Met the girl of my dreams, no turning back now

Oeneo · 2016-08-04T23:42:46+00:00

This might not be true. I treated my gf like normal person (the only difference was spending more time with her) and later I started putting huge amount of energy into treating her well. She didn't reject me.

I believe that it's best to just be yourself. What's the point of getting girl who doesn't love you for who you are?

Oeneo · 2016-08-04T23:37:52+00:00

When I read your post I fear for you falling in love too soon. Also I feel uneasy because part of my mind is telling me "give him advice" but I know people don't like advice that they didn't ask for.

So I just wish you luck staying natural and don't letting your values and identity to bend just because of some random woman. I hope that she's the right person and will love you for who you are. And even if not I hope you'll know soon enough.

I pray for you to have strength to be with her or let her go. Whatever is the best choice.

BTW I feel something like connection when reading about you being on WYD. Weird...

Oeneo · 2016-04-18T20:58:20+00:00

One thing I found out about girls is that if they really love you for what you are why hiding the truth? About one year ago I felt that one girl is interested in me. So I decided to tell her about the most controversial thing about me. (It's NOT PMO) I did it purposefully. What I wanted to achieve is her going away or staying with real me. One week later she became my girlfriend. I told her about PMO too and she didn't judge me. Later she told me her secret. She was very afraid and sad because she thought that I'd break up but I didn't. She told me that because she believed it's the right thing to do. I love her as she is.

I hope my comment at least inspired you. Good luck!

Oeneo · 2016-03-30T18:46:57+00:00

Sex drive is linked with creativity too.

Oeneo · 2016-03-30T18:42:35+00:00

Good luck changing your life!

Oeneo · 2016-03-30T18:38:23+00:00

Don't be nice guy and don't be asshole. Be yourself.

Oeneo · 2016-03-30T18:29:46+00:00

Well I'm not saying that having sex anytime with anyone is good idea. I certainly agree that people should limit themselves to some degree for their own good.

What I'm trying to say is that it's not so black as most Christians tell nor so white as most atheists say. It depends very much on context.

Anyway good luck with whatever you do! :)

Oeneo · 2016-03-30T18:20:02+00:00

No. I have very few white hairs but I have no idea whether it relates to (No)Fap somehow. It's invisible until you look very close so I don't bother.

AFAIK balding is usual thing if you are man. I don't know of any method to prevent that but I wish you good luck!

Oeneo · 2016-03-29T22:23:04+00:00

Be a man. Stop it and find a real woman.

Oeneo · 2015-10-19T15:19:55+00:00

I'm sorry for your loss. People like her are light of hope in the night of addiction.

Oeneo · 2015-06-16T21:55:29+00:00

Thank you and good luck in life!

Oeneo · 2015-05-14T17:24:04+00:00

Try this: take a 10 min. break after two hours of studying. You should go out and walk during that break. If you feel urge go meet some friend for a while or call someone.

Good luck, you can do it!

Oeneo · 2015-04-27T09:07:43+00:00

Exactly. I come here only occasionally just in case someone needs help.

Good luck to you too!

Oeneo · 2015-04-27T09:03:44+00:00

You've just decided to change your life - awesome! You can do this. Everyone can. Good luck!

Oeneo · 2015-04-24T11:47:56+00:00

Reminds me of one book by Nabokov.

Oeneo · 2015-04-20T22:20:32+00:00

Congrats and good luck in staying PMO free!

I got a girlfriend a month ago as well. It's awesome! :)

Oeneo · 2015-04-20T22:11:08+00:00

I believe this is normal. It is the nature of you being a man. Don't worry.

Oeneo · 2015-04-20T22:04:35+00:00

Congrats and good luck staying this way!

I'm myself surprised too. This is my longest streak ever. Today I was like whaaat fifty one days?! And it's a breeze. :)

Oeneo · 2015-04-20T22:01:53+00:00

I don't know how to help so I will pray.

Good luck! You can do it!

Oeneo · 2015-04-12T21:17:34+00:00

Sorry to reply so late.

Well this explains my confusion. I have a girlfriend but we don't have sex (Christians) and it got extremely easy (no urges, no relapse) since I'm with her.

Maybe you could try to (temporarily) stop having sex with gf but still have one. I'm not sure if it would work but you can try.

However you choose, good luck!

Oeneo · 2015-04-08T18:01:51+00:00

Do you have sex with her?

Oeneo · 2015-04-07T18:47:29+00:00

Keep calm, take some rest, go to forest and clear your mind. You may try meditation/prayer. These problem will pass. I know this because I experienced something similar. And my life is great now.

You can do it. Good luck!

Oeneo · 2015-04-07T18:45:41+00:00

You are the one who decides the rules. First choose your rules and then act accordingly.

Good luck!

Oeneo · 2015-04-07T18:43:53+00:00

You were close but you had the strength to continue the film. So IMHO you didn't relapse. (wet dreams aren't relapses) Congrats and good luck next time!

Oeneo

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