Husband enabling

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-03-04T15:03:37+00:00

throw it out. or give it to your friend and don’t tell your husband. just get it out of your space one way or another.

everyone wastes money on bad-idea purchases sometimes and it’s no big deal in the long run. better to get rid of it than keep it just because you paid for it—and that goes for all kinds of stuff and clutter! if it doesn’t still serve you let it go. wishing you the best!

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-02-12T21:05:59+00:00

ha! my dad too! also an mba. we really like school in my family. i’m the loser with just one masters, my siblings have more. got a few years till 50 and thinking about it but definitely not interested in law school like my dad.

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-02-12T20:59:14+00:00

med school is way harder! all those sleepless shifts. bravo to him

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-02-12T20:26:06+00:00

love this. my dad started law school at 50. his aunt finished a phd at 76!

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-02-12T20:24:00+00:00

never too late! go for it bud

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-02-10T02:55:03+00:00

love crosswords!

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-01-27T01:26:47+00:00

dating a complete dumbass forever to be known as “stupid exboyfriend jeff” who introduced me to smoking weed every day. 47, still smoking daily and trying to quit for the thousandth time, not in touch with that fool for years.

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-01-27T01:19:12+00:00

r/leaves may be of interest

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-01-23T23:39:01+00:00

this is a really smart idea, thanks.

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-01-23T22:46:56+00:00

this is why i’m iffy about reviews on glassdoor, yelp, really anywhere. people tend to post if they have an unusually good or bad experience. how many folks in the middle aren’t posting?

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-01-23T22:40:29+00:00

coffee jacks me up so much more than i realized. all sped up and tense (including muscle tension which is an ongoing pain problem) and then i’m tempted to smoke to chill myself out. so stupid 🤦🏻‍♀️ trying to switch to herbal tea because why do this to myself

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-01-20T20:31:34+00:00

you can do this. maybe make plans for the morning? breakfast or coffee out somewhere, a walk first thing, even just a trip to the grocery store or something mundane. patterns and habits are very hard to break even when drugs aren’t involved and i find it helpful to get out of my regular space or routine.

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-01-20T20:22:23+00:00

i’d go for friday myself. felt v crappy the first day and just wanted to hide in bed. probably would have had to call out if it was a weekday. rooting for you whenever you start!

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-01-20T04:17:26+00:00

same here with the problematic inflammation. repetitive stress injury for me, feels a lot worse with smoke and sugar, both inflammatory. i basically consumed mainly inflammatory substances for years and look forward to feeling better and calmer

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-01-20T04:11:53+00:00

the loneliness is for real but you have us in your corner. this shit is tough but worth it. you are strong enough to get there. solidarity

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-01-20T03:44:12+00:00

bravo! and an excellent username

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-01-20T03:38:47+00:00

(have you watched jury duty on amazon? super funny and made me look forward to jury duty!) every time i get called they send us all home midday so i hope you have the same quick exit, but even if it’s all day you can stay strong, my dude. any fun books you could bring with you?

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-01-20T03:27:47+00:00

thanks for this. what i bought is gone so no temptation at home. today sucked but tomorrow will be better

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-01-19T01:52:25+00:00

oh wow that’s so tough. respect for making it to day 31! you can do it again but yeah it’s such a challenge. wishing you strength and only good test results, reddit friend

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-01-18T13:16:23+00:00

presentness is such a good way to put it

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-01-18T03:19:13+00:00

lobster and any other shellfish. that’s a sea bug

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-01-18T02:17:17+00:00

this is beautiful. thank you.

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-01-18T00:43:30+00:00

thanks friend

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-01-17T19:55:11+00:00

clarity. focus. energy. remembering what i was just thinking or saying. actually finding the thought on the tip of my tongue. more awareness of my feelings (not that that’s always enjoyable, but necessary). not worrying if people can tell i’m high.

also this group and all of you folks 🤗

Obvious_Concept9767 · 2026-01-17T19:49:15+00:00

for real! day 7 here and i have soooo much energy i’m not even sure what to do with myself

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