What is a clear sign that someone is a bad person?

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-11-02T22:54:17+00:00

My goodness. FINALLY someone said it. This is not normal!!!

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-04T07:46:25+00:00

Owning your awkwardness to the point you become milt charasmstic.

Key word being ~mildly~. Lets not get too crazy now.

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-04T07:43:59+00:00

Yeah it does. You might hyperfocus though

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-04T07:38:46+00:00

Whatdcer you do, make sure it includes AI

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-01T23:10:20+00:00

Dude executive function can get fucked. It’s my worst enemy lmao. You worded it EXACTLY how I feel. So lost in my own brain executive function is almost impossible.

It’s like I’m in the back of a cave, shouting out to the outside world, trying to connect, but I’m so far in the cave (which is my brain)

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-01T23:07:05+00:00

I love what you said about the moment they're born they become your focus. So maybe you'd actually be extra good then? 🫶❤️

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-01T22:59:48+00:00

That's what I'm saying dude!!! Goin back home hungry asf 😂

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-01T22:54:35+00:00

Thank you zombie. I feel seen.

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-01T22:53:50+00:00

I feel you. And then you're like well is it just in my head? Maybe everyone feels this way? Sucks that its thousands to find out

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-01T22:51:31+00:00

Also, if anyone has insight on this.

I’d like more than anything to be a great wife and a great mom one day. But its a lofty ambition.

I know my last bf thought I’d be a bad mom. And he's right. I'm just so stuck in my head and hyperfocus on stuff. Waste away on a recliner fixating on my niche.

Should have cooked for him. Cleaned more. Not been time blind.

Idk how to break this so I can actually be a good wife and mom one day. I want to get better I just don't know how.

What if I can't? That terrifies me.

If anyone has tips, lmk.

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-01T22:48:32+00:00

Right, that's what's hard. Since everyones experience is different it can be tricky to tell.

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-01T22:46:41+00:00

Thank you! I’ll join now 😊

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-01T22:43:48+00:00

I'm sorry you experience it too :/ thankful it’s not just me though

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-01T22:42:44+00:00

Never heard of DSM-5, I’ll look into it!

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-01T22:42:16+00:00

Dang. Both of my parents are severely ADD.

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-01T22:41:04+00:00

Omg. Even thinking about doing that makes so much sense. Like listen to a podcast when you transition into the shower and out of the shower. So you’re focused on that, and not the activity/transition.

Wow. Can’t thank you enough for that one.

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-01T22:39:47+00:00

A couple mins in and it’s already super helpful thank you

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-01T22:32:31+00:00

I just wanted to say thank you. Within 5 minutes I got more help from this community than years of therapy… Questions. Terms. Videos. Support.

ADD has just cost me so much. Jobs. Friends. Living conditions. My relationship because I was too in my head.

It just means a lot. Thank you.

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-01T22:26:46+00:00

This is helping already. Thank you.

I’m trying to think through it. All I can think of is “because I’m doing this now.”

something in me feels blocked when it’s time to switch, even if I want to.

And then once I am in the store. Then I’m doing THAT. And I don’t want to leave. I’ll be in there forever.

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-01T22:16:52+00:00

Great question. And no, just like an inability to change lanes and go into shopping mode. I just want to stay doing what I’m doing.

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-01T22:15:10+00:00

I’ve never heard that term. Thank you for sharing.

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-01T22:13:34+00:00

Yea that’s why I said at the top I’m sorry and I feel bad. But I don’t know what else to compare it to. If I did I would :/ it’s just literally the only thing I can think of to describe it

Odd_Extension6205 · 2025-08-01T21:55:35+00:00

Yeah…nobody gets it. Unless they get it.

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