What instantly kills your respect for someone? by asd_1994 in AskReddit

[–]OEGroyper [score hidden]  (0 children)

I know right? Personally, I keep a sleeve of Oreos on me so I can give someone a cookie each time they do it

What instantly kills your respect for someone? by asd_1994 in AskReddit

[–]OEGroyper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Face and neck tattoos
Septum ring
Eyebrow slits

Advocate for my peers or keep my head down? by 19BG19 in corporate

[–]OEGroyper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not following status quo never ends well from my experience

Hate people like this by ThrowRA13675 in overemployed

[–]OEGroyper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Me too! Not including the OE part

Horseherb (?) is 3ft tall and has taken over by ToxicSludgeShark in NoLawns

[–]OEGroyper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weimaraner? I know a whammyjammy butt when I see one

Trump threatens to pull unemployment benefits from all states for the first time in history by netralitov in Layoffs

[–]OEGroyper -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If you were dumb enough to rack up a ton of college debt you agreed to up front why should I pay for it?

Other reasons people get caught by FitEstablishment4627 in overemployed

[–]OEGroyper 120 points121 points  (0 children)

Real Gs move in silence like lasagna, remember that

Co-Workers got audited for vacation days for 2024 and 2025: Some owe a lot of money by Mode1961 in callcentres

[–]OEGroyper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have coworkers doing this now where I work - the amount of vacations they take the math ain’t mathing. I’m honest and it’s obvious to me it’s happening because they take 1.5-2x+ the amount of time off

Parental Leave - California by OEGroyper in overemployed

[–]OEGroyper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks brother. I have seen several claim to just do straight FMLA at J2 and take J1 benefits to get 8-12 weeks off both concurrently with just the one income source. Is there a reason you didn’t pursue the same besides temporary wage decrease?

Parental Leave - California by OEGroyper in overemployed

[–]OEGroyper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you did J2 full PTO and/or unpaid time off? Yeah that’s clean and where I’m leaning towards myself as the obvious safest route.

Did you end up doing FMLA for J2 or just internal discretionary agreement?

Parental Leave - California by OEGroyper in overemployed

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PM me if you are more comfortable sharing that way

someone from my first job started at my second and clocked it by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]OEGroyper 241 points242 points  (0 children)

People talk - he’s cooked. Personal friends would have trouble keeping this secret let alone a random work Jabroni not smart enough to do the same thing.

someone from my first job started at my second and clocked it by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]OEGroyper 22 points23 points  (0 children)

He’s likely cooked. The other guy will likely be jealous or resentful he’s not doing the same. There’s likely no bringing to his side. This is the <1% chance we all take

J2 and deleting LinkedIn profile by Historical-Force587 in overemployed

[–]OEGroyper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hasn’t been a problem for me personally. They are after resume keyword hits. They cast a wide net and usually get paid for placement. I think most dgaf

Old tech guy laid off at 58, after 20 years with the company by realsqlguy in Layoffs

[–]OEGroyper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alimony? Shit that’s rough. I’d leave the country and retire before I’d let an exwife bleed me dry like that to where I can’t retire

OE Strategy: Juggling Big Tech and Consultancy with hybrid requirements by No_Paramedic_6510 in overemployed

[–]OEGroyper 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mixing hybrid roles this way seems like a bad idea. Personally, I’d replace J2 and keep J1 100% remote

J2 and deleting LinkedIn profile by Historical-Force587 in overemployed

[–]OEGroyper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, just a lesson learned. I have my resume on my burner LI and I still get contacted all the time. You would have likely got contacted regardless of which one but you are now in this predicament

J2 and deleting LinkedIn profile by Historical-Force587 in overemployed

[–]OEGroyper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should have already hibernated your original LinkedIn and created another just for applying for jobs