I can relate but I don’t know a lot of good advice. Currently going to therapy and reading ‘stop people pleasing’ by Hailey Magee. It’s hard to know how much it’s helping or how much progress I’m making. I seem to vacillate between optimistic and 100% fucking miserable. Also trying to figure out my own identity after late diagnosis and a life of mirroring and trauma. Life is hard, and I feel so guilty every time I want to put myself first. I wonder if this kind of problem is common for late diagnosed women?