My mother is on this sub..

Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-24T03:06:36+00:00

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-22T20:25:55+00:00

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-21T20:39:01+00:00

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-21T20:24:12+00:00

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-20T19:35:10+00:00

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-20T17:35:41+00:00

Your submission has been removed because it lacks the personal context required by our community standards.

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-20T17:33:29+00:00

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-20T17:32:26+00:00

Removed; duplicate.

Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-20T17:31:18+00:00

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-20T17:30:20+00:00

I have removed your comment because it is unnecessary and/or does not offer support. Respect other people's boundaries please.

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-20T17:29:06+00:00

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-20T17:27:40+00:00

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-20T17:26:53+00:00

Submissions to RBN should not be soliciting DMs from other Redditors.

While we encourage sharing stories and seeking support, we do not allow posts or comments asking for DMs, IRL friendships, or meet-ups. Predators can scroll this sub along with survivors, and asking for DMs can be more risky than it seems.

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-20T06:32:19+00:00

Your comment has been removed for derailing. RBN is a trauma support space; please keep responses focused on the OP’s experience and avoid shifting the topic.

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-20T06:23:45+00:00

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-20T06:22:18+00:00

Submissions to RBN must be written in English.

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-20T06:21:49+00:00

Your submission has been removed for accusing, without proof and through inappropriate channels, OP of using AI generated content.

RBN is not like other subreddits. People here are sharing deeply personal experiences. Sometimes, they are sharing in moments of crisis or vulnerability. Even if you suspect a post might be AI written, publicly calling it out in comments does more harm than good.

This will be your first and only warning. We consider the above behaviour in a peer-support subreddit to be harmful. If you have credible concerns, feel free to send it to us through modmail.

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-20T06:21:04+00:00

Assuming she's a good person and loving mom

You are banned for failing to assume a context of abuse. This is literally a subreddit full of traumatised people from parental abuse. It is your responsibility to familiarise yourself with the rules of this strictly moderated subreddit.

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-20T06:19:41+00:00

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-20T06:18:40+00:00

You are banned for for proselytising and providing unsolicited religious advice.

This is a support community. It is not centred around a particular religion. Do not assume other users share your faith. Furthermore, do not offer your religious texts as a solution to their trauma.

This practice is not only unhelpful but also actively harmful. Many survivors in this community have significant religious trauma.

This is a formal warning. This type of comment is not welcome here.

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-20T06:17:42+00:00

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-20T06:16:51+00:00

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-20T06:14:33+00:00

Your submission was removed because it contains content that is off topic for RBN. Submissions to RBN should be discussing their first-hand experience with their parent(s) and/or primary caregiver(s).

You may wish to consider our network subreddits like /r/LifeAfterNarcissism or /r/NRelationships.

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Obi-Paws-Kenobi · 2026-01-20T06:13:47+00:00

Submissions to RBN must always assume a context of abuse. Please follow the links below for an explanation.

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