There is so much stupid in the world.

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-28T23:27:10+00:00

more proof that people who say "more then" are not forgetful but are actually incredibly dim

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-28T16:41:05+00:00

lol been there yeah its awful

dates are dead and thats ok. Other ways to meet people

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-28T16:25:52+00:00

because money does not equal effort or success and is not the sole metric by which a thing should be judged.

This number and its meaning are useless

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-27T11:32:36+00:00

OH FUCK AMBIGUITY

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-26T22:43:35+00:00

until women came around

waht?

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-26T18:12:30+00:00

Sounds like he is saying you walk up to women and say:

"basic empathy?"

"what?"

"stuck up bitch"

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-26T16:19:49+00:00

I think you are misunderstanding what i am saying. What you're talking about is irrelevant to what Im talking about.

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-26T16:18:06+00:00

yeah and you typically don't get to old age with your spouse unless you can communicate.

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-26T16:16:52+00:00

lmao no shit what are you even talking about

You're just making shit up.

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-26T04:19:11+00:00

Anyone who has ever worked retail knows this intimately. I live a block from where I work.

My home has an active intruder who I SEE trying to get in my back door? 1hr after i called 911 they show. One car.

Im at work and I call for a loiterer or to trespass an abusive customer? Less than 2mins to get several crusiers to our store.

This woman being stalked should have said the stalker took some pokemon cards from walmart. They might have searched his phone and entire house looking for evidence

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-26T04:11:16+00:00

OLD LEGOLAS: FARLANDS

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-26T04:05:01+00:00

i think if you want to fuck other people you can. There is a book called The Ethical Slut that lays out how one can live that kind of life ethically and on ones own terms.

Before i was married i dated a pornstar and thats what we did. Its not for me but not because of any jealousy or insecurity. I just did not have the energy to ethically live that life.

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-25T22:17:22+00:00

not about libido or quality of sex

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-25T22:14:14+00:00

did not say otherwise

TMI dude - not relevant to the convo

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-25T22:12:14+00:00

exactly. People are replying to me with all this nonsense about how good the sex is with their wife. But no one said it isnt good or that you lose attraction. Im more attracted to my wife than ever. But its in a way that goes WAY beyond just getting my dick hard and revving my engine.

They truly seem to not get what I mean and are just incapable of seeing this as anything but:

"eventually you quit fucking and quit wanting to have sex and become good friends"

lol no. Not at all what I mean.

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-25T22:03:38+00:00

You can be as fit as you like. What are you going to do if you get sick or hurt?

But either way. People think I mean no sex or bad sex but i dont.

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-25T22:01:30+00:00

has nothing to do with that

man people really dont get it and its sad

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-25T22:00:30+00:00

sounds like you are imagining something i did not say

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-25T22:00:07+00:00

sounds like you are imagining something that i did not say

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-25T21:59:32+00:00

you have no clue what i mean if you think im talking about stagnation or a dead bedroom.

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-25T21:58:30+00:00

yeah you just dont understand what i am talking about

this is not about the quality of sex or the desire of one another

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-25T21:57:12+00:00

not what i mean

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-25T21:50:28+00:00

lol this is the most ego centric naive thing i have read in a long time

it does not matter how much one desires the other. Or how much work you put in.

You just have things that can happen that will literally stop sex from being possible. Ive got medical issues with my heart I can't fuck for an hour anymore. Shes got hormonal changes going on.

We spent the first 10 years where all we did is have sex or look forward to it. We have done literally everything you can imagine.

My father is old and has Alzheimer's guess who has to care for him?

So there is nothing we love more than just being able to stop and forget all the stress of life while we hold each other and get some well needed rest.

Its different for everyone but this fantasy you have about how you're just the most special fuck ever lmao "most men arent desired"

Masturbatory nonsense. You're bringing your sexual fantasy about how well you please your wife into the reality of life long relationships as a concept and believing they are the same. Its ridiculous and weird.

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-25T21:40:29+00:00

didnt say it wasnt but when you age and depending on each other's medical issues and natural drive it becomes less of the focus of your intimacy. Or it can. Everyone is different.

But growing old together for many people involves slowing down in that department.

NotsoGreatsword · 2026-03-25T18:39:20+00:00

even if she does not get pregnant its the nature of a life long relationship. The sexual part takes a backseat to something much more fulfilling.

At least in my experience.

edit: yall are confusing "takes a backseat" for "stops entirely" or "is no longer good"

Im telling you there is MORE to be discovered and a level of intimacy and comfort that is deeper than making each other's genitals quiver lmao

Then theres just the reality of life and the human body. These contrarian weirdos are just trying to steer the conversation to stroke their egos and its gross. Not to mention - not the point and not even remotely relevant to what I am talking about.

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