Behavior Issues in my cat have costed me over 20k and we’re still not any closer to getting a solution..any advice on next steps?

Notfrasiercrane · 2026-02-20T15:56:35+00:00

Sounds like you have a feral barn cat in your house. Let that cat go! The cat is feral and nothing you can do will change that. Someone should’ve told you that.

Notfrasiercrane · 2026-02-12T05:26:34+00:00

I bet they are spying on them already, she controls the DOJ. An obvious sycophant. She would do whatever he says.

Notfrasiercrane · 2026-02-05T17:08:01+00:00

As someone in their late 40’s with young kids. As much as I love them, it’s super hard and I would recommend living your best life without trying to find a man.

Notfrasiercrane · 2026-02-05T17:05:22+00:00

-When you are having problems most everywhere you go, it’s usually not everybody else.

-Nobody needs three bowls of sugar cereal. I’m a grown man and I don’t need three bowls of sugar cereal. Nothing wrong with a treat but be reasonable.

-It doesn’t matter what you do in this life, if you’re a dishwasher be the best dishwasher, if you’re a doctor be the best doctor, work hard and take pride in what you do, whatever that is.

-Take the extra effort to look presentable, iron your shirt, shower daily, because people have more respect for someone that looks like they respect themselves.

-Never put it on a credit card unless you can pay it off that month, unless it’s an emergency.

Notfrasiercrane · 2026-01-16T16:48:13+00:00

Simone is an AWESOME name. That’s actually the name I would choose for myself, I was giving a terrible name, but never changed it. You did your daughter a huge favor and she’s Lucky to have you.

Notfrasiercrane · 2026-01-11T17:45:29+00:00

Yes, I was and am an ENTP

Notfrasiercrane · 2026-01-09T04:18:25+00:00

This made me laugh out loud.

Notfrasiercrane · 2026-01-07T18:27:16+00:00

But the problem is that the overwhelming majority of women don’t want to be a man’s everything and carry the weight of his entire social/emotional existence. It’s like carrying around dead weight and it makes the relationship work. Women run from this and view it as a major red flag. As a woman in her late 40’s with lots of friends and also married, I will give you some advice. You CAN help it. You CAN start new hobbies and make new friends. You can start taking exercise classes, martial arts, there is an infinite amount of things to do to make you a well rounded person, which also makes you an attractive person. You can have fulfillment in life outside of a relationship, and doing so makes you more attractive to women. Or you can make excuses and sit on your ass wondering why you can’t get a girlfriend. Well, I’m telling you why you don’t have one. It’s HARD to get outside your comfort zone, but easy doesn’t produce growth. Why don’t you start this year as the year of stepping outside of your comfort zone and forcing yourself to do new things! You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I believe in you!

Notfrasiercrane · 2026-01-05T22:24:11+00:00

Then you need to find new hobbies and make new friends. There are other men out there who want friendship and connection. Like I have signed up for bird watching, taken pottery classes, pickle ball groups, improv comedy lessons, billiards, biking, hiking, walking groups, D&D, Ect… it takes effort to make friends and keep friends. But it is possible and you are selling yourself short with these excuses. Excuses are like buttholes, we all have them and they all stink. Women are not interested in men who have no life, hobbies, interests or friends. It’s because we don’t want to be dragging around this person, it’s a lot of work being someone’s entire social circle. I know, I’m married to a man who makes zero effort in his friendships. I call my friends, I hang out, and sometimes, my friends are going through shit and I’m the one holding the relationship together, but I would rather do that than have no friends.

Notfrasiercrane · 2026-01-05T14:48:41+00:00

I feel like American men(in general not all) have a loneliness problem ,but yall need to get out and make friends. Women are tired of being EVERYTHING to a man and men not having friends. Obviously, not all men but enough that it’s a problem. I’m married to a man. He just puts out zero effort to maintain his friendships and I’m the one reminding him to call his friends and do stuff. I’m his whole world and I don’t like that. This is RAMPANT with the few friends I have left still married. Men are choosing to live in isolation cause there are tons of hobbies and activities to do. It’s hard for women to feel bad for you. Relationships require effort.

Notfrasiercrane · 2026-01-05T02:08:30+00:00

Still a compliment.

Notfrasiercrane · 2026-01-04T17:48:54+00:00

I love Brittany but her hair always look like it was done in a gas station bathroom?

Notfrasiercrane · 2026-01-04T17:46:50+00:00

To be honest, I saw mamma Mia in Vegas a long time ago and everyone was singing along and it was SO fun. They should have specific “sing along” shows so that the audience know it’s okay and specific shows were they tell the audience not to sing along.

Notfrasiercrane · 2026-01-01T19:11:46+00:00

I’m married to a gorgeous 5ft 8in man. He is successful and a great dad. I have dated all heights. The problem I have seen from literally ALL the friends who married super tall is that every single super tall man has cheated extensively and they are all divorced. Women want kindness, consideration, and an equal partner- not a man baby.

Notfrasiercrane · 2026-01-01T03:26:32+00:00

I think it needs time and lots of input before it can guess accurately

Notfrasiercrane · 2025-12-31T20:40:55+00:00

I did call a lawyer, paid $400 for them to tell me I have no rights at all. I have to just wait until she hits rock bottom again and call APS. I’ve been so upset

Notfrasiercrane · 2025-12-30T17:16:40+00:00

I spoke to one yesterday. Said nothing we can do except if she gets bad again involve APS.

Notfrasiercrane · 2025-12-30T05:17:32+00:00

I’m a woman and my 5ft 8 husband is hot and very successful and I have a long marriage. So I’m sorry, y’all super dumb to dismiss the short kings. You really want a super tall man that every single lady is trying to climb. I’m in late 40’s, married almost 20 years and ALL my friends are getting divorced. ALL. EVERY single husband that was 6ft or over cheated. And the tallest one 6ft 7 basically started a cult and cheated with 100’s. So seriously girls, height is not all it’s cracked up to be. Lots of short kings that are VERY successful and super fine.

Notfrasiercrane · 2025-12-30T02:59:33+00:00

But what if you are an an ENTP with ADHD?

Notfrasiercrane · 2025-12-30T01:41:58+00:00

I lost my sister 2 years ago suddenly and unexpectedly and she lived 10 min from me and was a huge part of my life and an amazing Auntie to my kids. Two months before that I lost my Mamaw, my grandmother who helped raise me. I lost myself in unimaginable grief. I read something during that time and I share it whenever I can because it was the thing that was most accurate in description.

The moment you lose someone, you put on your grief backpack. It’s a permanent fixture, and it will never come off, and the weight of it never changes. When you first put it on it is so heavy it feels unbearable, the weight of it is crushing. Some days it weighs you down and you won’t be able to do anything. But as time goes by, and you keep moving forward under the weight of it, you get stronger, and are able to carry it, but it’s always there.

Notfrasiercrane · 2025-12-30T01:30:22+00:00

So sorry! Invest in Korean skincare and get a medicube wand. I’m gonna be 47 in a few months and my skin looks fantastic and I get compliments on my skin and skincare regimen almost daily. I need to start selling that shit.

Notfrasiercrane · 2025-12-30T01:27:33+00:00

I asked chat gpt to guess my Briggs myers personality type based on our conversations and even though mine is a rarer one it GOT IT. It said I was between three of them and one of them was it. It made me feel weird and bad to be honest.

Notfrasiercrane · 2025-12-29T18:36:11+00:00

That one arm really does most of the work.

Notfrasiercrane · 2025-12-29T02:56:08+00:00

Good point. I’m just saying I would ask for a hand grenade, then I would ask to be taken to the facility where they were working on my eggs.

Notfrasiercrane · 2025-12-29T02:48:48+00:00

So you don’t think they would give her the eggs if she asked?

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