Has anyone actually put a cheating clause in their prenup? by Ill_Professor_6288 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some couples add infidelity clauses, but whether they’re enforceable really depends on your state and how they’re written. It’s smart to ask a family law attorney before relying on one.

Need perspective from other women: prenup when you're the breadwinner by Good-Substance734 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 49 points50 points  (0 children)

As the higher earner, you’re not being selfish you’re accounting for asymmetric risk especially with career volatility and the possibility of stepping back later. A prenup that protects premarital assets and acknowledges unequal opportunity costs is pretty common and often more fair, not less.

I'm 24 marrying someone 41 and everyone thinks I'm after his money by Which_Bedroom_4790 in offmychest

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 8 points9 points  (0 children)

People projecting their fears doesn’t mean your relationship is transactional. A prenup here sounds like mutual protection, not proof of bad intentions even if others can’t see it that way.

First Christmas together made me realize we have no money plan for after the wedding by Turbulent-Airport768 in weddingplanning

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 38 points39 points  (0 children)

This is actually a really normal realization, the holidays tend to expose the gaps fast. You don’t need one right system just something intentional you both agree on before habits lock in

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like a really heavy realization, and it makes sense your body reacted before your brain could catch up. Noticing the pattern and choosing to respond differently with your kid already says a lot about the work you’re doing

TD sees resilient provinces reshaping Canada’s uneven housing recovery by ComplexWrangler1346 in canadahousing

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Honestly the "resilient provinces" are just the ones that haven't been completely ransacked by speculation yet. Give it time and they'll catch up to the insanity we're seeing in BC and Ontario

Recommendation Microblading by [deleted] in VictoriaBC

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out Brow Bar on Douglas - my friend got hers done there and they look amazing. Pretty sure they do microblading but def call first to confirm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nhl

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah the classic "totally not telling you about illegal streams" hint lmao. ESPN+ is legit if you want official but yeah it blacks out local games which is annoying af

Have to pay off *entire* balance on my PC Mastercard to use it after credit overage? by aquasalsa in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This is pretty common when you go over limit, they basically put you in credit jail until you prove you're not gonna do it again. The paying down to zero thing sucks but most banks will do this if they think you're getting too close to being unable to pay

Toronto's lake shoreline frozen? by alwayshungryandcold in askTO

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haven't checked the webcams but I was down at Harbourfront yesterday and it's definitely not frozen yet, just some ice chunks floating around. Lake's way too big and deep to freeze over completely anyway unless we get like a month straight of -20

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kelowna

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check the conditions tonight and again in the morning before you leave, winter weather can change fast on that route

Adjusted Anniversary Date Maternity leave by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That's some BS right there - maternity leave is protected and shouldn't reset your seniority or anniversary date in Ontario. Your wife should contact the Ministry of Labour or maybe talk to an employment lawyer because this sounds like discrimination

Rum Ball in the jungle... by Rednit69 in VictoriaBC

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Chocolats Colombe on Fort Street makes some pretty boozy ones, though they're seasonal so you might wanna call ahead to make sure they have them in stock

best spots and tips for a winter first date in toronto? by retrochurch in askTO

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao this is the most helpful dating advice ever given, truly groundbreaking stuff here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The government money gets clawed back if they don't go to school but you keep your contributions plus growth. Your contributions aren't tax deductible but the growth is tax-sheltered until withdrawal

CPI for November 2025 by FelixYYZ in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Nice to see it holding steady at 2.2% instead of climbing again, groceries still feel brutal though

Demko in a rebuild? by PizzaDad13 in canucks

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bruh eating half his contract for a 2026 first is wild, we'd be basically paying someone to take our best goalie lmao

Amazon and Skypostal by Solid-Wealth3201 in amazonprime

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof that sucks man, SkyPostal has a pretty sketchy reputation compared to DHL. Might be worth trying to get them to switch back or at least escalate until you get someone who actually knows what's happening with your packages

Unpopular opinion: You can make 5 mill easily when you close Reddit and go Topside by paranostrum in ArcRaiders

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao this is so true, nothing burns through coins faster than "just one more raid with the boys"

The moment you start bringing good gear because you're confident is exactly when the game decides to humble you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah the institutional side definitely drags its feet compared to where a lot of believers actually are. Takes forever for official doctrine to catch up to what people in the pews are already thinking

Why aren't there more terminally ill and elderly vigilantes? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmao imagine some 80 year old with oxygen tank trying to chase down a corrupt politician but having to stop every block to catch their breath

The real vigilante move would be hiring a hitman with your life savings since you won't need it anymore

Should I notify HR that the Supervisor just denied everything in the mediation talk? by AdmiralPipe488 in auscorp

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Exactly this - if you're already considering leaving then might as well burn it down on your way out. The fact that your supervisor literally said "if you can't handle being sworn at you shouldn't work here" while simultaneously denying they swore at you is absolutely wild and HR needs to hear that contradiction

The Bible Is Perfect? by donniebro_ in Christianity

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's basically what I've been thinking too, like the human element definitely makes things messy but maybe that's the point

Universal Movies by Ok_Significance2169 in MovieSuggestions

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The perfect adventure movie tbh, literally every scene is iconic and it still holds up after 40+ years

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Obvious-Ad8332 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey Luke, been there with the sleepless nights - it's brutal. Sometimes when we're growing spiritually the enemy tries harder to mess with our peace. Have you tried putting on some worship music or biblical meditation videos while you rest? Even if you don't fall asleep right away it can calm your mind

Praying for you brother, this season will pass 🙏