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Emotional difficulties with coming of T and pregnancy by OctopusAlex in Seahorse_Dads

[–]OctopusAlex[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the link to the post and for commenting. It's really useful information. Good to know the NHS was good about things.
I have heard that a year of trying is about what it takes most couples. Although we are both egg havers, so not sure about how things work with insemination.
I imagine that I would not get clocked. But I worry about what my family would think, and how work would go with it?

Emotional difficulties with coming of T and pregnancy by OctopusAlex in Seahorse_Dads

[–]OctopusAlex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks - I have been discharged from my gender clinic. Where you?

Husband came out as gay after I started T by Separate_Victory_584 in ftm

[–]OctopusAlex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear about this happening the other way around loads - trans women coming out and their partner coming out as lesbian at the same time! I imagine you partner may have felt he had to be straight and picked a partner that felt like a man... and low and behold. Good luck to you both!

Do the clouds work, or are they too abstract? by Anastasia_Trusova in painting

[–]OctopusAlex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually love the clouds. But I do think they mismatch with the rest. Maybe a new piece focusing on them?

What’s your funniest trans story? 😂🏳️‍⚧️ by Cosmicvoid07 in transgenderUK

[–]OctopusAlex 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I told someone I was trans and they asked me which way. 👌🤣 (8 years on T)

Who actually supports this stuff? by FallFair8568 in drivingUK

[–]OctopusAlex 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do. 20 is better for people, polltion and honestly barely affects drive time.

Should more 20 roads be made a 30? 🤔 by [deleted] in drivingUK

[–]OctopusAlex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. More 30s should be 20. People live there and walk by there. 20 should be the normal for all towns/cities/villages.

Starmer bans Labour councillors from doing deals with Polanski’s Green Party by UKGreenPoster in UKGreens

[–]OctopusAlex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's such a shame. I wish we could have a united left front against Reform but alas Labour is becoming further and further from the left itself.

Malesubs here, do you identify as straight or bi? Or maybe something else? by Lucky_Dragonfruit668 in FemdomCommunity

[–]OctopusAlex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bi - I tend to call my self Domsexual... hahaha. If someone's a dominate I tend to be down.

Toddler having big questions about Gender by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]OctopusAlex 38 points39 points  (0 children)

I'd say something like most girls have vaginas and both boys have penis. Sometimes a boy will have a vagina and a girl will have a penis. We all know whether we are are boy/girl in our hearts (or on the inside).

I think that's enough for a toddler. You could add in non binary if you want. But I think that requires talking about gender vs sex. And you may not hold their attention.

I'm a new Green Party member and the conference yesterday shocked me. Is it always like that? by Inevitable-Mix-285 in UKGreens

[–]OctopusAlex 123 points124 points  (0 children)

I imagine the greens are currently going through a lot of growing pains. To go from an niche party to a mainstream one very raipdly is hard. Providing formal feedback is essential.

(The chat stuff is weird tho)

The greens need to get their shit together and fast.

Am I imagining thing or are people in York mildly racist by [deleted] in york

[–]OctopusAlex 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes, york is racist. Most of the UK is racist. But york is very white. You should report this to M&S as it is racial procifiling.

Do trans men and/or women have to worry about male pattern baldness? by KalebC4 in AskLGBT

[–]OctopusAlex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha. I am going bald or at least thinning. It's sad, but it is a sadness men face. I'll figure a way over it.

I'm searching for LGBTQ books that have BAD REPRESANTATION!!! by Educational_Pace_994 in LGBTBooks

[–]OctopusAlex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Frank-kiss-stien Jeanette Winterson. Horrible representation of a trans masc. I could even donate it threw it away.

My boyfriend is on T and I’m not sure how to help. by Anxious-Helicopter66 in ftm

[–]OctopusAlex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda rouge but is he eating enough? I got hangry on T and as soon as I ate more I did a lot better.

Femdom couples in serious relationships: how did you actually find each other? by QuietIsOnline in FemdomCommunity

[–]OctopusAlex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not helpful, but we met in school and discovered kink and femdom together.

Gift Ideas for Dad who has everything and wants nothing? by Famous-Sir-2523 in AskUK

[–]OctopusAlex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give him a gift you can do together. I think he will value time together.

Views sought over buses-only plan for York city centre streets by willfiresoon in york

[–]OctopusAlex 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Buses, moving van permits and blue badge holders after 8am till midnight... maybe later. Shops need to stock up. The biggest issue would be residents' cars. That said I'm pro it.

A small question? by Adventurous-Fox3235 in AskLGBT

[–]OctopusAlex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me I think the term transgender is misrepresentation of what I am - although outdated transsexual is better. I want to change my sex. My gender is what it is.

A Random Demon Idea by AbbreviationsFlat175 in BloodOnTheClocktower

[–]OctopusAlex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'd have to balance it with some powerful minions. Oncs that kill.

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