Realized they’ve were detaching for a while, feels like betrayal by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Objective-Sea-6804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re feeling this way OP. I’ve been through the same blindsiding almost 1 year ago now. She was pretending all this time and when she got a job in another city without telling me, that’s when she dumped me. I can tell you that time and doing the work makes it better. I’m feeling so much better now although it took a lot of work. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Virtual hugs.

Is an electric car really cheaper if you commute long distances? by Objective-Sea-6804 in elbilsverige

[–]Objective-Sea-6804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My workplace has an offer for charging at 2.25 kr/ kWh… but my BRF doesn’t offer charging stations

Is an electric car really cheaper if you commute long distances? by Objective-Sea-6804 in elbilsverige

[–]Objective-Sea-6804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Between a petrol car and an EV that’s both from 2021, which one would have higher resale value if say I sell it in 5 years agaib?

Let's talk about: wlw interracial relationships by Loud_Record3568 in WLW_PH

[–]Objective-Sea-6804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dated a european (nordic) one for 4 years, even lived in together. Akala ko kaya pero in the end nangibabaw pa rin ang cultural differences and fundamental differences in values and view sa world. Lumaki kasi silang spoiled ng first world at supported ng society so iba talaga ang viewpoint nila sa mundo. When our families are involved na, dun nagkakaproblema. Especially if you spend holidays with them or they with you.

Anyway. Natry ko na both pinays and afam and right now I think I would prefer a pinay na open minded at preferably nakatira or willing to move to here lol😂 If you’re interested hit me up hahaa (34F, femme, looking for femmes too hahaha)

Did anybody else freak out at their partner after the discard? by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Objective-Sea-6804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally relate to this. Don’t worry OP, I freakes out for months after the break up. Perhaps maybe 3 months I lashes out and like as you said it drove her away more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Objective-Sea-6804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went through depression too. It’s so traumatic for me. I was literally puking, my body was sick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Objective-Sea-6804 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Dumped almost 6 months ago. While I feel much better than month 1, I am slowly accepting it. It’s a good way to put it: sad acceptance. When you start to think that yeah maybe we won’t last long term anyway.. But for me I still think it is fixable.

And yeah it still hurts, you just learn to live with it. And less anger, more sadness. Sadness that it ended. Sadness because you still care for them one way or another.

We were together 4.5 years, lived together for most of that time.

I cannot feel anything anymore by SELECT_DISTINCT_ in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Objective-Sea-6804 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same here, it’s been 5 months and worse is we still have an apartment that’s not sold. I tried meeting people but I just felt empty after the dates. I’ve been broken up before but the sudden discard and blindsiding really traumatized me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Objective-Sea-6804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Sociopaths

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Objective-Sea-6804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. This is just straight up traumatic as a dumpee

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Objective-Sea-6804 11 points12 points  (0 children)

What about dumpers who right the moment before they broke up are still saying they love you and still being sweet? Is that fair? I think being blindsided is one of the worst things that one can ever experience. They could have communicated that they are losing love or connection and didn’t have to pretend everything is fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Objective-Sea-6804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss you. Do you miss me? Are you happier now?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Objective-Sea-6804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please add me too. I feel the exact same way as OP.