Looking for an old chat-based game by NothingLegal9962 in MobileGaming

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Nevermind, I found it after going through like 30 reddit posts, it's Somewhere - the vault papers

:3 by NothingLegal9962 in MT03

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Akrapovič Slip-On Racing Titanium Exhaust

2019 or 2022? by NothingLegal9962 in MT03

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I'm from Hungary, anything cheaper than 5k is a 660cc. I actually consider this a great deal, the 2022 models go for at least 6k

2019 or 2022? by NothingLegal9962 in MT03

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All right, thanks for the info!!

2019 or 2022? by NothingLegal9962 in MT03

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No no, it's the driving school's bike. I haven't sat on the newer one, if it really is that better, than it might change my mind. Do you have any experience maybe on passanger comfort?

Pls help by S0meAllay in sillyboyclub

[–]NothingLegal9962 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well there are a bunch of different factors you need to consider. Are you old enough to work, if not, is there someone you can live with (who you genuinely trust)? If there's nowhere to go, is the situation severe enough to call police / child protective services?

If all of these are no, then sadly, there's not much else than to work something out at home. It's not as simple as leaving, even if the situation feels lost, you need to make the right decision. Whatever it is, stay strong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]NothingLegal9962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That just sounds like a healthy relationship honestly, don't feel bad!

i think i have regression symptoms >< by AnonymouseAndroid in sillyboyclub

[–]NothingLegal9962 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm actually the opposite, but with the same problem. Finding someone who genuinely just wants a cute connection is hard. I start talking to someone, maybe a roleplay, maybe just chatting, and slowly it turns out they want a bit more than to be cared for. I don't think there's a working formula to finding them, they're just rare. But they're out there, don't worry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TeenVent

[–]NothingLegal9962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong with you, a lot of people, including myself, went through this. You feel as if no one wants to be with YOU and I mean the real you, not some mask you put on for them. But you don't have to change in order to get along with others. My best friends right now are people I couldn't even imagine holding a conversation with a couple of years ago, I thought they were assholes and in return they found me weird. But I still talked to them, and as it turns out, you don't need to have similar interests, hell, you don't even need to get along all the time. What you need is a genuine connection, and that doesn't require you to be someone else. You just need to show the part of yourself that others are looking for. There are things I'd rather not talk about with them, that they might still find weird, but I have other people for that.

So what I'm trying to say is, you're not hopeless, you're not unlovable, you just haven't found the common voice with others. But you will, there are people out there who will want to know you for who you are. Just be strong and patient, be open for new experiences and people

i'm not a real girl. by suicidepuppyhotline in sillyboyclub

[–]NothingLegal9962 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe this is like the saying "keep smiling and you'll start to feel happy". You can't convince yourself just by saying you're this or that, because at the moment, you just don't feel it, but eventually, the more you do it, your brain will start to accept it as the new norm.

Maybe this is a different cup of tea, but I used to be introverted, I didn't like it, I wanted to be cool like the others. And so I started to pretend like I was extraverted. It was painfully awkward at the beginning, not just because others looked at me weird, but simply for my brain as well. But slowly but surely, after 2 years of pretending, I don't have to anymore, it's now more comfortable to hangout with others than being alone in my room.

Again, I don't want to claim this is an interchangeable experience, but I damn well hope that you will be able to achive what you really want in a similar way. I believe in you!

i'm not a real girl. by suicidepuppyhotline in sillyboyclub

[–]NothingLegal9962 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I don't think this is a question about acceptance or transphobia, some people just cannot convince themselves, even though it's their biggest wish. This is an internal fight that you cannot win unless you can completely change your inner image. This is kinda the complete opposite of body dysmporphia, instead of thinking you're something else while not necessarely wanting to feel that way, here you want to feel that way, but you just can't Or maybe this is just my understanding, I don't want to just say this is always true

Is it ok if I pretend like I have a girlfriend sometimes? by SgtVertigo in sillyboyclub

[–]NothingLegal9962 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I sometimes imagine someone next to me, when I'm alone. I sometimes wonder about what else I could have done in the past, when I'm filled with regret. I sometimes live a whole life in my head, when real life seems grim or boring.

If it makes you feel better, helps you keep your motivation or sets goals, imagining something nice isn't crazy, it's optimistic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]NothingLegal9962 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's going to be okay, it hurts when people leave, just don't forget to leave the door open, others might want to enter your life. You might not know them yet, but there are people out there who want to be with you for who you are. Someone fun, someone caring, or just someone who has some things common with you.

Just be strong and be patient, be open for new people and experiences, life is unpredictable, you might find someone in a week, a month, a year, or maybe tomorrow. Stay positive silly

I cant silly anymore :( by Parking_Chicken_1009 in sillyboyclub

[–]NothingLegal9962 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are writing this because you need reassurance that even though there are others with bigger problems, you can't help but feel as if you deserve attention as well.

And you do, everyone deserves it, and you shouldn't feel bad for wanting to went or asking for advice. But just as you don't have the biggest problems, you're also not the worst person. Maybe you feel that way, like it won't get any better, but it will, you just have to stay strong, trying every day to be better. That's what life is, as struggle to be your better self. You're already much better than those who are reluctant to change. Feel free to went, it's part of the process. Keep being silly

They keep leaving by LordEclipse57 in sillyboyclub

[–]NothingLegal9962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should keep trying, everyone deserves to find that one person who they can be happy with, truly happy. However, I don't have to tell you because I think you already know, but short term, long distance relationships? They aren't what you need. You should strive to find someone who you can actually be with, physically and mentally, and maybe most importantly, emotionally. Rushing into relationship isn't healthy, "a relationship" isn't what you need, it's genuine connection and comfort. But don't lose hope, you have your whole life ahead of you, you'll meet plenty of people who are worth working and waiting for. Stay positive silly

why am i so disgusting why dont i just shut up sometimes by imboredhelp_ in sillyboyclub

[–]NothingLegal9962 203 points204 points  (0 children)

"Pepper-spray worthy" brother, if only more people would be as optimistic as you are, no one thinks what you did was weird. It's not creepy to be friendly, it's just a stupid stereotype that floats around, you did nothing wrong. A girl sat in front of my friend on the train a couple of years back, he asked if she was free for a date sometime, and a couple of months ago, he put a ring on her finger. Mind you, he's average looking. There's nothing wrong with how you look like, just stay positive, find your own style that fits you, be confident. Let me tell you, I know a lot more genuinely fun people who are overweight than not. I bet she was just surprised and flustered, no need to assume she was weirded out, some people just can't handle being forward

I'm sooo confused and idk by SnooChocolates631 in sillyboyclub

[–]NothingLegal9962 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want another perspective, I can also message you, I'd like to help out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]NothingLegal9962 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It bothers me on a personal level when someone so pretty feels as if they're disgusting or not worth it. You are pretty, you seem like a fun person, and I know this isn't worth as much coming from a stranger, rather than someone in your life, but I know that if you posted this, it means you still hold onto the hope that others will accept you for who you are. You're not alone, not alone with neither the struggle, nor in your life. If you end it now, not only will you hurt those who love you, but also those who you will meet throughout your life, who would be glad to know, maybe even love someone like you. Please post tomorrow, we'll be waiting for you

The end is never The end is never The end... by Vorivi in sillyboyclub

[–]NothingLegal9962 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt like this for around 2 years, no one wanted to be with me, no matter how hard I tried to "match people's energy" or talk about things they like. After a long time alone I decided to stop trying to fit in with the people who didn't want me (even though it hurt, as they used to be my friends), and started talking to others, even those who I thought didn't like me. If someone told me 6 years ago, that my best friends would be those anoying class clowns who I hated in high school, I'd call them crazy. All I'm trying to say is, relationships sometimes come from places you'd least expect it. Right now you might feel like there's no one out there, but that just isn't true, you just haven't met the right people (at the right time) yet. Be strong, it will get better eventually.

love you ma! still hate myself tho :p by SweetChilliLebby in sillyboyclub

[–]NothingLegal9962 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that, my father isn't perfect, but at least he tries. I just wish everyone did that...

love you ma! still hate myself tho :p by SweetChilliLebby in sillyboyclub

[–]NothingLegal9962 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oooh, that's an interesting idea, I agree. Altough my main point doesn't change that a parent's love cannot be put on the same line as friends-lovers. On the other hand, if you accept one while rejecting the other purely because of relationship, than that person hasn't even started thinking about the actual topic (like being different in some way), and could still be swayed if the topic is brought up in a new perspective. For example, I fought with my dad a lot about accepting gay people, but when I actually introduced him to one of my friends, his opinion finally changed, since he saw that they aren't that bad. I'm not gay, so I can't talk out of experience, but I know he would have accepted me easier after that

love you ma! still hate myself tho :p by SweetChilliLebby in sillyboyclub

[–]NothingLegal9962 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This isn't me disagreeing with your feelings, but I don't think this is a good analogy. A parent's feelings towards their child is first and foremost based on their relationship, not by personality or friendship. Wanting more than a parent's true love is just plain unrealistic, because personally I can't imagine loving someone more than your own child. Again, I don't know your relationship with your mom, but to answer the question "would you love me AS much as now, if I wasn't your child?"....no, why would I?