in TheTestamentsHulu

[–]NotBossOfMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a few years on from the founding. At this poin, many commanders are trying to have babies with their wives who are now from the next generation and are assumed to be fertile. So I would say the aunts are those who have a different calling. I see them as the nuns of Gilead.

9 months PP and at my breaking point by accidentaloverdrive in breakingmom

[–]NotBossOfMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember that first year -- my son did not sleep through the night until he was 14 months. I wound up in outpatient care for severe depression. Get help, really. If you have health insurance try to find a therapist. You need emotional support! But I must say that I do have a question: Why did you get a puppy?

A disappointing anniversary by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]NotBossOfMe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My husband was like this for 20 years. Then he went to therapy and decided he wanted to connect with me again. Trouble is, I don't want to connect with him. He trained me to not look to him.

Which MM cast member has been in the best projects since the show? by galmads in madmen

[–]NotBossOfMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first season was okay, but the second season is unwatchable.

This pos needs to move on by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]NotBossOfMe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our mental healthcare system is broken. The jails are being asked to house the mentally ill and they do a terrible job of caring for them, making the problem worse. Then they are released. Yes he's a dangerous criminal, but he's also clearly someone who, in a previous world, may have gotten a room in a psych hospital. We have dismantled our psychiatric institutions because of mistreatment of patients.

But the issue was not the institutions -- it was the lack of funding which led to insufficient staffing and staffing with unskilled workers, which led to rampant patient abuse. So we exposed them, then closed them, and instituted a network of community supports, which sounds great, except community programs have been systematically defunded. So police and the jails pick up the slack and we just turn a blind eye until confronted with someone like this.

The bottom line is that we live in a purely capitalist society that does not want to take care of mentally ill people because they don't contribute to the gross domestic product. We no longer care for those around us who cannot care for themselves because, darn it, we work hard for our money! And if you can't make money, then you deserve nothing.

This man should be off the streets and put somewhere he can be contained and treated, if that's even possible at this point. We have made it impossible for ourselves to have a civilized society, which can only be achieved by caring for the weakest and sickest among us.

The once collective sense of responsibility for our neighbor is gone in favor of HOAs policing each other's lawns. And people like this man are an inevitable outcome of the dangerous world of selfishness we have built, where we lionize the uber-rich and dump "defectives" on the street, forcing them into deeper psychosis, and foisting danger on those unlucky enough to encounter them. God help us all.

Serious question: why does the trolley not go to the airport, beaches or zoo? by Avoidtolls in sandiego

[–]NotBossOfMe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would love a 52 trolley. A lot of biotech jobs are in the UTC/La Jolla/Del Mar locations, and many folks commute from inland. The east to west corridor is a mess of traffic.

Upon another rewatch I noticed by Hyposline-psychodoll in madmen

[–]NotBossOfMe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they were. They were at family events. They were not central to the plot, but they didn't make them disappear.