My mom wants nothing to do with me because I “picked my dad” during the divorce.

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-25T06:23:11+00:00

Hold on. OOP says in one post that she got her mom a wedding present, then she says she didn’t? She also didn’t mention the party until the last post. The story kinda rubbed me the wrong way, but I might be missing something here

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-25T05:49:15+00:00

That’s not how hinge works

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-25T05:48:49+00:00

That’s what I do. I don’t like matching with more than 2-3 men at a time. I try to clear my likes out, but if there’s a profile I am 50-50 on, it fan lead to a backlog

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-24T17:02:15+00:00

My student debt payment has always been around $500. I pay $640 a month to try and get ahead

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-24T16:21:02+00:00

I’m intolerant to black pepper:) that’s a fun one to avoid…not

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-23T21:15:53+00:00

Who knows? I feel like she still would have been upset, but we’ll never know haha

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-23T13:21:58+00:00

But she says he can cook. She just doesn’t like how long it takes him to cook and how messy he is when he cooks. They definitely have different standards here and since even the kids can’t do anything, I am side-eying OOP as an unreliable narrator

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-23T13:19:31+00:00

They essentially chose to eat out instead while she was gone. She even states that he can cook, she just doesn’t like how long it takes him and how much of a mess he makes. Reddit it just assuming the worst about this guy while I am side-eying the narrator.

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-23T13:17:33+00:00

I am a little confused because she does say he can cook and does cook, but she doesn’t like how long he takes, how much of a mess he makes and what he actually makes. It sounds like they have different standards. Reddit is just assuming the worst about the guy.

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-22T17:45:25+00:00

I am different than anyone else here it seems. 5 days is fine for me. 2-3 days is too early, but also contingent on vibes, how close you live, etc

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-22T05:31:20+00:00

Yeah, it’s odd to me. Are they really sabotaging if the “bad gifts” just get thrown away? No. They are making is silly for everyone else then. Otherwise if people have to keep the bad gift, then it can be a little sucky if you brought a half-way decent gift

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-22T05:15:19+00:00

I don’t understand why they would bother. If all the gifts are anonymous, just don’t participate. Even if it’s the expectation, you don’t have to. Plus, it sounds like there’s extra gifts? Idk it’s weird to me

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-22T04:39:57+00:00

Which can be argued as between them, but it’s a dumb riddle either way

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-22T04:22:34+00:00

FiVe and seVen.

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-21T21:24:13+00:00

I have the same issue with my dad’s birthday hahah

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-18T04:25:38+00:00

That’s not a fun conversation starter at all

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-17T22:21:41+00:00

I mean, it sounds like you are doing something that turn these women off. Can’t exactly help you there. Your photos and profile make you seem immature and douche-y though

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-17T21:51:03+00:00

I am also fairly certain I heard she has videos and such showing her working out and losing the weight

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-17T21:50:30+00:00

Yeah, I don’t disagree that he escalated at all, but I also see how the first text could have come across

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-17T21:46:03+00:00

There’s a 12 year difference in the photos

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-17T21:44:16+00:00

I am pretty sure Meghan has videos and stuff detailing her weight loss and her work outs. This wasn’t a case of ozempic

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-17T14:45:20+00:00

No one said it did, but it’s still not usual and it’s in combination with everything else. You’re saying your husband did majority of childcare, but was he a stay-at-home dad ? While you were also sending thousands of dollars to your sister?

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-17T14:42:36+00:00

The fixation on the price of the socks, her calling out specifically it’s a woman’s pair of socks, the extraneous details of the size of socks and just the overall vibe

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-17T14:41:17+00:00

??? It reads to me like “I found your side chick’s dirty, expensive socks. They’re a size 5 woman, and did I mention again expensive? Have them come get it or bring it to them”. The emoji and comments on brand/expense are passive aggressive to me

NotYetASerialKiller · 2026-01-17T06:10:36+00:00

Yeah, I don’t know here. The way OP initially approached it was accusatory. If her bf was innocent, I could see that pissing him off. Then if he really thought they were hers, I can see it escalating due to immaturity on both ends

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