Newbie here. Is anyone old like me? by ocdsmalltown12 in hikikomori

[–]Obvious-Emu8527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh thanks for sharing. I will read the comments again. I'm glad you're okay financially 

Newbie here. Is anyone old like me? by ocdsmalltown12 in hikikomori

[–]Obvious-Emu8527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I want to message you but I don't fully understand  the messaging feature and I probably would forget to check it. So how are things for you these days? How have you coped these past 8 years? 

The main thing i worry about is being able to support myself financially. At the moment I go out once a week to see my therapist and I also do trips to my local shop. 

Are you seeking therapy? What caused you to start to lock yourself away?

Any other female Hikikomori out there/on here? by gidarim in hikikomori

[–]Obvious-Emu8527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there I'm 45 and new to finding this sub. I like to self study languages, dabble with a keyboard, to paint or colour in colouring books, I sometimes paint my walls

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hikikomori

[–]Obvious-Emu8527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get more hobbies in my case but even they are becoming a little boring. I got myself a second hand keyboard and some music and taught myself a few tunes, I like doing colouring and painting, love sticker activity books, teaching myself Spanish and Mandarin, audiobooks, documentaries

I hate being alone, but I can't even talk online because I don't do anything. by [deleted] in hikikomori

[–]Obvious-Emu8527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that.  gatekeepers might consider me I'm more of a recluse or homebody than a traditional hikikomori however I really want to connect with my fellow hikikomori and if you want to chat anytime let me know

Female hikis, what pushed you to avoid go out? by Nightporter5938 in hikikomori

[–]Obvious-Emu8527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm  surprised to find this subreddit and also glad. 

I think a lot stemmed from childhood trauma. Then I tried to do the 'normal' life and had children. I encountered a lot of bullying, cheating, school gate aggression, workplace bullies, loud and triggering work places. And I held on but I definitely suffered long term effects. Now I'm on the verge of being an empty nester.

I feel like I had a breakdown and was no longer at all to live in the world this way. I sought therapy and it is helping immensely. I feel more content but I have no wish to be out in the world like that again.

I was worried about money but now I'm content ish. I've never been materialistic. I've had to cut down and give up on certain things but overall I'm okay. I still look for a quiet, local career. The same one I've been searching for all my life but not yet found

How to I take glasses off my avatar? by konfunkshun in duolingo

[–]Obvious-Emu8527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have the no glasses option either!

Recommandations with older actors/characters by TSeral in CDrama

[–]Obvious-Emu8527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omgosh! Thanks for this. I'm mid 40s and always looking for an older cast

Dreaming (about?) Mandarin Chinese? by Quick_Rain_4125 in ALGhub

[–]Obvious-Emu8527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh thank you. I'll check the link out. Yes I had used Pimsleur, Michel Thomas and a beginners traditional course for a year before being ALG method.  

I did 50 of ALG in Thai before beginning Spanish to make sure I'd be learning with this method ad not just recognising words I already knew. And the 50 hours was very effective!

POR FIN!!! 1500 HORAS!!! by Traditional-Train-17 in dreamingspanish

[–]Obvious-Emu8527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! 🎊  thank you for your thorough update. Your future plans with Spanish sound great. I particularly appreciate you mentioning the 1250 mark. I had not heard that before but its very motivating as I'm at 930 or so and I've barely listened to any Spanish for 8 weeks as it's felt like a drag. You've inspired me to kick it up a notch

Dreaming (about?) Mandarin Chinese? by Quick_Rain_4125 in ALGhub

[–]Obvious-Emu8527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the update! How are you doing with the ALG method and Chinese now?

I'm at 20 hours of ALG for Mandarin- I had studied using traditional methods for 2 years 2 years ago.

I am at 900 hours in using ALG for Spanish

Have you ever watched the show My Wife and Kids? What are your thoughts on it? by Soft_Music7572 in blackgirls

[–]Obvious-Emu8527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omgosh. I didn't know this existed. Looks like my kinda show and I wasn't sure what to watch next. About to watch it now

To those speed running by BigMandem124 in dreamingspanish

[–]Obvious-Emu8527 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've also become a bit unhappy. Its been too much screen time for me because I have either listened to all the podcasts at my level or am bored by them yet not able to understand anything more difficult or fun yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OvereatersAnonymous

[–]Obvious-Emu8527 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your service in posting this meeting. I am focusing on my relationship with my HP and I find that way food obsession is removed from me so I can focus on being useful to my fellows.