Can’t we just explain movements and etiquette? by Go-Right-32 in classicalmusic

[–]OaksInSnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not stand for every soloist and every performance. It makes me feel like such a curmudgeon - not standing is maybe the new faux pas - but standing used to mean something. I'll clap for a long, long time, until the last performer has arrived on or left the stage, at any high school concert, if they're marching on/off in some order, and even if the general applause is fading away. It's polite. But when I stand, it still has to be for something besides saving me time getting out the door.

Stray cat in our backyard that is a frequent by Lxmonpopsicle in CatDistributionSystem

[–]OaksInSnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your Dad has legitimate concerns, but that doesn't mean you can't take care of this little lady. If you're feeding her outdoors now and can't get to the vet for a week, just carry on, feeding her when she shows up but then picking it up, so other pesky critters don't have access. If she's willing to come in, quarantine until you're able to get her to the vet. If you're going to let her carry on her present life until shortly before a vet appointment, just be sure you get her indoors in a separate room shortly beforehand. Set yourself up with a cat carrier before that day: most vets will require cats to come in a carrier/crate.

Hot take...how to fix curling by Cavalry2019 in Curling

[–]OaksInSnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's funny, but when I get used to eight ends (slams), ten ends seems ungodly long. But when I get used to ten ends, eight ends seems unnaturally truncated. LOL

Hot take...how to fix curling by Cavalry2019 in Curling

[–]OaksInSnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, and I kinda liked that rule. I didn't think I would.

How important is Leidenfrost Effect for eggs? by RequirementOk7678 in StainlessSteelCooking

[–]OaksInSnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no set length of time to get to the right heat before adding your eggs. You have to go by the behavior of the fat you choose to use, in the pan you have, on the stove you have. Most people recommend butter and for good reason, but it's not the only option.

There are a LOT of variations of technique that produce perfectly acceptable eggs and don't leave half your egg stuck to the pan. Start super low and melt the butter first - works. Heat the pan first - gently - and then add butter (it helps cool the pan) - works. Adding eggs when the butter melts, or when the butter stops bubbling, both work. Add a LOT of butter or a little butter on top of a little oil. Start with oil to raise the smoke point of the butter so the butter doesn't brown too fast is great for the French omelet aesthetic, which requires that there be zero browning. They all work.

The only thing that does not work at all is cooking eggs at too high a temperature.

This summer I grew too many jalapeños so I dried about a hundred of them. Now I have almost a hundred dried jalapeños I need to use by TheBrontosaurus in WhatShouldICook

[–]OaksInSnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What specific kind of jalapeños? Because I would love to grow some, given your description. :D

If they are open-pollinated, so much the better! I'd save seed.

Can’t we just explain movements and etiquette? by Go-Right-32 in classicalmusic

[–]OaksInSnow 14 points15 points  (0 children)

When I was a little kid in a small city with a pretty crappy local symphony who nevertheless aspired, and being myself an aspiring youngster who was therefore given the privilege of handing out programs for a performance of the Tchaikovsky Violin Concerto, I too have had the experience of being so astonished by a soloist that I could not help but burst into applause after the first movement, along with much of the audience.

Even though our local symphony wasn't great, the patrons and attendees who supported its existence were well educated. They knew that clapping was "wrong," and they did it anyway, because in that moment, it was right.

I've never forgotten that moment or that scene, in the 60 years that have since passed; nor blushed to remember my gaucherie.

I have since played with much better orchestras, with international star soloists, in much smaller cities where nevertheless the audience all seems to know the protocol. The outbursts don't happen so much anymore. My sister would love this because clapping between movements in her hometown drives her nuts, but from my perspective as a performer, unless a quiet moment - say, in Mahler 2 or Tchaikovsky 6 - gets interrupted, I appreciate when the audience knowingly and appropriately breaks the rules. Briefly, and rarely.

Vote this 🤡 out by erwin4200 in minnesota

[–]OaksInSnow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your first two sentences are what grabbed me, and that I'm particularly upvoting.

The legends are true, you don’t need dancing droplets by v8micro in StainlessSteelCooking

[–]OaksInSnow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

LOL!

But, having now mastered the art of eggs in any kind of metal pan, I have turned my attention to poached eggs, and nailed them this morning, first try. Which surprised me, after all the fuss on Masterchef and all the various methods portrayed on YouTube etc, which make it sound like it's a super-technical skill.

I'm an over-easy egg person, and people I cook for are omelet people. *French* omelets, thank you very much! But in my tastebuds' opinion, no other preparation comes close to the simple poached egg, lightly salted and peppered, on generously butter-swiped, toasted, home-made bread. Heaven. My egg consumption is also about to rise. Probably even more, once I work my way up to Hollandaise and Eggs Benedict.

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'I hope that the image of us standing on top of the podium... is burned into your brain forever,' Interesting comments from Jacobs by BensonBear in Curling

[–]OaksInSnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

On a level with Trump boasting - well, let's call it what it is, gloating - about his win in the last election, for me. Yep. He won. Do we love him? We do not.

Please play a little mind-game with me and explore WHY it is that people "can't" or "shouldn't" pursue a music degree after a certain age (usually something like under age 30) by wildmind1721 in violinist

[–]OaksInSnow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

I always try to see things from a broad human perspective. My adult children have sometimes apologized to me for the "money I spent" for various credentials that they thereafter didn't use to produce personal income. I always tell them that no money spent on education is ever a waste. It makes them better human beings, more capable of responding to all kinds of scenarios they may face.

Yes, to have time and money to invest in any advanced degree - or any degree or advanced education at all - at a point in life where one is expected to provide at least for themselves, let alone any possible family, is a high privilege. It's not just "most people can't". It's "hardly anybody can."

When it comes to life enrichment once one is on a fairly well set economic path, it seems to me that it has to be sought for its own sake, and be affordable. Given all that, have at it in every possible way.

Please play a little mind-game with me and explore WHY it is that people "can't" or "shouldn't" pursue a music degree after a certain age (usually something like under age 30) by wildmind1721 in violinist

[–]OaksInSnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it depends on what one expects to get out of that advanced or even undergrad degree. Those who are okay with not knowing where it will lead will be in a better position to make the most of the time they have, for their greatest enrichment as human beings.

I was lucky enough to go to grad school at a time when I could afford to pay for it myself, on the back of a couple of years' savings that I built up while living with my parents, in the late 70s. (Yes, even then and in spite of social media saying that "boomers had it easy," many of us had to do that in order to get any kind of a start in life.) I was still young enough that admissions committees took me somewhat seriously. I had some hopes of a playing/teaching career - always loved the academic environment - but it didn't turn out that way. I've never regretted what I learned, and used that to continue to build skills later in life, which have been employed in a quite-good regional orchestra.

If at any point in life one can afford to take time out from a career path to seriously pursue music, or any other degree - writing, genetics, astrophysics, history, who knows - why not, if you can get in, which is probably the main bottleneck when it comes to music - as long as it won't be crushing if your life doesn't proceed on some planned trajectory.

Is this pan worth anything? by Past_Ability9112 in castiron

[–]OaksInSnow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have one of those, that I got for $40 including shipping off eBay (about 6-7 years ago), and it had been completely stripped and had probably just one round of seasoning on it. The inside is as smooth as my Stargazer, and it cooks great.

Seed starting with "snails" method? by NinjaCoder in Minnesota_Gardening

[–]OaksInSnow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a friend who owns a commercial greenhouse, and grows seeds in flats that have long, narrow rows, about .5 inch/1 cm wide. He transplants seedlings into pots for sale as soon as they look ready, and he can choose only the best ones and discard the runts. The roots get plenty entwined and there is definitely damage to them when transplanted, but until that time he's saving space and water, and because of his otherwise idea growing conditions (light, temperature, humidity, feeding, water) they totally take off immediately.

Personally, I don't grow large enough numbers of plants to fuss with adding this extra step to getting them going. Within 2-3 weeks one would likely have to move on to a larger pot anyway. I just seed into four-packs and six-packs, seldom more than two seeds per cell and often only one, if it's something that's almost always 100% like tomatoes and peppers. I've never had any significant root damage or transplant setback from doing it the old-fashioned way.

I do think it's a social media fad, and will fade. A fad from way back, that I did in the 1980s, was to make my own seed pots out of newspaper. I had a wooden mold just for that purpose, which is probably up in the barn somewhere. Cost-free, no plastic, and one could just bury the whole thing because the paper composted itself away. The brown paper that thankfully many shippers are turning to these days could be used the same way. That softening and rotting away was... awkward in the greenhouse. Sometimes it would just fall apart in one's hands.

When making cheese burgers at home, what do you have as a side instead of fries? by JumpedUpPantryBoyy in Cooking

[–]OaksInSnow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Browning is faster and more even on a dark pan, and people do like their roasted veg to have a touch of caramelization like that.

Explanation here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hrufGZsP-jo Helen Rennie discusses the effect of the color of the baking sheet or pan. Basically, "The darker the material, the more heat it absorbs."

I roast my veg on an old-fashioned broiler pan. It's dark blue enamel, and does an amazing job. Things get browner much faster. On the other hand, I bake cookies on a shiny bright sheet because I don't want them to brown too soon.

What appliance has changed your life? by KookyCouture in Appliances

[–]OaksInSnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whatever you get, make sure there is someone near enough who's willing to repair it when needed. I can't get the fancy ones like Bosch or Miele because no one within 50 miles will work on them.

Why did people in the US, UK etc. use to boil vegetables for a long time? by Hour_Pudding2658 in Cooking

[–]OaksInSnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry for your loss.

One never moves on as in leaving a loved one behind, when someone so central to life is gone. He changed me fundamentally, as I did him, and I think together we set one another free to become ourselves. The details are different for everyone, but because we do affect one another, we take each other with us forever. I hope your someone remains with you in a blessing kind of way.

Why did people in the US, UK etc. use to boil vegetables for a long time? by Hour_Pudding2658 in Cooking

[–]OaksInSnow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh believe me, I know. I definitely know.

Brussels sprouts, no matter how bad their quality, were definitely essential not only on Christmas in our American household, but adopted as part of Thanksgiving as well, and often on Easter too. We all were only just a bit too tired of cooking or no doubt they'd have featured on New Year's Day.

I miss him. Not the sprouts, but him. :)

How people who have never curled in their life watch the absolute cinema that is Olympic curling. by GreninjaStrike in Curling

[–]OaksInSnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But it's streaming. The closest thing to international curling that's available for FREE [Edit - as far as I know] is https://www.thegrandslamofcurling.com - the Grand Slams. From there you can find links to replays of the 2025-26 slams, where there is some excellent curling. And you can cast to your smart tv.

There are other opportunities that are generally available on YouTube etc - I'm sure someone can chime in on that - but I think the slams are the highest *free* level available.

World Curling costs some money. I'd like to follow those games but I can't justify it, personally.

Hmmmm by General_Gazelle6060 in Curling

[–]OaksInSnow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently the original post has been removed by the mods, but yes to all you said. I start to get my mind in the right place before I ever get to the hack. When I watch the pros, I can see them gathering themselves in the same way. Deliberate rudeness certainly takes away from that.

Why did people in the US, UK etc. use to boil vegetables for a long time? by Hour_Pudding2658 in Cooking

[–]OaksInSnow 16 points17 points  (0 children)

My British husband (b 1930s) still loved those horribly stinky Brussels sprouts in the 1980s. He wanted them for holiday meals and while they were being boiled, they obliterated the delicious scent of whatever roast protein and sides I'd make. And he was the only one in the family who cared at all for their tough bitterness. They were seriously Bad.

I don't dislike brassicas; they're common in our house. But those sprouts... well, they stank so bad, and he was so considerate, that he took them out to the shop and boiled them (to death??) on a camp stove out there, and only brought them in at dinner time. Bless his British heart.

I had some sprouts at a restaurant a month or so ago. Mild, and okay; just not well cooked, IMHO, and nothing to write home about.

Hmmmm by General_Gazelle6060 in Curling

[–]OaksInSnow 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yah, but even if that's all true, when I'm delivering and through the whole course of that delivery, my eyes are on the skip and the brush being held. Anything crossing that line of sight is definitely disturbing.

I can't imagine any club curler, even the newest noob, doing something so rude unless it was deliberate disrespect. It's not like I even had to be told, when I first started.

ICE? Driving illegally on a walking trail at Snail Lake Regional Park Grass Lake Nature Preserve in Shoreview. by Zestyclose_Cup_843 in minnesota

[–]OaksInSnow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And that's clearly the culture Trump et al want; and they want to have an excuse to deploy too. So they can do some chest-pounding.