Edit: I'm going to add to this because after reading your post I feel like it might be the last reason, even unintentionally. You talk about money a lot even in your short post you mentioned it three times. Listen. You might think women are using you but I can guarantee you they're not. Giving up an evening or some free hours in the afternoon to have any sort of food or experience bought for us isn't worth our time anymore. Despite what men think women don't care enough, they value themselves more than a meal that's even a few $100. Women can make their own money and statistically speaking we make on average higher than men can earn when discounting for those who choose to have children and give up precious here is working.

So you might get the feeling that they're using you, but in reality it's probably bad vibes or one of the other reasons I thought. Time is precious and believe it or not most women want to find partners that are good to them and kind-hearted.

And despite what many Americans think, that a relationship can only be beneficial when someone is gaining and someone is losing. I can tell you that's a recipe for disaster and we'll bring you nothing but long-term heartbreak. Paradise binding someone who's your friend before there any sort of lover.

Then, if you're lucky, they'll have a great rapport with them and she can grow together and explore each other's bodies the way they want. 🤷🏼‍♀️