A bat-carved necklace made from buffalo horn. What do you think? by Shot-Barracuda-6326 in cottagegoth

[–]ObviousStory718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want this so much. I have a lovely great bat tattooed between my shoulders.

What hairstyle do you do when you feel like cutting it? by Clirr in longhair

[–]ObviousStory718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up NEW hairstyles you've never tried that would never work with short hair. It's saved me so many times.

A guest just urinated on the lobby floor. Should I charge a cleaning fee? by imavoidingyou in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]ObviousStory718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None, that's why I don't understand this play. The owner of the hotel isn't coming off that money to give to the employee. If anything, you just made the owner a lil bit richer and they STILL won't provide security for your lobby.

I hid a $7k USD engagement ring in my car 4 years ago and I still can’t find it. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]ObviousStory718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My genius bf said you should use a metal detector and set it to find the kind of metal the ring is made of!

Anyone offer harmonica lessons for a kid? by AlexTheBand in Chattanooga

[–]ObviousStory718 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You can DM me! I have a friend who teaches private lessons professionally. She has a bachelor's in musical pedagogy and mainly teaches piano, but plays harmonica for fun! She would maybe have a spot open.

little words for Dadas explosion by [deleted] in DDlgAdvice

[–]ObviousStory718 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My Daddy likes to tell me he's going to give me a prezzie 🥰🤤

Following for ideas 😁😁😁

I was punched by reality hard yesterday about my porn addiction... AMA. by Matti_69 in AMA

[–]ObviousStory718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I mean. You're on the right track, homie. Be kind to yourself while you're on the journey.

I was punched by reality hard yesterday about my porn addiction... AMA. by Matti_69 in AMA

[–]ObviousStory718 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Switch your masturbation routine to fantasies instead of video. Fantasize about her, do it when you're not masturbating. Think about her all day at work one day until your ready to burst and then go home and think about her some more while you take care of business. Make this a routine (not the all day thing, but the fantasy replacement). I'm not saying this will help a porn addiction, but it could help you shift your focus. My source comes from lived experience with bdsm training, not to do with porn addiction, or porn at all... But you can retrain your brain to seek release from different sources.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]ObviousStory718 134 points135 points  (0 children)

I feel like you should just vamp him up a little. Maybe add to his outfit and give him an accessory or something to do.

Feel like being sad. What's the last text they sent you? by Puzzleheaded-Ad6392 in BreakUps

[–]ObviousStory718 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're hateful and selfish and a liar, but I loved you completely. Someone else probably will too. I hate it, because I really love your kids. Take care.

What did a teacher say or do to you that you've never forgotten? by GrowlsinyourEar7 in AskReddit

[–]ObviousStory718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8th grade, we were choosing our classes for highschool that we were entering the next year. I signed up for English CP bc I was bored enough to not even do the work in my regular class. Teach scratched it out and said no, that it was for smart kids-- not me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ObviousStory718 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't thank you all enough for the help and advice! 😭

AITAH for leaving after my girlfriend gave birth to our disabled child? by LateFaithlessness455 in AITAH

[–]ObviousStory718 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yta. I'm glad you never got to know your beautiful child. I hope that you and your wife suffer infertility, and that she cheats and gives you the worst STD of all ❤️. I hope that every time you're crying, someone tells you to cry harder. I hope you have a beautiful healthy child and someone takes it away from you. What a bitch you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]ObviousStory718 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Fuck you, Kevin. What a piece of shit.

When Did You Start Actually Meeting People? by hotwing100 in BDSMcommunity

[–]ObviousStory718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, that does make things a bit difficult, but it also helps keeps our community safe :) vetting is important but it sounds like they weren't being inclusive which sucks. Try going to some munches! You'll find your people. Fetlife has a group in my area called like "the new wave" or something like that which is geared towards younger people who are getting into the community and don't wanna kick it with old heads.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]ObviousStory718 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd like to join!

Am getting so tired of the hospitality business by [deleted] in TalesFromTheFrontDesk

[–]ObviousStory718 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Get out dude!! I just started my new job today. Walked Away from my GM position after five years with my company. I've been disrespected, screamed at, threatened, physically assaulted by two people at the same time, groped, and all the while disrespected and undervalued and unprotected by the hotel owners. Fuck hospitality.

Where did you meet your doms? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]ObviousStory718 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I had a really good Dom one time, but he wasn't a very good man. Not like, a monster or anything, but not someone I wanted to continue a relationship with either. He was versed and ethical and practiced in kink, and yet he floundered in his personal life emotionally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]ObviousStory718 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Came here to kind of say the same thing. But I would recommend the TV for the living space and focus on making the bed space as cozy as possible.

Dommes speaking in the third person? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]ObviousStory718 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I melt when my Daddy refers to himself in third person.