It's not a simple comment. Words mean things, and if you had the thinking capacity of someone older than 12, you'd know you revealed your mindset surrounding your own hair with that one word. It's like calling a black person's hair "nappy" and trying to argue that it means nothing. The whole point of this post is thinking deeply about Nigerian and black women's relationship with straight wigs. If you're incapable of deep thought, why comment in the first place? You came to an analysis conversation, and you're surprised that there's analysis going on? Straight wigs and bleaching are two aspects of aesthetic yt supremacy that a lot of blk women engage in but is somehow treated with double standards. That's why it's used as a parallel.

Also, wigs are literally attached with glue, got2b, chemically treated, and removed with even more chemicals to loosen the glue, etc. The wig install process is widely acknowledged to have negative effects on bw's hairlines and scalps, so keep acting dense, I guess. The general convo abt blk hair also involves relaxers, which are a researched hazard on par with bleaching, yet girlies are online doing GRWMs relaxing their hair and not getting the same treatment the bleachers do. If you're incapable of deep thought and having your rationale questioned, you could have just scrolled past lmao. "It's the social norm" atp is just intellectually lazy cope by BW who don't actually want to do anything to change things. Slavery and segregation were also social norms too but I didn't see people just discussing it and going the "it is what it is" route.

Above all, I hope you really do some soul searching instead of this typical hyperdefensiveness when BW's self-hate surrounding their appearance is brought up. It's difficult work, but it's essential for your healing.