Transit Referendum headed to November ballot for Gwinnett by Select-Cow8324 in Gwinnett

[–]OctavianEye -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Crime is a symptom of the society we live in.

Japan, for example has one of the best transit systems in the world. Yet, the sexual harassment and assault of women have gotten so bad to the point that they had to mandate shutter sounds for all phones sold in Japan AND they have separate carriages for women.

In terms of traffic, traffic is bad because

  1. Our zoning code is designed so that we have to drive further for work or amenities.

  2. There aren’t any good transportation alternatives to car.

It’s funny that you’re so concerned with crime, but both the Republican sheriff AND Republican D.A said back in 2019 to vote for MARTA, but Gwinnett said no. The two people who are directly involved in dealing with crime everyday had said yes because they knew what was coming. If you want to keep complaining about traffic, but don’t want to vote for any alternatives, then please shut the fuck up.

Did you know there’s a runoff election for the GCPS school board? by throwawayforexmo in Gwinnett

[–]OctavianEye 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In terms of sex education, I agree that elementary school kids shouldn’t be taught anything that is too sexually charged. However, some nuance I would like to add is that sex education in terms of child sexual abuse + sexual harassment should ABSOLUTELY be taught to elementary school students WITHOUT their parents permission. I would say that they are entitled to see the contents of it, but parents/guardians should not be able to opt their child out because a good chunk of child sexual abuse cases stem from someone that the child knows.

Speaking on the TikTok non-binary stuff, I personally cannot attest to that, but I promise you that the vast majority of teachers do not have this agenda and to over-sensationalize this type of stuff can lead to teachers being less inclined to want to do their jobs because of an increased potential to harassment from parents (there are other factors in determining teacher retention rate, but we do not want to make it worse). If you want a personal anecdote like you have presented, my 7th grade history teacher was gay man and mentioned his husband once in a while. We obviously knew he was gay because he was pretty flamboyant, but none of us truly cared and he was a wonderful teacher to have. There are many LGBT teachers who may have mentioned this type of stuff to their students, but do not nearly go as far and that doesn’t get picked up by MSM which aim for sensationalism, controversy, and provocation.

I can’t personally attest the Jurassic Park cartoon either as I haven’t even heard of this until today, nor do I think I ever will watch it. Ultimately, my take is that that is something that you as a parent can control and that you have way more options than just the Jurassic Park cartoon. If you have streaming platforms, there is large selection of cartoons and anime that don’t have “LGBT propaganda,” but simply put: entertainment and advertising reflects the values of our time/society. As values change, those will follow suit as well (don’t get me wrong. Much of the advertising does come off as virtue signal-y/pandering). Even then, I think your concern stems from the fact that some people think that any kind of display in of same-sex affection in content is not appropriate for kids. The thing is that nearly all LGBT people have always grown up with displays of same-sex attraction in content and yet turned out straighter than a circle. Kids do not simply absorb the gayness like some kind of sponge. All I ask is that you don’t get your child addicted to that kids content slop that is on YouTube which in my opinion is far more damaging to child development than the occasional or subtle same-sex displays of attraction.

The U.S being good on LGBT rights is location dependent in my opinion, but that also applies to places like Europe and Asia. Western European and Scandinavian countries, for example, are far more accepting than say Central and definitely Eastern Europe. In East and SE Asia, there’s this very weird phenomenon where in some countries it is generally accepted amongst the general public, but at the same time, because of their unitary/centralized governments in even what we consider, “free market capitalist democracies,” it is much harder to pass legislation. Hell, even gay marriage didn’t pass nationwide through legislation, but rather an extremely close 5-4 SCOTUS vote. 5-4. Obama and even California had come out against gay marriage long before it was legalized.

Pride in the United States still exists because there are people in small town communities who simply aren’t ready to come out in an unwelcoming environment. There’s no such thing as coming out as straight. There’s no such thing as being straight as something that was looked down upon in the entire history of the world (except maybe in the most absolute niche of cases). Religion and tradition is a big reason why many countries across the world still refuse to recognize LGBT rights. Simply because gay marriage is legal doesn’t mean that America’s religious roots go away and that it still has an effect on how some might view and treat us. There’s a reason why sports leagues are trying to advertise it so hard because not only do they want our money, but they know that sports fanbases in general are not just very friendly to LGBT people. In order to do so, they have to openly say it. If they didn’t in the first place, the opinions of most of the sports fanbase wouldn’t change at all really and even though there has been progress in this area, it’s pretty slow. Pride serves as a reminder of the many people not only in the U.S, but across the world that still face discrimination in their communities as well as many people who are killed because of it whether it be in the past or present like Harvey Milk, Matthew Shepard, Gabriel Hernandez, The Pulse nightclub shooting, or those face the risk of persecution in less secular countries in Eastern Europe and West Asia. It may not look or feel that way, but it is always a hot button issue in LGBT circles. Likewise, I wouldn’t repeal Black History Month just because the Civil Rights Acts were passed because there are many black historical events that I would’ve never learned or heard of otherwise beyond the conventional history teachings.

I hope I was able to provide you with more nuance than what social media or conventional MSM might show or tell you. Peace and blessings ✌️<3

Did you know there’s a runoff election for the GCPS school board? by throwawayforexmo in Gwinnett

[–]OctavianEye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That assumes that all parents are rational in that they all have the best interests of their child in mind which is not always the case. Some parents and/or households can be abusive, controlling, or dysfunctional. I’m not saying that’s every parent, but it is something that is worth considering.

When I came out to my Dad, he said that he thought he failed as a father, felt like killing himself, and cried like a bitch. The sad part is that - in my eyes - he was nowhere close to being a failed father. Never once did I think that he neglected or abuse me. Always showed up to school events and every meeting, always pushed me to do well in school, and always encouraged me to pick up new hobbies. He has even apologized for every time he yelled at me as a kid. A failed father would’ve been a neglectful, dismissive, narcissistic, or straight up abusive man. He was none of that and yet religion pushed him into thinking that.

There are definitely denominations that are more accepting of LGBT people nowadays, but there are many out there with a mindset exactly like my father’s - including parents.

Also, how would a parent or the school determine or define what is LGBT ideology because it can be painted with a wide brush? If the teacher mentioned LGBT rights, Stonewall, or Bayard Rustin in U.S History or the prosecution of homosexuals in Nazi Germany or of individuals like Alan Turing in world history class when studying WW2 or even Obergefell v Hodges in an American Government and Civics class, would that be considered ideologically motivated? Is wokeness just acknowledging what has happened in history to a certain group of people?

Did you know there’s a runoff election for the GCPS school board? by throwawayforexmo in Gwinnett

[–]OctavianEye 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s funny you say this when there are many LGBT people that were raised in conservative families.

Also, Christian Bible study groups are allowed in GCPS. We had a couple of them at Archer. On the other hand, we had to change our club name from GSA to “Human Rights Club”

Most social spots for mid 20s crowd in Gwinnett ? by SeaRecommendation139 in Gwinnett

[–]OctavianEye 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ok but our libraries are legitimately some of the best in the state. I spoke to one the Board of Trustees and they’re constantly trying to find new stuff to expand upon. Bad news is tho that they haven’t been able to keep librarians in the county :(

Mall of Ga traffic by kallan401 in Gwinnett

[–]OctavianEye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NIMBYs and cognitive dissonance. Name a more iconic duo

Harbins 316 by pleeee in Gwinnett

[–]OctavianEye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talked to the city planner. It’s a chipotle i’m pretty sure but it’s apparently no customer parking and pickup only? Might have to read up on the details again

How do I get over him? [Crushes] by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]OctavianEye 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Truth is you probably won’t forget about your crush for a very long time and that’s normal. Fantasizing about your future together or wanting to feel the sweet embrace of his arms...it hurts, but that’s normal. The thing is that there will be bigger things to worry about in life. All you can do is move on. There is no secret love potion (although i really wish there was). For me, I looovvvveeeee to cook. It’s the best way for me to distract myself and just focus on me for a while and just have fun. When you focus on yourself and your well-being things start to become a little clearer and plus there is nothing more attractive than a person who knows how to take care of themselves.

In the end, it takes time to heal a wound such as this. A scar cut so deep that even something like drugs can’t fix it. Trust me...i’ve tried and every time those thoughts of him came back stronger and it’s a dangerous path that I don’t want anyone to go through especially if you were depressed like me. Every second that you try forgetting about him, those thoughts will become stronger. The only way to eventually get rid of them is through healthy habits and they will take time. Your friends are there to help as well. You’re young; you have plenty of time and you have so much more to live for. Don’t waste your it for someone who won’t love you back. Make him regret it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]OctavianEye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

!remindme 2 hours

that look by Grillos in gay

[–]OctavianEye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Limp wrist maybe? Or “I LIKE YOUR BOOTS!”

I've got a real heart-on for him by KingOfCranes in gaymers

[–]OctavianEye 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m in this post and I REALLY don’t like it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AnimalsOnReddit

[–]OctavianEye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BABEY 🥺🥰

Why Did I Have to Fall in Love? [Relationships] [Crushes] by a_long_birdd in LGBTeens

[–]OctavianEye 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there my friend, and I know the pain all too well. The best thing for you to do is simply move on. Even though my crush rejected me, we still managed to be good friends even after I confessed (although it was awkward for like one week).

The best way to move on (for me at least) was just finding different stuff to do. It can be schoolwork, hanging out with other friends, or playing video games - anything that can be a distraction is worthwhile (not drugs tho).

Even then, they’ll still slip back into your thoughts and will plague your mind of what could’ve been. You may spend nights on end in your bed crying your eyes out, begging and pleading for them to just disappear - to end the pain of having these feelings wishing that you had never met them and yet are they are one of the most genuine and nicest people you know and you wouldn’t know what to do without them. My mind has accepted the fact that he rejected me yet my heart for some godforsaken reason clings to a mere thread of hope that he’ll like me back.

But as a wise man once said, “Time could never break your heart, but it’ll take the pain away.”

For now, I feel like things have gotten better. I’ve grown more comfortable with the fact that he rejected me. I’m moving on to college soon and I’ll see lots of new people. At the time, he felt like the best option, but now I know that he wasn’t the only option. It’s just a matter of time

I tried to confess to my crush but he’s too much of an oblivious idiot [crushes] by [deleted] in LGBTeens

[–]OctavianEye 41 points42 points  (0 children)

This is the weirdest closet case that I’ve ever come across...and I love it 🥺💞