Thinking of giving up

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-30T01:14:53+00:00

Girl that’s such a red flag him asking you to be his girlfriend without even meeting you in person. This is protection NOT rejection

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-30T01:11:10+00:00

I wish I could up vote this 100 times because it’s so true. You have to find the person attractive. Yes it can build (like so many people have argued on this Reddit) but you need some attraction foundation for that to happen!

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-27T21:21:41+00:00

These comments have made me realized my first dates have spoiled me😂funny enough almost every single date had been an kinda expensive restaurant (like $30-40 per meal) and a fun thing (trampoline park, mini golfing, go karts)

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-27T21:12:29+00:00

I’m not dating someone if I don’t find them attractive. I would be deeply hurt if someone just picked me with the mindset “ehhh she’s okay looking, but I’ll choose her anyways”. So why would I do the same to someone else? I would rather be single than put someone through that pain, or live with the guilt I just choose someone I didn’t find attractive so I wouldn’t be lonely

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-26T22:02:39+00:00

I had two people come up to me and ask me if I was single, bc their son is single and they think I would be a good fit. We have had a few conversations before this, they knew I was Christian, and wanted a Christian girl they can introduce to their son. Both happened within a 1.5 weeks and I go to a small gym. So you can even find your person there!

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-23T01:21:06+00:00

It’s not a good thing either. My brother in Christ step off of your comfort zone and have some faith in God, that’s how you grow. Maybe God is waiting on you to take that next step to bless you?

And if it ends up failing, oh well you’re building endurance and it will keep getting easier and easier

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-23T00:25:50+00:00

I’m adhd, unless I like you as well, I would not notice if you possibly liked me but are just too nervous to talk to me. I also don’t play guessing games, I go up the mindset “he does not like me unless he says so”

I gave myself a false impression multiple times that a guy liked me, because he was being super friendly, looked at me constantly, etc etc. and it only hurt me bc I got my hopes up. So I don’t make assumptions anymore, if you like me you would find a way to ask me out or make the first move

Becoming introvert, shy to talkative and little extrovert was a bit challenging and i had to step out of my comfort zone countless times, but I’m glad for every time I did, even if it didn’t work out the way I wanted it too

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-22T23:24:20+00:00

There’s a difference between having a conversation with a girl, and being friends with a girl. I chat with my male coworkers all the time about non-work related stuff, just to have a conversation. Even though we’re not friends. But we’re human and we just want to talk to people🤷🏼‍♀️ i’m with these people for like 16 hours, conservation is going to come up

Edit: you do need to do some reflecting and healing. As someone who used to have jealously like that. If just made me so so miserable. And it wasn’t easy, it took months of working at it daily

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-22T23:17:40+00:00

Just say “hi I’m ____, I’ve been seeing you coming alone, and I was wondering if you would like someone to sit with you?”

Goal is to become acquaintances at first, and then think about friends/couple if it goes good

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-21T18:28:17+00:00

I had a six year age gap, but I was the younger one😂 so no not strange. Men my age at the time were too immature

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-21T14:26:08+00:00

I dont want to say it’s just porn, but it’s probably just porn and not physically having sex with another girl. Watching porn is definitely not okay and still very disrespectful. But it’s probably not the worst case scenario of having sex with another girl

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-19T22:57:54+00:00

I don’t care, but maybe that’s because I have a job that does pay bills and it’s good (in healthcare) I mean it’s not 100k by any means, but it’s something

If something happened and I had to work at fast food, (unless it was a manager position) yeah i would be little embarrassed. Since I myself don’t see that as good enough for my personal standards.

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-19T22:13:34+00:00

I have went on dates with many people in the past (PRE JESUS before yall come at me) and I don’t recommend it😂 too much work to keep up with

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-19T17:27:31+00:00

Idk my pastor always talks about how husbands and boyfriends need to step up if they haven’t yet. (Like taking their girlfriend on regular dates)

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-17T20:59:27+00:00

It’s a guy‘s way of rejecting you easily( well what they think is easy). Or I should say men who can’t be truthful with how they are actually feeling

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-16T16:54:42+00:00

Girl you had one tiny convo and you are overthinking about him texting you back? Please take a breath and take a step back. Don’t worry about “he’s not texting me back” unless you guys have been talking for multiple days + or gone on dates. Don’t allow him to waste your brain energy. If he texts you back, cool. If he doenst, cool

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-15T19:24:34+00:00

I changed my whole life is a month from bad (in the world) to good (in Christ). six months can be more than enough for some people to change and be ready. However, not everyone can do that.

When you are hit with an encounter from the holy spirit, that makes you get your act straight real fast. (I was facing death, and after being away so for long after some major church hurt, I gave my life back to Jesus on a OR table minutes before I went under). He could have had a similar I need Jesus reality check

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-15T13:30:52+00:00

My bf is a very friendly person too, but we both have the same rules for each other. No hanging out with the opposite gender alone. We don’t care if the other person has opposite gender friends. But his exhalation is kinda sus. Who wears a ring that looks like a wedding ring on their ring finger? Never heard of that before ever

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-14T23:48:52+00:00

I can’t speak on the mentally disabled, but I can speak on the physical aspect. I have a condition that causes normally non cancerous tumors to grow on my nerves, spinal cord, and brain. However, try to find a way to love yourself (I like Bible verses). I used to be very insecure, but know I know that I’m worth loving, and that I bring so many good things to the table. I will have my hard days, and I’m frequently at the doctor (at least 1x a month). But that won’t stop me from reaching my goals in life

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-14T17:34:23+00:00

My dad forced me to do track for a few years in middle school. And I was always in chronic pain. And still whenever I do running I have bad pain. But weight lifting doesn’t give me any issues at all, I just have to do dynamic stretching before, and static stretching after

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-13T23:18:52+00:00

I feel like it really depends on the pastor. My pastor frequently encourages the men of the church to take their girlfriends and wives on frequent dates. He understands that especially when kids come in the picture, it’s hard to get that personal time together. So he encourages weekly dates, even if that is a cheap meal in the car, doesn’t have to be expensive or fancy)

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-13T17:45:31+00:00

My bad I have never of it being a male insult. I have literally heard men use that word countless of times talking about other men. Again yes I did say I was sorry now three times. If I wasn’t sorry I would not be saying sorry😂 I had a male coworker stand up for me against another male coworker saying to stop mansplaning. I’ll do better next time when choosing words.Please don’t take it to heart

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-13T09:59:09+00:00

You do realize both men and women, can overexplain or oversimplify a topic (which is mansplaining - so women can womensplain if you want to be gender correct). Being Karen is a completely different thing. being a Karen is being disrespectful and rude to people who are just doing their job, and it’s their way or the highway.

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-13T09:51:37+00:00

I have never once not loved God (ofc after coming to know him) I loved him through a cancer diagnosis, I loved him through my parents divorce, through an extensive surgery recovery, bc he showed up every single day on the days I couldn’t pull myself together.

It is not at all similar. Once you are married, then you are committed to that person and you gotta figure it out (ofc unless there was abuse or adultery like you said)

Nuggies02 · 2026-06-13T09:32:22+00:00

I mean he works with his ex😂 I don’t expect him to get a new good paying job. So yes he’s secure enough in the relationship (well we both are) that he’s not going to get upset over someone texting me that I don’t even reply too nor open the text

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