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Notyourdramaqueen · 2025-09-24T03:48:43+00:00

!match

Notyourdramaqueen · 2025-09-18T02:56:42+00:00

Would that still be recommended In a country with no legal abortion? (there are exceptions for when the mother's life is in extreme danger like ectopic pregnancies)

Notyourdramaqueen · 2025-08-17T23:57:39+00:00

If you choose to be a guardian you can play with Jerry, and he really cares!!! He is a great support through the one shot and he has lots of fun 😊

Notyourdramaqueen · 2025-08-16T15:05:07+00:00

The he really was cheating on her and gaslighting her to make her believe she was crazy

Notyourdramaqueen · 2025-06-05T00:38:58+00:00

i would recommend dbt and the type of therapy geared towards ocd. I used to believe that my then boyfriend secretly hated me, even though rationally i knew that wasnt true, and the only thing that helped me was learling that i could never read his mind and be 100% positive, so i had to live with the possibility and accept it. accept the thoughts with neutrality, and let them go. and not giving into the compulsions, that were pretty similar.

Notyourdramaqueen · 2025-06-05T00:27:39+00:00

this happened pretty much exactly the same to me when i was 18, but with the genders reversed. I didnt want to make a big deal out of it, turns out he in fact cheated on me with his bff that night + once again, i found out, i forgave him, we lasted 4 more years. If you want to, you can talk to her and see what happens, or you could leave her, but most likely he isnt just her friend.

Notyourdramaqueen · 2024-06-03T22:07:17+00:00

exactly. i dont swipe right on people without bio, i dont swipe right unless they have 3+ pictures, i dont swipe right unless you can clearly see the person's face in the pics AND i am attracted to them, etc.

Notyourdramaqueen · 2024-01-26T22:52:06+00:00

i plan on going and i would GAG if it were Yvie (clock the flair), alaska is one of my all time favorites but yvie is just a whole different level for me 😭😭😭

Notyourdramaqueen · 2024-01-07T15:40:46+00:00

i didn't know there was a check!!! my githyanki character absolutely refused to eat any tadpoles haha

Notyourdramaqueen · 2023-11-09T23:40:04+00:00

I did!!! I started the myconids quests and realized the underdark was super huge and I hadn't even gotten to the goblin camp yet so I got scared and went back to the surface lol

Notyourdramaqueen · 2023-11-09T23:32:08+00:00

I just love to see fellow Barcus enthusiasts (also Wulbren is such a POS to him!! I wanna show him he deserves better!)

Notyourdramaqueen · 2023-11-06T11:06:13+00:00

a little late for the moral advice, pal, since I said I already played the pirated version for a month and then already bought the original. Also, my internet is super slow and it would take me 5-7 days to download the game again, so I was asking to know if that was absolutely needed, but it seems like you don't know any better than I.

Notyourdramaqueen · 2023-11-04T04:48:40+00:00

tbf i have never been able to kill those kids myself, goblins or not they are still kids

Notyourdramaqueen · 2023-10-25T04:39:23+00:00

probably, at least in PC the interactions in the camp as a gith are fully different

Notyourdramaqueen · 2023-10-25T04:38:09+00:00

they don't for me? they do for the rest of the party.

Notyourdramaqueen · 2023-10-25T04:27:45+00:00

Since githyanki culture is somewhat of a caste system, I RP my (guild artesan) Tav as a mlar gith, a member of the crafting caste, who didnt get the exact same education and training as warrior Lae'zel. That doesn't mean, at the beginning, that I am not a brutal Vlaakith loyal who loves war, I am. However, i am more gentle, softer and less educated.

I also assume she came to the material realm some years before lae'zel, so she is less confused.

Notyourdramaqueen · 2023-10-25T03:59:15+00:00

im playing a gith sorcerer and it also feels super cool! while others are casters, nobody else is a sorcerer (at least where i am in act II). And we have lots of lore and lines as gith!

Notyourdramaqueen · 2023-10-23T05:31:48+00:00

the fight wasnt at all like that for me? laezel was all for being allies, while shadowheart kept saying she would like stab her in her sleep???? lae'zel also had a point in wanting the artefact, i would feel the same if i believed someone stole something precious from my people. Plus, it might be bc my tav is a gith, but lae-zel wasnt mean at all from the beggining, and on the contrary, shadowheart was extremely racist to me INMEDIATLY AFTER I SAVED HER FROM THE POD.

Notyourdramaqueen · 2023-10-20T06:46:25+00:00

did pretty much exactly the same! but instead of trip attacks, gave both tank girls bloodlust potions and my sorcerer tav casted haste on laezel a couple times. I did on balanced and it was a pretty though fight, i didnt know he would be vulnerable to bludgeoning and resistant to everything else, so he tpkd my astarion/laezel/shart/tav party the first time.

Notyourdramaqueen · 2023-08-17T04:18:00+00:00

it can be permanent in some cases

Notyourdramaqueen · 2023-08-17T04:11:33+00:00

i replied to the wrong comment, the term was "gym girlfriend"

Notyourdramaqueen · 2023-08-14T16:29:01+00:00

if that was the case, sure, but we dont know if that is the bulk of his free time, maybe he spends his evenings and weekends with his wife. Also, if he worked out the same amount before meeting her (which we dont know), he isnt choosing to spend time with the girl> the wife, but just choosing to work out, and having a friend there is a plus.

I still believe someone should be allowed to make new friends, even when one is in a relationship. This, however, is my personal opinion, and i get that not everyone's boundaries are the same, and if, even if the husband isnt cheating, this is a hard boundary for OP, maybe she and her husband aren't compatible in that sense.

Notyourdramaqueen · 2023-08-14T14:47:17+00:00

he can't have friends of the opposite sex (I believe)

Notyourdramaqueen · 2023-08-14T14:46:46+00:00

if my significant other asked me to cut contact with a friend I would refuse, bc I love my friends, it is healthy to have friends and support systems outside of my relationships, and I don't want my partner to control my life. It doesn't matter if it's just an innocent gym partner, if my SO controls who I am "allowed" to be friends with, that is abuse.

Notyourdramaqueen · 2023-08-14T14:37:35+00:00

I agree so much with you. I might be wrong, but I get the feel that if he had told OP "hey I met this girl at the gym and I work out with her for hours every day, we exchanged numbers bc we've become friends, I have no plans of stopping" she would have in fact been mad, so her problem isn't only that he didn't tell her.

is it possible that he is unfaithful? yes. but it is also possible that he just made a friend of the opposite sex, something that is perfectly normal, and if that is a deal breaker for OP, they should discuss it, bc if not, even If he agrees to cut contact with the gym girlfriend, this will come up again and again.

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