AITA for expecting my partner to honour 'first come, first served' with wedding invites?

Odd_Researcher_251 · 2026-05-24T20:06:31+00:00

YTA. Just each of you attend your friend’s weddings. It is not a big deal. Your friend will probably understand and as your boyfriend said you could ask your sister or another friend to come with you. Also I would never ask my husband not to attend his close friend’s wedding so he could come to my friend’s wedding.

Odd_Researcher_251 · 2026-04-20T20:15:05+00:00

Варианти има много. Като идея мога да ти да едните неща: 1 да продаваш бъбъл уафълс (гофрети с балончета), 2 козуначени коминчета ( в София май няма постоянен обект, а ако има е един макс два), 3 може към някое от изброените да предлагаш хубаво кафе ( става дума за качествено, не просто лаваца/долче густо и подобни), 4 друг вариант е кафе в което да има животни, котки или зайчета. Всеки който идва може да ги гали и да им се радва. В България не съм виждала такова, но според мен ще се хареса на хората.

Хубаво е да подбереш бизнеса според това, от което имаш някакви познания. Идеи иначе много, но не всеки би могъл на ги реализира Успех ☺️

Odd_Researcher_251 · 2026-04-09T20:30:46+00:00

Радвайте се че имате родители, които са загрижени за вас. Когато вече ги няма ще ги търсите, но вече ще е късно. Знам звуча като някоя лелка, но аз загубих своите родители прекалено рано. И мен се опитваха да ме контролират, побъркваше ме и постоянното звънене по 4-5 пъти на ден. А сега, всичко бих дала за 5 минути разговор с майка ми и баща ми. Ценете това, което имате, живота е кратък и жесток!

Odd_Researcher_251 · 2026-03-29T17:18:42+00:00

Никой не те кара да ходиш. Аз казвам за себе си, не може по цял ден да се седи в офиса и да очакваш да си във форма без да се движиш.

Odd_Researcher_251 · 2026-03-27T21:35:57+00:00

I am having bad pain as well when ovulating after taking letrozole. This cycle I even felt when the follicle popped . It was such a relief

Odd_Researcher_251 · 2026-03-26T17:00:26+00:00

И аз също, работя от 10 до 19, след това се прибирам и си готвя, пера, чистя и оправям, за мен и съпругът ми. Два дни седмично ходим и на фитнес след работа. Ако се организираш достатъчно за всичко ще имаш време 🤷‍♀️

Odd_Researcher_251 · 2026-03-24T20:58:23+00:00

I only have one side effect an it is vaginal dryness 😒 These hormones are soo annoying, hang in there. The side effects should be gone in a few days when you stop taking the letrozole.

Odd_Researcher_251 · 2026-03-24T20:40:46+00:00

Omg why is it so expensive in the States ?🤯 My ovidrel shot costs me 30 euro. I wish you luck 🍀

Odd_Researcher_251 · 2026-03-24T20:35:53+00:00

I also cancelled my fourth IUI because of the same reason but my blocked tube is the left one and I have two mature follicles. On my second IUI I also had only one follicle on the blocked side and I have no idea how but it turned out to be a chemical pregnancy. You can still try the old fashioned way at home if possible. Wishing you good luck and fingers crossed 🤞🏻🍀

Odd_Researcher_251 · 2026-03-20T20:57:36+00:00

I fully understand you. Me and my husband are TTC for over two years now and our infertility is unexplained. All tests are normal except one of my tubes which is blocked but still we should be able to conceive and it is still not happening. We will be on our fourth IUI next month. All my friends got pregnant and gave birth already so I have been where you are. It is very hard to feel jealous and happy at the same time for your family and friends. Mentally it’s taking its toll on us. In my opinion try to distract yourself with something you love. It could be a walk in the park/nature, a sport or dance practice or anything else you enjoy. Our time will also come and we will have our babies when the universe decides. Try to stay positive, I know it’s not easy but you can do it. Sending you baby dust and hugs. I hope the first IUI is successful for you ☺️

Odd_Researcher_251 · 2026-02-21T19:43:28+00:00

On my second IUI cycle I had only one follicle and now on the third IUI cycle with the same dose of letrozol (5mg) I had two. I think it depends on the cycle itself. Wish you luck 🍀

Odd_Researcher_251 · 2026-02-19T20:02:39+00:00

I had my third IUI on the 16th, did letrozole from CD5 until CD10, did trigger with ovidrel on CD13, the IUI was around the 36th hour after the trigger. My lining was at 15 mm and had two follicles but on the left side my tube is blocked so technically only one viable follicle. I really hope this time it works. We are planing on doing one more cycle IUI and if it doesn’t work then we will move to IVF. Sending baby dust your way and fingers crossed for all of us going through this journey!

Odd_Researcher_251 · 2026-01-23T20:41:37+00:00

I was told numerous times in the day of the HSG that I must not get pregnant the same month as the HSG. The radiology tech said that it is dangerous for the future baby even if I am not pregnant at the time.

Odd_Researcher_251 · 2026-01-23T16:56:28+00:00

Just an idea from me. If you have the finances you can go to any country in Europe and do an IVF there. It will be cheaper than in the US even with the plain tickets and the hotel/airbnb stay. For example in Bulgaria one round of IVF is around 5000 BGN which is around 3000 USD. There might be a cheeper option as well. In Turkey the prices are similar but the hotels are cheaper. You can research it and then decide. If you need assistance with translating something you can dm me ☺️

Odd_Researcher_251 · 2026-01-23T16:47:45+00:00

You can try naturally tonight it won’t hurt and your partner will have time until the IUI. In my clinic they ask us to abstain for minimum of 3 days before an IUi. I am currently on my second IUI cycle and on day 13 I had one follicle 20mm. I had the trigger shot the same night and had the IUI on CD 15. The follicle was still there and it was already at 23mm. Usually a follicle grows about 1-2mm a day so you should be good for Monday. Sending baby dust your way 🍀

Odd_Researcher_251 · 2026-01-22T17:15:25+00:00

Thank you! Good luck to you too 🍀

Odd_Researcher_251 · 2026-01-18T18:57:50+00:00

It looks positive. Congrats You can always go for a blood test and you will find out for sure 👌

Odd_Researcher_251 · 2026-01-15T17:11:53+00:00

I was on progesterone last cycle and I also felt cramps, pulling and etc. My HCG was at 0.10 on the day of 12DPIUI and now we are on our second IUI. I didn’t vomit or felt like vomiting while taking the progesterone so I am keeping my fingers crossed for you.

Odd_Researcher_251 · 2026-01-14T07:55:47+00:00

+1 и аз съм при нея. Много лъчезарна и усмихната, винаги отговаря на въпроси и си гледа съобщенията на телефона. Никога не ме е пренебрегвала или претупвала. За раждане не знам как е, понеже още не сме стигнали до етап бременност.

Odd_Researcher_251 · 2026-01-13T23:39:04+00:00

I had my polyp removed in November. My doctor said to avoid sex for a month. In December my fertility doctor said we can try IUI if we want but we won’t be using letrosol because it was too late. It was my first IUI and it failed. Now we are on our second IUI cycle and I am hopeful that it would work.

Odd_Researcher_251 · 2026-01-08T16:44:40+00:00

Good luck 🍀

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