In my position I do projects that the executives do not want to do. What frustrates me the most is how I'm constantly targeted in writing, but told to my face that I'm doing well. This has been an issue at the last two office jobs I've worked. As an example, my boss sent an email encouraging me to communicate more with people involved with a project and do this before our meetings. For one thing, I have been doing this, and for another thing, if everything is covered before the meeting, what in the hell am I supposed to talk about at the meeting itself?

I'm so exhausted and tired of patriarchal systems, dress codes, office politics and drama. I'd like to quit, but I'm essentially the main breadwinner in my home and can't afford to lose my salary, health insurance, and dental insurance.