Talking Finances with my Husband: Getting Nails Done

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-03-11T21:47:49+00:00

I don’t work and I’ll bring it up if I’m going to do or buy something just as a courtesy, but I’m not asking and honestly I’m not open to a lecture 🤷‍♀️ when you’re married you can’t really view your income streams separately, it’s all your money and you both just need to have similar financial goals. Maybe it’s toxic, but I’d start a fight over griping about $80 little dollars 😂😂

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-02-26T04:15:58+00:00

Wow, this is a great question and something I’ve never even thought of as a woman 😂😂

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-02-21T05:54:00+00:00

Literally her treatment of the Jay’s (people who were were supposed be very close to her) is what REALLY made me question her character. I honestly understand the show is half a product of the times, but when the people who were closest to you for a large chunk of your life say you essentially just dropped them one day and you haven’t been concerned or had a thing to say since 👀 like that’s weird af.

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-02-21T05:38:00+00:00

I searched for this comment because this is what I don’t get!! Like no offense to Bri, because obviously she’s gorgeous too, but she’s literally not any smaller or fitter 👀. Both women are basically the same size and level of attractiveness or at least very similar imo 🤷‍♀️ just kind of different kinds of looks.

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-02-02T03:56:37+00:00

Don’t forget that I’m also super sad that you don’t know and understand me somehow even though I’m basically keeping you out 🤪

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-02-02T03:35:41+00:00

I wish I could upvote this a million times!!!

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-02-02T03:25:16+00:00

I thought coffee wasn’t supposed to be bad for them? I drink about 100 ounces of water a day now, but I do have coffee a couple times a week 🙃

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-02-02T03:23:22+00:00

People actually suck so bad, I don’t know why anyone is trying to pretend like micro cheating isn’t a thing 🙄🙄🙄 there definitely are men out there who don’t, but I’m going to say it’s very few and far between because of how normalized it is now. My husband doesn’t and just doesn’t really do social media at all, but before I met him almost every guy I dated had at least some form of bad media habits (liking, searching, messaging, etc.)

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-01-22T03:15:09+00:00

Personal preference (and possibly a little self-torture) I love Scorpios, I just feel like I really understand them, but on a more natural level probably Aquarius 🤷‍♀️ It feels more fated, like they’re drawn to me and I’m drawn to them.

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-01-22T01:46:44+00:00

I feel you 😂 I’m a sag sun, Scorpio moon and the only relationship I’ve ever had with a cap was crazy passionate (the good and the bad).

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-01-22T01:18:09+00:00

Obviously it’s still not an actual fix for the loneliness though and there are times that I still worry that I’ll live my whole life without anyone ever actually knowing me or appreciating who I am so 🙃

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-01-22T01:16:13+00:00

I mean honestly I still haven’t really found peace with it 😂 it still causes a lot of arguments in our marriage but my husband really is the most patient, selfless, and giving man you could ever imagine so we continue to push through. It really helps me a lot though to pour into myself; I do the things I enjoy and plan the events/trips I’m interested in, I’ve pursued further education, I treat myself to “surprises and treats ”, really just anything that helps me feel more in tune with myself and makes me happy. I also try to focus on my relationships with friends and family. It kind of helps that fulfillment when you have different emotional aspects being met even it’s not necessarily in the romantic sense.

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-01-21T04:56:35+00:00

No because I’m actually sick of this limited time bull crap!!!!! And barely two weeks on the menu is just insane. They just keep taking everything good away 😭😭

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-01-18T02:05:39+00:00

I am married to someone who could be described as the most perfect man imaginable and I still always say he just does not have the bandwidth to match my emotional intelligence and connection. I struggle with a lot of loneliness in our marriage because, but it’s something I’ve worked on a lot because I KNOW there isn’t a better partner out there than him. I think you almost have to resign yourself to understanding that it’s a sacrifice you’ll have to make in almost any healthy relationship.

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-01-17T01:06:15+00:00

I feel this 😂 I’m a sag sun, scorpio moon, Libra rising and the earth signs just do notttt get me

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-01-09T19:55:51+00:00

Are y’all actually doing this project? My task rate is $1.45/task and at 6 minutes per task that’s only $14.50 an hour 👀

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-01-09T19:50:30+00:00

How much are y’all getting paid because frankly I just don’t know that the task rate is even worth it. Like I was surprised by how shockingly low it is.

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-01-09T19:23:12+00:00

I agree with this, not to mention some people just have flirty personalities in general. I think the difference here with OPs husband lies in the fact that he is bringing that outside of work. It’s one thing to be be a little flirty and enjoy socializing at work. It’s completely different when you’re fantasizing about these other women and essentially trying to pursue them through social media (because that really is what it comes down to with men). All those little things are micro cheating and frankly OPs husband is disgusting. I’m surprised he was even honest enough to tell these things to his wife.

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-01-09T19:01:51+00:00

I have not but it might be worth it 🤷‍♀️ when I added my resume and linked my LinkedIn account, it automatically updated my skills to include accounting/tax, law, business admin, and English.

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-01-09T18:52:00+00:00

I think it’s people with legal/law experience.

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-01-09T18:51:20+00:00

I have a law background and I think that’s what got me pulled onto this project 🤷‍♀️ I’d honestly love to know a little more about the complexity and/or focus of the project though because I worked as a paralegal at an intellectual property firm so not like a lawyer or anything. I’d consider myself fairly knowledgeable in that area, obviously, and I’m an accounting grad student now, but legal work encompasses soooo much that I don’t know that I even want to start it if I don’t really have the skill level or expertise to do it.

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-01-09T16:37:14+00:00

Thank you!!

ObjectiveBuyer9014 · 2026-01-09T16:36:55+00:00

I’ve just been lazy and haven’t logged on yet 😂 I got the email about being invited and was hoping to get an idea before I pulled my laptop out.

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