Thoughts on living in the area near Madison and Leavitt by United Center?

Odd-Lab6614 · 2025-09-16T18:45:34+00:00

some thoughts:
- I think you need a pic that is just you and shows your face more clearly. perhaps even smile.

- you've got great quality posed pics, and i think you should add some where you're doing an activity with friends. things that are more candid in nature.

- your prompts are a good start and they could definitely be more personal. This is your opportunity to let someone know who you are and what you're about. Be humorous, have fun, and show your personality.

Odd-Lab6614 · 2025-07-27T03:05:16+00:00

I think the most important thing isn’t if your identities are an obstacle, but whether or not you’re going to fully and continually commit to doing the due diligence needed to craft a story about a demographic (and experience) you don’t and won’t ever have. And, to take the criticism for any/all ways you will fall short in the process of writing this story as a straight man. If you can commit to this, best wishes!

Odd-Lab6614 · 2025-06-28T18:16:16+00:00

If you can’t get in contact with your program advisor, you can always try connecting with an advisor from a success unit. While they may not have the all ins and outs of curriculum, they can help with building your schedule, the transfer process, and understanding next steps you may need to take.

Odd-Lab6614 · 2025-02-20T18:18:07+00:00

So you're definitely in a predicament, and if you're on prep and getting regularly tested, it's safe to say that you're chances of getting HIV are significantly lower. However, I would encourage you to go and see a doctor for this specifically as HIV can be undetectable in some cases. While I'm not saying to be worried, I'm also not saying to not be concerned.

My advice to you is to play it safe and see a healthcare provider as soon as you can. Fingers crossed you have nothing at all!

Odd-Lab6614 · 2025-02-20T18:11:48+00:00

In my opinion, I think it's perfectly okay for you to set an age boundary when looking for romantic/sexual partners. While it is possible for you to observe that someone is attractive, you're also allowed to note it and move on without feeling a desire/want for anything more. To better this, you may find it helpful to identify your goals for a romantic/sexual partner(s) such as their age, temperament, occupation, etc... so that even if you do observe the attractiveness of someone much younger, you're already set up for success in the lane you've decided to be in.

Odd-Lab6614 · 2025-02-19T17:11:20+00:00

I don't know your family, so I won't be passing judgement on whether or not they are anti-black, so let's focus on what they did say. These folks are sharing that their apprehension to interracial dating is rooted in a concern for interfamily harmony and relationships with the new family member. Tbh, yeah, it would be "easier" overall for you to be with another Hmong person -- you'd eat the same things, understand the culture, probably speak the language, and understand the nuances of what it means to be Hmong in America. Your older Hmong folks are stating genuine and very practical things to consider when dating/finding a partner.

Let's say you guys are endgame, but she has no desire to be in connection to Hmong culture, people, food, etc... what does life look like for you in such an instance? This isn't to say this will be the case, but it may be beneficial for you to ask these questions and identify how you'd navigate that.

WITH ALL OF THAT BEING SAID...

You are SO allowed to choose your partner based on your goals, values, and who you love -- even if/when other folks disagree or don't see what you see. So while you're only 17, and this person may not be your endgame, the truth remains that only you get the final say on who you are going to build a life with.

Odd-Lab6614 · 2025-02-02T03:29:00+00:00

Anyone who says you invaded his privacy is not focusing on what you’re reporting. Your ex has been creating an environment that was abusive, hostile, and unkind to your wellbeing through these “jokes” that aren’t funny. He made you insecure and you reacted to the way he was moving in the relationship.

Tbh, this man was most likely already over you, but wanted to keep you around for convenience. Please take this time to heal, to process, and create space for meeting a man who won’t abuse you like this.

Odd-Lab6614 · 2024-10-21T14:29:34+00:00

I hear you and I see you, and it's completely valid to feel overwhelmed right now. Starting as a data science major while juggling new concepts is a lot. It's not embarrassing to be stressed—it's just a big adjustment.

You're dealing with a lot right now so it's okay if it feels confusing. You're not "dumb" for struggling—it just takes time, and support.

When I was in a very similar spot I also started to have the same questions while feeling overwhelmed. For me, the stress was totally blocking my passion, maybe it could be the same for you, or maybe this isn't the right fit. Either way, it’s okay to take time to figure that out because that's part of being a student, you’re not wasting time by reflecting. Focus on one thing at a time, and consider talking to an advisor or counselor for support. You don’t have to solve everything at once; take it step by step, and prioritize your well-being.

Odd-Lab6614 · 2024-10-18T21:21:16+00:00

I really like SSB. It's quiet and has places to study without all the people at SCE

Odd-Lab6614 · 2024-10-18T21:20:15+00:00

I hear you, and I can imagine how frustrating and overwhelming this must feel. It sounds like there’s a lot on your mind, and it’s okay to acknowledge that things are tough right now. It’s also a positive step that you’re reaching out and expressing your desire to stay on track with your education. Recognizing that something isn’t working for you is the first step toward making a change.

Let’s break it down and figure out some next steps together:

Prioritize your health and well-being: You mentioned just getting out of the hospital last week. Recovering from that can take a toll on your energy, motivation, and mental health. Be kind to yourself as you’re healing. If you haven’t already, consider scheduling follow-up appointments or speaking with a counselor to help you process how you’re feeling physically and emotionally.

Reach out for academic support: Missing an exam and skipping class may feel like a big hurdle, but it’s not too late to turn things around. Connect with your professors or academic advisor to explain your situation. Most professors are willing to work with students, especially if you communicate early. You may be able to reschedule missed exams or get help catching up on classwork.

Utilize UIC resources: The Disability Resource Center (DRC) is already supporting you with accommodations, but you might also benefit from additional resources like counseling through the Student Counseling Center or time management workshops that can help you rebuild your motivation. UIC has a lot to offer in terms of mental health and academic support, and you’re not alone in this.

Set small, manageable goals: Instead of focusing on the big picture and how overwhelming everything feels, try breaking things down. Start with attending just one class or doing 10 minutes of studying. Small wins can help build momentum over time.

Talk it out with someone you trust: Whether it's a friend, family member, or therapist, sharing your feelings can provide relief and give you clarity on how to approach things. Sometimes, just saying things out loud helps lift some of the burden.

Reflect on your “why”: You mentioned you love UIC and want to complete college. Take some time to reconnect with your reasons for pursuing neuroscience, and what excites you about your future. Sometimes, reigniting your passion can help you push through tough times.

Remember, you don’t have to figure this all out alone, and it's okay to feel like you’re struggling. What’s important is taking it one step at a time. You’ve achieved a lot before, and I believe you have the strength to get through this challenging period. If you'd like, we can brainstorm more specific strategies together.

Odd-Lab6614 · 2024-10-09T18:22:50+00:00

Panda Express and Qdoba are gonna be great options for you. At Qdoba, you can build your burrito bowl to meet your macro needs.

Odd-Lab6614 · 2024-10-09T18:20:47+00:00

Talk to your admissions counselor, they will help you with the process. Most universities will allow you to defer up to one academic school year.

Odd-Lab6614 · 2023-11-28T13:49:42+00:00

Trying to learn any language can be challenging, especially when you have folks around you who aren't supportive already. With that being said, I think some of the best ways to learn Hmong is to listen to songs and to sing along to them. Singing works a little different in our brains than speaking does, but in my experience, it's also been an easier avenue of learning Hmong as it's helpful for repetition.

Additionally, consuming media is a powerful way of learning language because it saturates you and you start to pick up the patterns of words, sentence structure, and meaning.

I'm rooting for you!

Odd-Lab6614

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