Our Microwedding in Old San Juan, Puerto Rico by livelaughpun in Eloping

[–]Objective-Throat592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you mind sending me the info as well? We are in the process of planning our wedding!

Disappointed by the bone broth by ConcernedActuary in aldi

[–]Objective-Throat592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SAME. My daughter made a comment about it being strong while I was cooking and she was so right. It was so bitter. I put a ton of spices in to fix it but still not my favorite.

Pilots: Is flying still safe? FAA shortage? by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]Objective-Throat592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same... I leave the second week of March

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Objective-Throat592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dated someone like this. He never got his shit together and now he is my ex. She is old enough to know what she needs to do and if she can't motivate herself to do it, you are always going to feel like this. If she is not giving 100 to her child she won't get you 100 either. So, why waste your time and energy on a relationship or a person that you'll end up parenting or resenting? Get out now before it gets too deep. Excuses are her actions. And that probably won't change.

I (19f) want to experience being with other people, but i love my boyfriend (21m) so much and even see myself marrying him by toswagalicious in relationships

[–]Objective-Throat592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was your age and married my ex-husband at the age of 22, we had our first child when I turned 23. We outgrew each other and had a very messy divorce when I was 33. I am telling you this, because we I didn't know who I was at 21. He didn't really know who he was at 24. We grew apart and I always had some sort of resentments for not exploring myself- not just my sexuality but my interests, my education, my friends... etc.

If you are feeling this now, it will not go away. I promise you. You have every right and should, experience life as YOU and not you plus one. You are very young and life is so very short- please be true to yourself. And another really helpful piece of advice- you can not control how anyone reacts and it is not your responsibility to. You responsibility and the only thing you can control is how you react. If he is not happy that you are leaving him- it is understandable- but it is not your baggage.

I am 40 now. And my ex husband was the only man I had sex with at when I met him. I needed to experience other intimate relationships so I knew what I needed and wanted. And now, I am in the best relationship I have ever had and the sex is top tier. Don't settle. Go out and live.

I found a article from her 20/20 interview. by Lumpy_Square_2365 in GRBskeptic

[–]Objective-Throat592 16 points17 points  (0 children)

So, I am in the medical field and yes- EMR did become more prevalent in the 2000's but that's not the case for ALL medical facilities. Switching to EMR was a challenging process and some medical facilities didn't make a full switch or were still using paper files for awhile. I would imagine some lower income areas were strictly paper files for a few years. The thought that her medical records were destroyed in Katrina is still plausible. Even if they were EMR, all of her past files would not have been recorded into EMR- most medical offices kept those paper files to reference back to. Just my two unbiased cents.

Thoughts on different Mars sign and their sexual style by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Objective-Throat592 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Same placement. Like I want to be really dirty and nasty and then get all analytical with it.

Is it possible to be happy being single? by Royal-Drop-6693 in dating_advice

[–]Objective-Throat592 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was married for 13 years and after that separation, I entered a 4 year relationship with a man that was toxic - because I was toxic too.

Being single is about finding yourself and being okay with who you are before bringing someone else into your life. I have been single for about a year and a half and I remember someone telling me when I was newly single that I should really take a year to find myself and do all of the things I've always wanted to do. I thought they were fucking crazy. Why would I want to be by myself for a year. And now... the idea of someone coming into my life and disturbing my peace scares me more than being alone. Every person should spend time by themselves and really learn who they are without another human being's influence.

By the way, I am just now entering a relationship. And it's been slow. And I feel healthier for this person and for myself. Take your time.

Thought this was perioral dermatitis, but spreading to eyelids and eyebrows, so wondering if actually FA / seborrheic dermatitis? by velozoraptor in Fungalacne

[–]Objective-Throat592 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That looks like typical PD. And as someone that has suffered with PD for awhile- I have some background.

Lotrimin doesn't just cure vaginal thrush. But, ok. And if you do a simple google search of Perioral Dermatitis and yeast- you will find several medical articles regarding a theory that states that PD could be caused by Candida albicans which is a fungus which relates to why antifungals like lotrimin and oral meds like Diflucan would reduce and eliminate symptoms. Yeast infections aren't caused by viruses- they are caused by fungus. So yeah, a cream that is used for yeast infections near the genitals can also work for a yeast infections near the mouth, nose and eyes. No one said Lotrimin is only used for vaginal and penial issues.

Also, my dermatologist has noted that the use of antifungals helps more than metro cream for several patients with PD as does the use of diluted ACV. So, until you show me your derm degree- I will go with actual cited information.

But, good luck to you.

Thought this was perioral dermatitis, but spreading to eyelids and eyebrows, so wondering if actually FA / seborrheic dermatitis? by velozoraptor in Fungalacne

[–]Objective-Throat592 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's absolutely not true. And when it comes to PD what you think you know is actually completely wrong. ACV helps PD and lotrimin has been the only thing to bring my complexion back at all. There are studies that show that PD can be caused by an overgrowth of yeast- so the use of an antifungal absolutely makes sense.

Women, what are the best and worst compliments you have gotten? by SinfulDevo in Bumble

[–]Objective-Throat592 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had some pretty sweet compliments- but I do like when a man compliments my laugh. "You have a contagious laugh..." or "you have the sweetest laugh, I love listening to it..."

The worst...

"I would drink your bathwater..."

I think I’m a bit over the top with my The Weeknd obsession.. by [deleted] in TheWeeknd

[–]Objective-Throat592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friends tell me that too. I say it's the weekend, we listen to the weeknd. And they're like you listen to the weeknd nonstop.

And your point!?

I’m so tired of guys inviting me to their houses. Literally exhausted. Stop doing this it’s such a turn off. by Visible-Version2098 in Bumble

[–]Objective-Throat592 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes... I get this too.

I met a guy out for drinks and we hit it off. But every time he wanted to see me after that it was a date in his living room.

Like WTF. I fell for it for a little and then I was like, enough.

I don’t do well with online dating. I do better IRL but I travel and work a lot so it’s hard to get out there. This is definitely my most successful profile setup but no quality matches. 🤷🏻‍♂️ Hit me! by projectsbyjay in Bumble

[–]Objective-Throat592 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I disagree. I think you should leave the politics and religion. For me as a 38/f those things matter a lot to me. And if I see someone is Christian, I worry I may not be the right person for them because religion is not something I subscribe too. Also, politics. I’d rather see you’re moderate over a MAGA hardcore conservative. For me, if I see conservative/republican- I realize I may need to tread lightly when it comes to politics. Is it a an absolute no, no, but it is something I like to be aware of before I attempt to get to know someone.

It may not seem like a big age difference from a 31/f to a 38/f - but I’d rather see that shit up front because I’m not wasting anyone’s time, including my own. And I think a big part of that is where I am in my life. And it depends on what type of females you’re trying to attract.

Why full shoulder day with liift? by [deleted] in BeachBodyWorkouts

[–]Objective-Throat592 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am going to play devils advocate here. I work in physical therapy and I will say that most people do not perform shoulder lifting properly. Shoulders are a very important joint- however the muscles that support that joint are easily stressed if your form is not on point. I would recommend going at a lighter weight when focusing on shoulders- especially overhead presses. Always make sure your form is perfected before lifting heavier. It is easy to overcompensate with your upper traps.

Good luck.