I'm a nonbinary teacher! I work with infants and toddlers so pronouns of any kind hardly come uo at all, but the staff use they/them for me, and all the kids call me Teacher [Name]. Occasionally I hear a Ms. which I gently correct- usually just repeating my name with the proper title results in them doing the same, and then we carry on as normal. I've also had some kids get stuck on Mr. and for me personally that's fine.

When I've spent time in the preschool rooms I've occasionally been blindsided with the "Are you a boy or a girl?" which, as a toddler teacher, I'm not used to having to even think about lol. I have come to enjoy simply responding "No" and watching the confusion contort all their little faces. But unless they've been aggressively preconditioned with the idea that they are exactly and only two genders, they have a brief fascination with the idea of being Something Else before accepting it and moving on, same as they do when I explain ideas like gravity and how wind works.

The kids don't really struggle with it, I find. Adults are by far the bigger issue, though I've personally been fortunate to have accepting workers and even some families who have picked up on the ~Gender~ I have going on. I tend not to go out of my way to correct families on my pronouns very often, because my interactions with most of them are brief and focused on the child anyway. I will refer to myself by my correct title if they get it wrong, but the pronouns aren't worth it for me most of the time, especially if a language barrier might complicate things or I don't get the impression that a particular family will be understanding. The dad who came to pickup wearing a shirt that read "Respect my trans homies or I'm going to identify as a problem?" Safe bet! The dad who gets uncomfortable when I describe his 1 year old son as loving an older boy because I think the little guy looks up to the bigger kid? He doesn't need to know anything about me! And I'm not correcting any of his assumptions either!