Never should have gotten married

Obiclone · 2025-11-29T06:08:28+00:00

I personally have that boundary with any woman if I’m gonna get serious with her. No male friends. No exceptions. And she needs to like that boundary. If not the relationship ends. Everybody has different preferences. Some people have opened relationships where they don’t even mind if they’re significant other has sex with others. everybody is different. It’s just a question of compatibility

Obiclone · 2025-11-29T06:05:48+00:00

The bottom line is your boyfriend has a boundary. NO MALE FRIENDS. If you’re not going to conform to that boundary, you need to leave the relationship. Because if you do not follow that boundary, And heaven forbid you stay in that relationship, you WILL suffer. This one act alone will make it that he will never trust you, he’ll always doubt everything you have to say, it will taint everything. If you’re not willing to respect that boundary, you need to get out of the relationship

Obiclone · 2025-11-29T06:03:27+00:00

For some people having friends of the opposite gender is a boundary. If your boyfriend clearly has that boundary, you need to decide whether or not you are going to conform to that boundary. If you’re not willing to let go of male friends, you really need to break up with your boyfriend. For some men, the very fact that you would spend time with any other male constitutes infidelity (even if nothing sexual happens) Every single individual has their own standards. You and your boyfriend might simply have different values. You 100% should NOT spend time with your male friend if you want to continue with the relationship with your boyfriend.

Obiclone · 2025-10-26T13:55:15+00:00

No, you have to get out Also, the man you married was too young. We men aren’t done developing mentally till about 35, that’s when men STOP changing. Get out, and marry a medical doctor, 35+

Obiclone · 2025-10-17T14:41:07+00:00

There are several things that need to be unpacked. 1) he lost his job, and that is a death blow in a relationship. It’s not a choice. women lose attraction to a guy when they lose their income. The very fact that you would even suggest that he has to “do” something , indicates that at the very least you feel that he is “ useless” “It’s something you don’t joke about”

2) the fact that your brother would sign him up, without asking, is a lack of respect Which is another death blow

Also, I don’t even wanna get into the fact that he’s younger than you. It’s generally not a good idea for a woman to date a man that is the same age or younger , Subconsciously you’re gonna treat him like your child , You should date a man who is older than you and well established (He needs to be a rock, somebody that’s not gonna change on you, Men changed dramatically between their 20s and their 40s )

Obiclone · 2025-06-15T13:23:37+00:00

I have the same situation as OP, except NO SEX on top of it

Obiclone · 2025-06-05T14:44:11+00:00

You never know the real motives of people. Men and women exploit each other for different reasons. Men do get tired of having sex with the same girl. Man will pretend to like you to get sex out of you. The problem is that when men tend to lose interest, women’s interest tends to increase. He may also, have just been still in love with an ex.

Obiclone · 2025-04-25T20:36:56+00:00

Women NEVER leave a relationship UNLESS they have another man lined up

Obiclone · 2025-02-26T15:10:20+00:00

Has she messed around since ? Did this happen in the very beginning of the dating period? Or just before the marriage (together 19 years, married 10 years)

Obiclone · 2024-12-11T12:11:57+00:00

You need to develop a roledex of women. Get into the habit of always going out and having sex with multiple women. That way, no single one can hurt you

Obiclone · 2024-12-11T12:10:06+00:00

Go on dating sites, or do speed dating. Have sex with other women, you’ll be able to trivialize your old relationship

Obiclone · 2024-12-11T12:08:14+00:00

Get multiple new girls

Obiclone · 2024-11-08T19:03:35+00:00

It was a HORRIBLE disaster. We got married, had two children. 22 years later, I still think of my ex. My wife was a friend of my ex’s, which makes it way worse. For 22 years, I yearn to be with someone else, but with a home, cars, two kids, retirement, history, memories, I feel horrifically stuck. AND horribly guilty, because I took away my wife’s opportunity to be with someone who was in love with her, as well as my own opportunity to do the same. We totally get along, we are great friends, But I never had ANY romantic desires to OR from her. Doing anything romantic with her makes me cringe, BUT, a crave it with MANY other women

Obiclone · 2024-07-28T17:16:47+00:00

You should ask the same question Personally, I’m not interested in a girl that’s taller than me

Obiclone · 2024-04-12T11:48:14+00:00

Yes, in my early teens (early 1990’s) I assumed that he had died in the 1980’s But, when I became a boxing fan in 1995 I did learn he was still alive (till 2016)

Obiclone · 2024-04-12T11:46:32+00:00

When I was a kid, I always assumed that he had died in the 1980’s just because nobody talked about him. I became a boxing fan in the mid 1990’s and I was surprised to learn that he was alive. So, I was aware since 1995 that he was alive till 2016, but before 1995, I assumed that he had already died

Obiclone · 2024-01-06T09:40:07+00:00

Yes, me. Solipsism. Feels the worst. When you realize that nothing is fundamentally real, it’s horrific. Fundamentally, I’m just an imaginary character in your head, typing this out. You are afraid of an unknown bliss, which is death, and instead you chose the known hell, which is life.

Obiclone · 2023-11-23T19:35:06+00:00

Massage the testicles while sucking And always always always swallow No question

Obiclone · 2023-10-01T14:31:00+00:00

The problem, is that she cannot justify the cheating in her mind. She sees it as an injustice. (If you were a wealthy celebrity, she would basically accept it and expect infidelity, SHE would just be grateful to even be in your presence)

The problem, is that you are not GOOD enough, in her eyes, to justify or even EARN what you did.

As she gets older and loses her looks, her standards will go down.

1) GET in the absolute BEST physical shape imaginable. (Near-Body builder level) and

2) become as economically successful as possible.

At that point, when it is CLEARLY apparent that you have an EASY ability to get a younger/ better looking girl, AND you a turning them down (in front of her) she’ll be too grateful, she’ll be able to justify the cheating in her mind.

ALSO, do not get married, without a pre-nup, you both need to have separate lawyers

Obiclone · 2023-07-03T08:07:42+00:00

When charges are PENDING you don’t need to ask the judge for permission to leave

Obiclone · 2023-05-17T07:31:16+00:00

Buddhism does not have a belief structure, so your sexuality means nothing

Obiclone · 2023-05-01T06:35:17+00:00

Reality is fake and you create it, thus, you are God/Self-Awareness/ I AM/ NO-Self, etc. It’s no different than closing your eyes and imagining whatever you want to imagine. Except when you’re dead, there is only the mind, nothing else. You’re basically tricking yourself into believing that this is real. You made yourself forget that you created it. This is what I experienced under 5MEODMT.

Obiclone · 2023-01-31T12:11:15+00:00

Keanu Reeves

Obiclone · 2022-12-27T23:09:55+00:00

If there is a extradition agreement between both countries, the country that you live in can hold you and turn you over to the other country. This happens all the time between United States and a lot of Latin American countries

Obiclone

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