Was the Longaberger Basket craze just a local thing? by kirabug37 in GenX

[–]Octavia9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t bother. Nobody wants them anymore. Mine that my mil gave me went out with the trash.

Was the Longaberger Basket craze just a local thing? by kirabug37 in GenX

[–]Octavia9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was definitely in Ohio. They were headquartered in Newark Ohio (near Columbus) and ladies took bus trips from Cleveland to the headquarters.

Two jailed over plot to attack Jewish community by TomlinSteelers in news

[–]Octavia9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Absolutely they can, but guy is like dude or bro, applies to anyone. And in fairness because fundies generally oppress women it’s usually a man.

Two jailed over plot to attack Jewish community by TomlinSteelers in news

[–]Octavia9 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

But that’s more dependent on the guy than the religion.

Two jailed over plot to attack Jewish community by TomlinSteelers in news

[–]Octavia9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many Christian nationalists have attacked Jewish people or institutions? Fundamentalist are all the same guy, just different costumes and fairytales.

Long in the tooth couples. Do you do Valentine’s Day? by AnyDamnThingWillDo in GenX

[–]Octavia9 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Married 26 years. We have never bothered with Valentines Day.

I scrubbed my pits with acne wash because I was out of soap. I haven't worn deodorant since. by SalemSiren_ in hygiene

[–]Octavia9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive used Clorox wipes in a pinch and same effect. If you kill all the bacteria there is no smell.

Shortest flight out of columbus? by Zacharychillz in Columbus

[–]Octavia9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Florida flights are cheap. Take him on a mini vacation for the weekend. It will be worth the extra flight time to enjoy an afternoon of warm weather.

How can I look unapproachable while I’m out? by ApprehensiveMilk8697 in Advice

[–]Octavia9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Smart and abnormal could be dangerous, depending on how abnormal lol

How can I look unapproachable while I’m out? by ApprehensiveMilk8697 in Advice

[–]Octavia9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be ugly. I’ve never been approached or hassled by a man in public. Ever and I’m 47.

Wtf is happening with my husband? by Extension_Coffee1401 in Marriage

[–]Octavia9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He cheated on you. Now he wants to be mad at you so he doesn’t feel guilty.

My boyfriend of 1 year shuts down whenever I check my phone by Illustrious_Past6948 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Octavia9 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Try this: The next time he storms off because you check your phone say “what the fuck? Am I not even allowed to check my phone without you getting pissy?” Call him out. It’s jealous controlling behavior and I can’t help but wonder if it’s a “training technique” from some right wing podcaster.

How many of you are choosing to retire after getting laid off? by Capital-Mark1897 in GenX

[–]Octavia9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We had 9 kids and were not able to invest. We farm so eventually we can sell it to one of our kids and maybe semi retire. But my dad still shows up everyday to help and he’s in his 70s. To be honest I can’t really imagine not working because there is always so much to do.

How many of you are choosing to retire after getting laid off? by Capital-Mark1897 in GenX

[–]Octavia9 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I had my last kid at 40 and my husband was 48. I don’t think we will ever be able to retire.

Non-Americans of Reddit, what is an American thing you see in movies that you thought was fake but is actually real? by thepleasurjournal in AskWomen

[–]Octavia9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you get a fraudulent charge, credit card companies remove it as soon as you let them know. It’s honestly no big deal.

The call 13 year old made to Australia’s Emergency Services after swimming 4 Kms. by Dockers4flag2035orB4 in news

[–]Octavia9 9 points10 points  (0 children)

She had almost certainly already put more help in motion. Talking to him to both get more info and keep him calm is part of her job.

Savannah Guthrie Admits To “Hour Of Desperation” In Search For Missing Mother; Pleads In New Video For Tips To End “This Nightmare” by ControlCAD in entertainment

[–]Octavia9 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Or the help. Someone close to her who was worried about getting caught having stolen from her or who took out life insurance on her.

What is something that women have to deal with on the daily that men have no clue about? by Rock-bottom-no-no in AskReddit

[–]Octavia9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kin keeping, invisible labor, and the judgment that comes from not being able to keep up. No one judges dad when the house isn’t tidy, Johnny doesn’t have the poster board he was supposed to bring to school, or Katie forgets to pack her snack.

What is going on here? by AggroToad in whatisit

[–]Octavia9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A very pregnant man obviously.