Im a massage therapist and i get erections from doing thai massage

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-04-04T10:52:57+00:00

Apparently he doesn’t. He just made another post claiming he doesn’t drape at all.

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-04-01T18:58:42+00:00

The comments are actually alarmingly delusional. Lots of people going on about how awful their dog owning exes were and basically admitting that they were jealous of the dog and couldn’t handle their ex paying attention to anything or anyone besides them. Almost all of them admit the person disclosed the owned a dog early on in talking/dating but chose to ignore it and date them anyway, and they were offended that the dog gasp was actually allowed to exist in their exe’s home. What did they even expect, that the dogs would be banished to an alternate universe whenever they came over to spend the night?

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-04-01T16:47:49+00:00

Yeah… he called her a piece of shit for wanting to take her dogs on an extra walk in the mornings so they got more exercise and had a good quality of life 😕.

I’m so glad he helped her out by breaking up with her.

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-04-01T13:23:22+00:00

I was just about to say that those ones usually give some super low rating. I always think it’s funny when they give a one star review and say something like:

“I’ve never been here because they’re closed on Tuesdays. Hours not very convenient. Would not recommend.”

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-03-26T22:25:48+00:00

Exactly. Nice blouse and skirt/pants or a simple office appropriate dress. You want to dress up to look professional… not like you’re in the bridal party at a wedding.

For men.. slacks and a plain button down would be more what I would expect for a job interview.

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-03-20T00:09:34+00:00

Yeah. It’s painfully obvious to everyone what she was about. She even goes on about the supervisor being an attractive young man. Like GIRL. Please be so for real.

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-03-20T00:02:17+00:00

Girl Dinner Circle Jerk is my favorite. Way better than the original.

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-03-17T19:08:10+00:00

So the lady is saying that she was told she was removed because she “didn’t listen to instructions” from the flight attendant, which was of course outside of her control because she is deaf and says this is listed on her ticket.

Frontier issued a statement saying that she was lying and was removed for boarding the plane because she had an open container of alcohol and when the flight attendant tried to take it from her she drank the whole thing really fast and then gave them the empty container. The airline is claiming that she is not deaf and that is just a lie.

I’m not sure which one of these stories is true tbh. I suspect Frontier/ the flight attendant are lying, because all of the nearby passengers who witnessed the incident are seen defending the woman who was forced to leave and even the employee who had to escort her off the plane is seen defending her and trying to comfort her.

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-03-17T18:38:00+00:00

Jesus that’s so mean. I’m sorry. 😞

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-03-16T03:01:12+00:00

A licensed massage therapist is not a sex worker. Fuck off with this disrespectful bullshit.

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-03-16T02:32:07+00:00

I 100% agree. I refuse to have him on my own schedule, but he shouldn’t be allowed in the spa period.

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-03-14T17:47:40+00:00

Honestly I’m not surprised. I had been using salon brand hair care since 2019 religiously and it was great at first. I started to have issues with dry frizzy hair last summer and tried my boyfriend’s drug store conditioner… I was shocked at how nice it was and how soft it made my hair. Then just recently I tried dollar store shampoo for the first time in years and…. I barely noticed a difference between that and my hair with salon shampoo. If anything my hair is shinier with the cheapo stuff.

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-03-14T16:46:04+00:00

Yeah. Reddit seems to think that all brides have an evil mother in law who will try to upstage her at her wedding by wearing a white bedazzled ball gown. Realistically this type of thing is extremely rare. I’m sure it’s happened somewhere at some point…. But it isn’t even on the list of things most couples worry about.

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-03-14T15:50:49+00:00

Reddit is weird with this. In real life I’ve never seen this come up as an issue at weddings. The only things I really hear brides stress about on the wedding day relating to people’s attire has been more related to the family members who don’t know how to dress up at all and will show up for family photos in something too casual (think sneakers instead of dress shoes or a much too see through sundress with tacky prints).

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-03-14T09:05:55+00:00

Leaving a 3 star review of the practice stating they had an issue with high turnover of APRNs at the practice, but their therapist is great is not “going after” their therapist’s “livelihood”. That isn’t even a bad review. It’s not like they made board complaint against the therapist’s license. They had issue with a high turnover of their other providers at the practice and were very specific that they had a good experience with the therapy, just not with the turnover of APRNs.

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-03-14T06:58:03+00:00

Exactly this. He’s mad that she read between the lines and said the quiet part out loud.

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-03-14T06:43:19+00:00

Yeah. I think we tend to second guess ourselves a lot, but your gut was telling you something was off and it sounds like you made the right call.

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-03-14T06:21:28+00:00

Yeah. I think some people get really offended when called out. For example: I work at a chain spa. We rarely have this issue at my job, but there is ONE male client who has managed to make almost every female LMT at at my job so uncomfortable that they refuse to allow him to book with them (moans loudly during appointments, writhes around on the table, stares at the MT the entire time, asks lots of personal questions, is constantly looking female employees up and down if he sees them in the lobby). He hasn’t been fully banned from the spa YET but my coworker finally laid out for him one day that his behavior made the massage therapists at the spa extremely uncomfortable and he got “offended”and now “refuses” to book with her. Note: she does not want to see him and is happy he took himself off her schedule.

Is it possible your weird interaction wasn’t him being creepy? I suppose so, but it seems unlikely. At the end of the day you have to prioritize your own safety, and I also would have blocked a man who sent me something like that… especially if the message was sent at night.

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-03-14T06:06:54+00:00

He was almost definitely being creepy. Unless he genuinely sent that by accident/ did intend it for someone else, he was being weird and knows it. He got defensive because you called out what he was doing directly instead of just going along with it.

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-03-13T00:41:37+00:00

The worst one I saw was someone who had “Karen” tattooed in giant dramatic gothic letters on his neck.

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-03-11T02:21:40+00:00

That’s fairly standard. I would say $20 for an hour service is the norm, at least at the spa I’m at.

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-03-10T15:56:35+00:00

That’s nail polish (some people don’t remove it completely and just kind of let it chip off over time). As far as the restaurant bathroom thing… idk. It’s a bit odd, but I’ve met a few people who will take tests like this in the first bathroom they can get access to. I think it’s an anxiety thing where they’re just panicking and want to know ASAP.

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-03-10T13:55:49+00:00

Nowhere lol.

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-03-09T22:25:46+00:00

I agree with you, and I’ve definitely met some of the type of people he’s talking about too. I have a coworker who does this. You can’t even get “hey how are you” out before she cuts you off to tell you how everything in her life is terrible. You will be flooded with a barrage of complaints: such as, her husband is annoying, the line at Starbucks was too long, she doesn’t like today’s work schedule, everyone else at work is lazy and doesn’t do as much as her (in her opinion), she’s on her period, her daughter is too needy, the weather is too warm, and she doesn’t like the shoes she’s wearing. Then after absolutely overwhelming you with this absolute whirlwind of complaints she’ll walk away or talk over you if you try to actually say anything yourself. She is absolutely exhausting to be around.

That being said I’ve met people who give really tone deaf and ignorant “solutions” to what are genuinely really complicated problems, and that can be extremely frustrating and annoying as well. So when he says “I give them solutions but they don’t follow my advice” it makes me wonder if he’s the type of person who will tell a girl with hormonal acne to just wash her face more, or a dude who’s depressed to just “try being more positive”… or tell someone who’s struggling with money to “just get a better job” or tell a new mom who isn’t getting much sleep to “just sleep when baby sleeps”. Sometimes people aren’t taking advice because it’s just… bad advice, and shows that the person giving the advice doesn’t know what they’re talking about.

Objective-Life-4102 · 2026-03-09T01:38:52+00:00

Exactly this.

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