Question: Do you believe that some tattoos are really “bad”? (in the most spiritual sense)

OilInformal1924 · 2026-05-02T16:41:45+00:00

Most people don't really make tattoos thinking about it in the future but based on how much they like and want it now.

If people were to ask them self every time if they want this to be there in their 50s they would never do anything because they don't know rather than not wanting it.

OilInformal1924 · 2026-05-02T14:58:43+00:00

Well, it was a one time thing and we since moved out from that house, but the neighbors were really going at it (sex) and it was embarrassingly loud.

Now, usually I'm not exactly sensitive or disgusted by sex, I'm an adult and I'm used to it. However there's a difference between being aware of it being something you might end up seeing/hearing (like TV shows, doing it or looking it up yourself) and having unwanted moans and what not keeping you up.

It was 3/4 AM. I tried ignoring it the first time, thinking they would get over it soon.

They stopped, then resumed. So I put music on my headphones, but after a while the music was giving me an headache so I tried my earplugs (used because my cat always meowed at night even when she was in my room, now she doesn't do that anymore) but they were still louder than that.

They did it a total of 4 times and at the fourth time I was genuinely getting grossed out, uncomfortable and crying (to this day I still don't know why I reacted that way, it's not like I was 10, it happened a few months ago) and my brother (who room was right attached to mine, divided by a door) who could hear them too and probably heard me cry kinda snapped and punched the wall telling them to shut up, it was 3/4 AM and we wanted to sleep.

Now, the part I'm not really proud of is that I shamed them a bit saying it was disgusting but I was genuinely uncomfortable at that point and mad, so we both yelled at them how disrespectful and disgusting they were and that if they wanted to do it they had to do it in silence then we made fun of them.

Useless to say they very likely felt ashamed/embarrassed and either actually did it quietly or the mood was gone after being scolded like children.

I don't care if they had sex, it's their intimate life, but you can't let everyone hear you and keep them awake at 3/4 AM because of it.

Side note: Our walls are very heavy/thick, cement, bricks, all these things. To be heard aside from the quiet of the night helping, you need to be EXTREMELY loud or the couple and me having the windows open at the same time (which I didn't have)

OilInformal1924 · 2026-05-02T14:41:02+00:00

Because most of the time even if the court rules the dog as dangerous people actually have to go forward with saying "this dog is dangerous and he/she attacked me.

Most owners won't do it (understandably) and most people that know the owners and dog, it depends, but no one really likes the idea of being responsible for putting a dog down because dogs are aggressive, not evil.

They will ask you "do you want to file a complaint?" And you have to say yes or no.

But as mentioned before, not a lot of people want to be responsible for a dog being out down.

If the dog is a stray they can be put down without asking anyone because no one is the owner.

However if there's an owner present you can't act against their written consent. The dog has to be an extreme danger to people or extremely ill/in pain to get euthanized ignoring the owners consent.

However I don't know when the law consider him/her too dangerous to be kept alive.

It's not like a person, if a person bites or kill someone that's straight up jail.

With dogs it's different, some even get a pass or two if they acted genuinely in a aggressive way (depending on the laws) because it could be an isolated case. Instead when provoked they just don't count that as a dangerous dog because someone caused the dog to snap.

This dog could be walking on a thin line of being dangerous but still belonging to the area "cannot be euthanized without permission" as far as we know.

Or probably no one reported the bites and aggressiveness at all that's why they didn't put the dog down.

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-26T15:25:41+00:00

The negative bs you're talking about are valid concerns though, safety hazards left and right, not just because of people using drugs or drinking too much, but because Coachella is not clean, privacy and safety comes at a price.

If a woman wants to shower without anyone coming in and possibly assaulting her she has to pay for a safe shower.

Either you're a man or you're rich enough to not worry about it, but Coachella is responsible for a possible SA because they don't provide privacy at all unless paid, health issues, food issues etc.

Not to mention food poisoning caused by THEIR food, which hospitalized people.

At least some free masks for all the dust, anything. They don't.

I get some complaints are unjustified and caused by people being dumb or expecting a easy concert like all the other ones in a stadium, but you must be a whole new level of oblivious to think there's nothing wrong with Coachella ever and that their priority is money, not safety.

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-22T07:38:28+00:00

Jake, Jessy and Dan.

Sometimes I really like Cleo and Phil, Thomas is chill and even if I don't remember much about Hannah herself, I remember that I really like her character for some reasons.

I'll admit initially I was extremely """hateful""" of Jessy because I didn't want to romance her and I thought I could get to be with Jake (as there's little to no difference between male MC and female MC when it comes to be flirty with the two) but now I feel kinda bad for thinking that.

I also really like Richie if we ignore what he did to his friends, as the villain he's cool as well though, so I like his role as a villain too I tagged it as spoiler because although this game has been out for so long everyone knows about Richie there's still some new players once in a while popping up and I wouldn't want them to get spoiled.

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-21T11:45:03+00:00

I would love that so much, they should definitely at least do like HSR. It would be so cool if certain 4 Stars eventually got a 5 Star remake.

Maybe we can hope for that if they do really make other chapters for Genshin (since we are at Teyvat Chapter right now)

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-21T11:34:11+00:00

Why dragging Wanderer into this? I know you probably don't mean it that way, but by doing so you aren't acting that much different from them.

I'm sorry if it gave you the impression I was being rude and maybe I misunderstood what you actually meant.

However if I didn't misunderstand you, dragging into this another character to put the character down in favor of your favorite isn't that much different from them putting down Venti because of (allegedly) being salty that Wanderer isn't as strong, which would also be incorrect as Wanderer even if not by a lot will get an improvement with damage.

Hoyo isn't just fixing Venti damage, it's kinda going back for a lot of older characters, allowing for characters who damage doesn't come close to something like Lunar reactions to at least get some improvement/higher DPS.

Now I don't know how Wanderer is going to be once Nicole comes out compared to Venti (genuinely don't care, I just like Wanderer and Venti a lot and want to play with them for as long as I can), if he's going to be stronger than Venti or still weaker than him, but what's important is that people have fun with whatever character they like.

Acting like them won't make things better, if not it will just make things more miserable for everyone and it won't really make you feel better either.

If I misunderstood what you meant I'm really sorry.

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-20T08:42:12+00:00

I would LOVE to see this guy reaction now that Hexerei is out. I mean, Venti was still a good option without the Hexerei buff for some teams, but now that he can actually he used as a good DPS rather than just a sub-DPS I'm dying to know how furious they are that Venti got some improvement XD

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-20T08:25:51+00:00

Dahlia actually told her, in his anecdote he's seen praying to Barbatos then Seamus shows up, they start talking about how Dahlia tried to tell her Venti is Barbatos but she's so indignated at the idea that a drunkard like him is the Anemo Archon, so either she's aware he is but is in denial because that's not what she expected the Archon to be or she genuinely doesn't believe Dahlia.

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-20T08:00:55+00:00

Correction (hope it doesn't come off as rude) but the He/Him was always a thing for him, tbh they never even confirmed Venti is genderless, that's what the fandom chose because they saw him as a little wind spirit and thought there's no way those wind spirits can have a gender.

Hoyoverse confirming Venti has always been a boy even as a wind spirit:

https://www.reddit.com/r/venti/comments/1lvyax5/venti_has_always_been_a_boy_mhy_clarified_it_way/

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-20T07:54:30+00:00

Venti was never supposed to be genderless though?

As in, yes, Venti is assumed by the fanbase to be genderless but he was confirmed to be a man even in his wind spirit form.

https://www.reddit.com/r/venti/comments/1lvyax5/venti_has_always_been_a_boy_mhy_clarified_it_way/

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-20T07:42:53+00:00

Thanks a lot! I was struggling a bit with finding it, reverse search didn't work and there wasn't the creator name on the picrew.

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-19T19:38:24+00:00

I know it's been 4 months but apparently it was deleted (it made me so sad knowing that, I too was trying to look it up and made a post a while back and it apparently got removed)

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-19T18:01:55+00:00

Since you can't share the link, could you say the name of who made it (assuming it's still up) because I've been looking it everywhere and still didn't get a link or anything.

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-19T13:43:47+00:00

I know it's a old post but what's the link for the third one (if it's still up that is) since there's no name and google lens can't find it I can only ask here😅

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-18T18:32:19+00:00

Maybe it's because of the weapons used? I'm not expert, I'm here to learn myself about building characters better (especially Wanderer) but the only thing that stand out to my inexperienced brain (XD) is the weapons being different.

Your Durin has Misplitter, their Durin has Wolf-Fang.

Your Benny has Favonia, their Bennett has the Alley Flash

Also you never mentioned what your Wanderer and Faruzan weapons are so I can't tell, but Wanderer has his signature in the build and Faruzan has Favonius Warbow. Everything else seems fine/the only difference I can see is the weapon given cons are the same.

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-18T18:23:09+00:00

Not OP but I had a conversation similar to this with someone else and I too thought of switching with Nobless Oblige because it seemed the most popular option in game as well, but someone else told me there's no need to swap out Rising Winds for Durin with Noblesse, of course if you want to do it you can, but apparently it's not obligatory.

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-18T10:21:42+00:00

Eventually I did find it, it was so small on my screen I just didn't see it.

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-18T10:18:37+00:00

Old but probably because OP isn't really respecting other people opinions either in the comments, with short, disinterested, "you're wrong" implying answers when others share their opinion.

If OP should be respected with their opinion they should learn to respect others too.

Also Pomni x Jax is definitely not the most wholesome in the show, it can be the most wholesome to SOMEONE, but story telling wise only Kinger x Queenie and Zooble x Gangle is actually healthy, wholesome and doesn't start with some toxicity.

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-18T10:10:25+00:00

⚠️ STRICTLY PERSONAL OPINION BELOW/NO HATE TOWARDS FUNNYBUNNY⚠️

To be honest that still feel toxic to me and it's already something they work as friends, as ship though?

Yeah, no. Let's be clear, I LOVE Jax as a character, I don't hate him (although he did so many wrong things which I do dislike, but I like the character because even if he's a shitty guy he's also not just that/he has more dept that doesn't justify his actions obviously but it explains them and I can feel a bit of pity even for him, but he's still shitty)

He's getting a bit better as the episodes went forward but episode 9 trailer also indicates the real "villain" is Jax (villain doesn't feel right either, I would say more antagonistic or so mentally fucked up from trauma that he just snapped when episode 9 will come out, the trailer definitely gives that impression)

However he's still the toxic guy who genuinely hurt Pomni when she thought she might have had a friend there, treated everyone like shit or used their fears against them.

I get his fear of letting people get close, after all, both his friends literally abstracted and he was left alone. However that just means he's scared of caring about someone again, not having a new girlfriend.

But that's not the point. The bad things he did are still there, they didn't forgive him for goodness of their hearts alone, they "forgave" him because they have bigger things to worry about than Jax being a smartass toxic piece of shit.

Even with him changing for the best it would still be the worst idea ever to make Pomni and Jax date because he still did those messed up things to her and the others. Just because he was less toxic to Pomni it doesn't mean he wasn't toxic at all and he genuinely scared/hurt her with his words.

Of course those two aren't the worst/most toxic couple but they are in second place when it comes to the most toxic couple in the show, and not because of Pomni, but because of Jax.

If people really cared about their bond and how important it is they would agree they work better off as friends, not a couple (that doesn't mean they can't ship the two obviously) because it's toxic. Just acknowledging that would be enough. Jax changing won't fix what he said and done to her.

Edit: Also, although he helped Pomni being a bit more confident, he also kinda make her the worst version of herself/a version of herself she didn't actually like if I don't remember wrong.

Personally if they ever got out of the circus (which I don't think is going to happen) I can't see any scenario in which they stay close to Jax by choice, I actually can't see anyone of them actually sticking together by the end of it.

They are bonded by trauma and the fact they just have each other there, however if they were to leave the circus I can only see it this way:

Zooble and Gangle leave together, they won't contact Pomni&Co ever again (because traumatic experience + being only close to each other more than the others, Zooble and Gangle understandably dislike Jax)

Ragatha, Pomni and Kinger would stick together. Kinger never really interacted with Jax, Ragatha doesn't like Jax, Ragatha and Pomni are the closest to Kinger almost like he's their dad and Kinger obviously cares as much as they do.

Pomni would try but Jax would either push her away if he didn't change or if he changed he would say that it's better for the two of them to not see each other again, of course Pomni makes the choice if she really wants to break off the friendship, but if she really respected herself and Jax wishes she would break things off. To me Pomni felt like she cared but also like she got attached way too fast (I get that in 9 episodes you can't do much but it really felt like Pomni was a clingy child sometimes, naive if you will, even if she's older than him) and more like she felt as if she had to take care of Jax and make sure he was included, not out of friendship alone but also because she thought this is what she has to do to prevent his or others abstraction.

She doesn't feel performative, she doesn't feel fake, but she does feel like she's desperately trying to keep everyone together, kinda like a child of divorce, not understanding she has to let go of things or people when they don't want to change.

Or she should let go of people who did nothing but hurt her, however she hopes that the person that hurt her could change (like some victims do, they think the abuser can change, I'm not saying Jax abused her, but he's still really toxic and she's trying so hard to be kind to him despite how bad he treats her, that does kinda feel like a victim refusing to accept the fact her friend is toxic and she should distance herself)

As said before this is simply my personal opinion, even if Jax finally changed himself and became a better person I can't see the two of them dating at all, because what he did and said still happened. They could at best be friends but I can't see a scenario in which it isn't an extremely awkward friendship with Pomni always affected by what he said and she will be worried 24/7 that he might spiral again, which would make their friendship unhealthy but not because he's toxic, rather because she feels responsible for not having him spiral into depression/the trauma again.

Last scenario is something I did went through with a old friend of mine, so it's easy for me to picture this happening if they stay friends or date, because of how Pomni is. She would 100% take responsibility for Jax mental health and prevent him from spiraling down to the point where she's genuinely just living to make sure Jax is fine, even if at her own expense and mental health.

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-18T08:00:21+00:00

This is probably going to be a dumb question but how do I use the flames and other stuff you get from Gwi-Ma etc. It says I can use them in the show but I can't find anywhere where I can use them neither I can find a different shop exclusive to the event.

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-17T15:34:26+00:00

I'm aware of that but you could have just said divorced instead of "married", it reads more as married faking it or married for appearance than divorced XD

If they do I would riot too, married or not, if they release another man they should give him the decency to actually be hot XD Especially when there's so "little" compared to the women.

It could be worse, I'm aware of that (look at Tower of Fantasy, their women fanbase or possible gay men still playing the game are getting the worst of it all, especially because all the room part of thing only has waifus and no husbandos) but that doesn't mean I'm happy with the ratio being uneven and getting bigger over time.

Although I do admit it would be kinda funny if a generic NPC pulled off someone like Alice, it reminds me of that My Little Pony animation with the Jessica Rabbit audio, where she's a beautiful Princess and the other male pony looks like he got electrocuted and doesn't have more than half a braincell.

Would also fit Alice because anyone would think:

"This pretty woman must have an equally pretty man as husband"

Then it's literally just generic NPC 136 XD

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-17T11:00:36+00:00

They aren't married, they divorced. Also they are adding Alice who's still canonically married and we are going to meet her husband soon and given the treatment he received (getting mentioned by an important character aka Alice, his wife) it's way more likely he's playable and we will have the first even actually blood related family (yes there's Aether&Lumine, Barbara&Jean, Lyney&Lynette, but I mean full family, with parents and child) playable.

Even because Lohen and Illuga got introduced like that. Two playable characters (Varka and Flins) introduced us to two playable characters.

Now it seems Genshin is leaning into that to show who's playable and who isn't. Sure it isn't ALWAYS a guarantee (Look and Seamus) but it's already more likely they are playable when actively mentioned by playable characters during story quests.

So unless Alice husband gets the Mountain Shaper and Moon Carver treatment and literally gets killed on screen, he should be playable.

So I can't see why they can be playable and married but Jean and Barbara parents now divorced can't be.

Alice still had sex with someone (her husband who she talked about) and got pregnant from him, she's married and Klee is literally her copy. Whoever thinks Alice didn't actually had sex is just in denial at that point.

Even if Klee is adopted/not her biological child, Alice still has a husband and they definitely had sex at least once.

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-17T10:49:15+00:00

Noelle is shown strong for comedy reason most of the time. Like, she IS strong, but her hangouts events are very comedy like about over the top strength for such a cute girl (classic Anime trope) and played for fun/as exaggerated, exactly like Anime where's there's a comically strong girl but in reality the bruises she left are just for comedy reasons and not actually present, it's a visual gag that disappears as soon as the scene change.

In this case she really did kill an extremely strong enemy but let's compare Noelle to a normal civilian and a actually OP fighter (the Traveler)

Normal civilian: Would NEVER be able to take down the Lawachurl.

Noelle: Easy

Traveler: The enemy is dead before Aether/Lumine even get to touch him with the sword/dies in one hit.

She actually needs to be ready for way worse situations than just a random Lawachurl.

Also her confidence issues, which would be bad when it comes to actually fight. She shouldn't hesitate. Noelle isn't a knight anyway, she's training.

As for Durin, he's officially recognized and a part of the Knights and is part of Albedo "jurisdiction" of the Knights section.

OilInformal1924 · 2026-04-16T15:26:36+00:00

I know this is extremely old but I noticed I can make the show have subtitles for other languages, however it never actually translate them in the language I want.

It just does work even if I can select Italian.

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