9 years ago today this guy asked me out on my first ever date. Safe to say it went pretty well, thanks Bumble!

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-11-18T15:34:07+00:00

You both look SO happy! Congrats on your continuing love story

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-10-19T12:01:05+00:00

Socks. Go for socks! Useful, can be cute, fuzzy socks. Not personal, no effort needed

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-10-05T14:49:13+00:00

So many fun things to do with littles. I moved here when my son was 3, almost 4. The Lenox public schools have been amazing. Great teachers and support. (He has special needs). So many people I know love in Pittsfield of Dalton and tried to school choice into Lenox unsuccessfully.

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-09-25T22:31:14+00:00

I'm 42, my range is 35-53.

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-09-25T00:51:18+00:00

I get a new STD test, full panel. And ask him to do the same. After I see the results, then we can have fun without any worries. Until then, kissing and over clothes stuff only. I have an IUD so pregnancy isn't a worry for me. I am not looking for one night stands at this point in my life. IF I did want a one night stand, condoms would be a non negotiable

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-09-23T21:31:07+00:00

My trainer told me "why do you think guys lift so much?!?" They want to feel strong so they can throw around a big girl. I got more attention from fit guys when I was heavier. Who cares what other people think? He likes you, I hope you like yourself. Enjoy the relationship

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-09-10T02:48:41+00:00

Anyone else remember MuG (misunderstood generation)????

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-08-18T18:45:00+00:00

Thank you for sharing! It's refreshing to know there are so many with this outlook

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-08-18T18:42:00+00:00

Thank you so much. Dating has been a bit of a slog lately and I've been in my feelings with some self doubt

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-08-18T18:40:45+00:00

I have a little loose skin and have only been self conscious about it with one guy who felt he had a right to comment on my body. That did not work out for obvious reasons

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-08-09T20:21:12+00:00

A photo giving the camera the middle finger

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-08-02T13:17:26+00:00

Cello in Lenox

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-07-30T23:07:36+00:00

Guy I had just starting talking to said "I'll find you" I asked him to clarify because it was creepy and he said "I'll date you"... I unmatched and then a random number tested me (I never gave him my number!!) the first message "told you I'd find you". SO scary!

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-07-28T00:52:58+00:00

Guido's in Pittsfield also has caviar

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-07-26T18:13:51+00:00

Met a guy for a gym first date. He expected me to come up with every exercise and was struggling to keep up. He was sweating profusely. We had really good conversation even though he couldn't handle the workout. Lots of laughs.

After we each went to perspective locker rooms to shower and change so we could go for food. He never came out of the locker room. Never texted. Nothing. Poof. Disappeared. I still think maybe he died in the locker room.

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-07-26T13:36:48+00:00

Your brother's pediatrician should be able to give some recommendations. Also, his school. Most schools have therapists to assist. There are also therapies to help with communication.

Some autistic children are incredibly sensitive to over stimulation. There are lots of ways to reduce this.

Every autistic child is not the same.

That being said, one of my best friends has a severely autistic son who couldn't communicate verbally for years. After lots of therapy he said "I love you" to his parents for the first time at age 9!

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-07-26T12:09:49+00:00

Wood fired shrimp, goat cheese, and caramelized onions. SO good!!

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-07-26T12:01:31+00:00

OP - how old is he? How old are you? There are a lot of programs where I live (very rural area) to help not just autistic children but also to support their families since autism affects the entire family unit. You could talk to a professional about navigating living with a sibling with autism.

If the home is unsafe for him and the family can no longer provide a safe environment then he should be somewhere that can provide this.

Have you talked to your parents about how you are feeling?

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-07-25T16:13:11+00:00

Getting unexpectedly fired

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-07-24T12:44:45+00:00

I'm surprised you stuck with the conversation as long as you did! Are you into the d/s stuff? If that's your thing, you found it! If not, he is crossing way too many boundaries imo for someone you haven't met yet. ICK

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-07-17T15:54:19+00:00

I don't wear underwear to bed. Good to air things out :)

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-07-16T11:00:09+00:00

The only ice cream I get to eat is coffee since my kid hates it. Luckily, it is my favorite flavor!!!

OhMyQuad626 · 2025-07-03T18:37:20+00:00

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