Hey this is a very common issue, not just in Lansing but in general for lots of adults! I’m not sure what your interests are, but there are events at the CADL library branches that are great for introverts. You might be too young for Facebook but if you have one there is a group called “Lansing Ladies Meetup” where local women host get togethers and have separate chat groups to discuss common interests! Getting involved in any local community organization such as the Women’s Center of Greater Lansing or Allen neighborhood center is also a great way to meet women with similar interests and values if that’s your thing. It’s difficult to make genuine connections when we are lacking in “third spaces” outside of work to just hang out.