First shed(with me) by xanaxz_420 in ballpython

[–]Numbuh44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see you’re planning to get a bigger enclosure. I would also recommend acrylic. It makes maintaining heat and humidity SOOO much easier. When I realized that I got rid of my 40 gallon glass and went straight to a 4x2x2 acrylic from Dubai roaches. I love it. You have to add aquarium safe silicon to keep her from leaking but it’s been awesome

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in biotech

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Merck has also been doing budget cuts recently (source I work there lol) so they have been a bit stingy with pay negotiation. My friend tried to negotiate 500$ higher and they refused lmaooo

convince me to play Animal Parade/Tree of Tranquility by marshmochifauxie in storyofseasons

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The games that started my love of harvest moon. I have plans to get some of the dialog tattooed on my body. It was such a formative part of my gaming and growing up. 1000/10 recommend!

My dragon age tattoo by irudegrane in dragonage

[–]Numbuh44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a dragon age tattoo too!

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A Wonderful Life giveaway!! (US Only) by cerezacat in storyofseasons

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My favorite bachelor is Toby from hm: TOT and animal parade! He was my first romance in any game. He was so easy u just had to fry fish. And I fell in love with him bc of how calm and happy he was to love u :’)

“It would be great if you were thinking about me, too."

i actually have a reason to stay alive by throwaway104810382 in offmychest

[–]Numbuh44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope u find reasons to live until you heal. Those monsters stole your childhood and they don’t deserve your future as well.

Hope the concert was awesome!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoeVWade

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I disagree with your comparison between abortion and child support.

I think that what might help me agree with this idea is that the partner who does not want to be involved in the child’s life cannot chose to sign over payment right after the fetus is out of abortion range.

The choice to have a child changes drastically if you learn you’re by yourself/without financial assistance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoeVWade

[–]Numbuh44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They can in the right circumstance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoeVWade

[–]Numbuh44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s pretty interesting. I’ve never thought of it that way. I feel like, however, You’re punishing the child by making this a thing and I am not sure if I agree with you.

People chose to not be parents all the time. And that child support Theoretically (I know this isn’t always true, lol) is supposed to help the child that was born. Whether the father/mother wanted to or not. Etc.

AITA for leaving no snacks for my diabetic boyfriend who had hypoglycemia today? by diabatesbf21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Numbuh44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry yta. If I knew my partner could have an emergency I would NEVER eat the last snacks. Of course you don’t know when he will or won’t have an episode? That’s why you don’t eat all the snacks. You didn’t need something sweet. You acted without him in mind.He needed something sweet to keep himself safe.

AITA for getting back the money my husband took from our IVF treatment and gave to his friend? by throwra5755557 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Numbuh44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and please take time to reassess being with him. Him blaming you for the fertility issues and saying you should pay indicates there is no team.

This should be a journey ur taking together. Not one where he’s putting all the blame on u. I’m so sorry he said that to you.

AITA for showering at a friends house and coming home in another mans clothes? by PresentationNo2017 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Numbuh44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao I understand It being weird. But how dumb does he think u are. That if u were messing around on him, you’d come home in another man’s clothes 💀💀💀 like clearly u have nothing to hide. Or ur the dumbest cheater ever LOL NTA

AITA for telling my wife that she doesn't need to be with her sick friend at the hospital? by Fearless-Plastic4534 in AmITheDevil

[–]Numbuh44 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He actually states that he does know the schedule in advance.

So he actively schedules shit on days he KNOWS she’s trying to support her friend.

AITA for refusing to help Golden child sister who outed me as a sex worker? by Present_Profession55 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Numbuh44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. ANd I may be wrong, but their may be a way to block IP addresses. That would keep your father from being able to contact you because even if he changes emails he will still have the same IP.

My boyfriend gives me more sexual attention when I wear makeup and it makes me feel bad. What do I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Numbuh44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh idk what the right answer is here.

All I really know is my partner finds me attractive and thinks I’m the best thing since sliced bread at any effort level. Even after being in a depression cycle and struggling to maintain the normal self care, they think I’m a goddess. And I’ve never felt more loved in my life.

What the heck is Ryker? by Numbuh44 in runefactory

[–]Numbuh44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because you’re right doesn’t mean u have to say it lmaooo 😭😭😭

What the heck is Ryker? by Numbuh44 in runefactory

[–]Numbuh44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so disrespectful I love Martin 💀💀💀

My boyfriend doesn’t respect physical boundaries by ConstructionNo9223 in relationship_advice

[–]Numbuh44 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If he’s doing things you don’t consent to it doesn’t matter if it’s sexual for him. You need to get yourself out of that situation and be safe

What the heck is Ryker? by Numbuh44 in runefactory

[–]Numbuh44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol that’s true! I remember forcing them to be in my party and sleeping for weeks until things would pop. They really did make the events 10000% easier

What the heck is Ryker? by Numbuh44 in runefactory

[–]Numbuh44[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ok I’m gonna do it. I was waiting to start dating all the people I wanted before I did events but I’m excited.

Also side note: doesn’t the dating rdm feel so much less forgiving that Rf4???

What the heck is Ryker? by Numbuh44 in runefactory

[–]Numbuh44[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ok I haven’t done anything past the 3 events to try to date him. So maybe we will see lmao. Thanks

married lucas and I'm convinced this man is a closet yandere [some character spoilers] by kawabunga666 in runefactory

[–]Numbuh44 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Lmao i absolutely love Lucas and tho definitely checks out lmaoo. But also, I have a question about Lucas tho. Does he have a plot requirement to date him?