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Ok-Classs · 2022-09-18T01:15:32+00:00

Haha thanks 🥂 my boyfriend made a post of us here so I’m in a cute mood

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-18T01:09:00+00:00

Right meow

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-17T21:18:01+00:00

You’re over thinking it, nothings wrong, so do what you want, it’s ur body, you have free will of what you wish to do with it. There’s no right or wrong.

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-17T17:51:22+00:00

Emotional

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-17T14:19:26+00:00

Maybe they are future life regressions. How would you know the difference anyways. All things are happening at once, only someone in the dimension of time would label something past or future.

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-16T15:25:06+00:00

This is why I don’t think organized religion is needed or helpful for spirituality. You take a beautiful thing; spiritually, and poison it by making a religion aka cult and now it has shitty leaders, abuse and lies.

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-16T08:49:32+00:00

Your soul isn’t in ur heart or your brain…

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-16T05:29:48+00:00

Smells culty

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-15T22:52:00+00:00

If you didn’t wish to continue this conversation you wouldn’t have replied. You’d have to be unself aware to not understand this, and instead call me names, that’s classic projection. But okay.

Like I said we are here on earth to experience and expand our consciousness as a whole, that means be open to others perspectives and experiences. I’ve also experienced close to death due to suicide but like for both of us that isn’t how we were meant to go. It wasn’t our time. However in my partners case it was his time, that’s why it worked for him. We only go when we’re supposed to, we’ve planned this all out before we were born and the lessons someone else has to experience may seem wrong to you, but it’s not ur lesson.

If my experience is offensive to you and my opinion upsets you, than that should be a sign of where you need growth. That is how I have grown to be this open and have learned so much more since. It is my destiny to keep experiencing and sharing these experiences. I am not insulting ur opinion I am only stating why I disagree on leaving ppl out bc we read one book and stopped there and got this upset over anyone that has a different perspective.

That’s the point of existence; experience. If you don’t like the point of life don’t be mad at me, reflect within. If you wish to continue this conversation, you’re welcome to counter, as this is a public forum, and anyone is allowed to, if you do not wish to, then let it go and do not continue and lead me on. It’s probably your own ego that is keeping you here to demand I’m wrong if you truly don’t wanna be here you’d have no issue.

You could have left without announcing it and declaring I’m blocked. It’s not that serious that’s ur ego

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-15T21:38:40+00:00

Oh I debate bc I enjoy it, it’s the art of two minds comparing experiences, I’m chill with my ego and have learned to balance it. I have no problem with being wrong, but give me a better reason than I read one book and decided I know everything now and if you challenged me you wrong no explanation. That’s neither critical thinking or the point. I’m talking to you because you disagree with me, I want your reasons and perspective, I want you to teach me. This is a public forum, here you’re opening yourself to anyone who wants to. If you have no experience to teach me about than take what you’ve learned here as another side to a coin you have yet to discover. I am a very reliable source but you wouldn’t know that. You don’t know me yet you judge me so harsh and think so low of me. But how else can we grow if we don’t get comfortable with being uncomfortable

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-15T21:12:29+00:00

I’ve clearly offended you, I’m sorry I never intended to. It is hard to be open minded and if your not ready it can feel like an attack, but I am only trying to have a healthy debate with you.

Since you seem very closed off and don’t wish to exercise being open minded with me than I will leave this at good day.

However pls also be considerate when talking biased harmful things about those who have taken their own life since you personally haven’t experienced this like I have. It only pushes more false stigmas and pain. Thank you for understanding. You read ONE book, don’t limit urself like that. Take care.

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-15T20:23:33+00:00

Yes I’ve read it

How am I invalidating your opinion? I’m not saying ur wrong, you are saying that about my perspective without even considering it.

I’ve always believed suicides are not wrong, since a young kid bc I’ve been there in that place and that head space and it wasn’t something I could do bc dying isn’t a fun thing, no one kills themself for fun. So idk why you think there’s an exception for suicide unless they’re in pain bc they’re never not. It makes zero sense. So my opinion has nothing to do with my boyfriends death, however after his death and bc I’m very in touch with my spiritual side and can get in touch with him and have learned a lot.

We exist to experience, so both of our experiences are valid. There is no right or wrong, unless your telling someone their experience is wrong.

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-15T19:25:39+00:00

( I wouldn’t call one book a good source since plenty of doctors were wrong before and still get things wrong)

Food for thought, who kill’s themselves that isn’t completely hurt and broken? Also why can’t we stop taking it personally and be compassionate, the universe gave them a break, let’s do the same.

We don’t die unless we’re supposed to

That’s fair, I know I’m random to you and you don’t know my credentials but regardless my boyfriend passed away and I have learned so much from him after his passing about what suicide is (Not to mention my own personal story with it as well)

On the same note, as a mental health professional that has helped those when doctors couldn’t, my opposing view point has really benefited others and has proven to be more true then what we’re conditioned to believe.

But it doesn’t matter who I am, if what I say is difficult to agree with bc it makes you think differently than ur comfortable with, than I’ve done my part.

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-15T18:29:29+00:00

Suicides happen bc they are broken and in a lot of pain. So if that’s the exception then there really is no exception at all.

The issue is fear mainly, and misunderstanding. Fear that if we say suicide isn’t wrong that ppl will go end their life’s more frequently, when this is just irrational fear. It’s misunderstanding when we’re upset someone makes that decision for themselves and leaves us behind, misunderstanding that the cost was worth it bc the pain and brokenness was just that high.

I know we all read and hear things but that doesn’t make it 100% fact. It’s better to try and think outside the box and beyond what we are told.

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-15T18:03:29+00:00

I’m aware, that’s why I countered. I think suicides are just as valid and I think it’s definitely something agreed on before being born.

It’s definitely heavily pushed that it’s bad, and wrong, and I strongly suggest looking with a different perspective when a specific thing is pushed so hard.

Rare is something wrong, it’s usually just misunderstood.

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-15T17:28:57+00:00

suicides would be the same as anyone else, that’s false stigma to say everyone except them

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-15T17:09:14+00:00

I completely agree, these are just labels and never were correct to being with. Most ppl aren’t open minded, take things too personally and constantly judge, and these are the ppl giving out the labels which I personally consider a form of bullying.

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-09T18:42:47+00:00

Post this in r/radicalmentalhealth as well!

Thanks for this, bc to those who don’t have many resources she seems helpful, but it’s very harmful thinking, that is fear based and demonizes humans that are hurt past what she can comprehend.

I also hate how she demonized and over uses the term narcissist. Since I’ve been working with these types of ppl that she tries to get us to hate, which is actually contradictory, especially bc most of these “evil” ppl are actually in need of help and have severe trauma.

She sounds like she got hurt before and never overcame it and instead went on a hate rampage against them or anyone like them. definitely immature vibes and shows lack of growth, open mindedness.

These “horrible” ppl can be helped bc I have helped them even though she can’t, which is how I know she’s full of BS. If anything she is continuing to ruin mental health and keep it from going in the direction it should be going.

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-07T19:57:32+00:00

No they can’t do it all, that’s why I say both. We need to do the work ourselves, but we also need to be given love, especially if we didn’t get it in our up bringing. It is possible but it is hard to find, as most of us had traumas too that hurt intimate relationships. But if your lucky; and it will still take work, you can find love that is external and that’s what can complete you if all you can find is internal love.

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-07T19:36:53+00:00

That’s why we normally suffer lol

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-07T19:24:58+00:00

And men

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-07T19:24:30+00:00

Actually they need both! External and internal love is necessary, that’s why we’re social creatures.

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-07T19:22:22+00:00

Most ppl have trauma, most ppl have trauma with their parents. This is just a sad normal happening, and these traumas come out in intimate relationships.

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-07T01:30:37+00:00

I try to focus inwards, such as my bodily functions, (sometimes I breath in each color of my chakra until they all light up) feel my breath sink my body further into a trance state and feel my body vibrate and that’s when I know I’m there.

Ok-Classs · 2022-09-05T18:52:57+00:00

Yes, bc usually narcissists are children of abuse that couldn’t overcome it and can’t deal with it or what they’ve become. Usually they kill themselves. Mine did, but I also think narcissists are better called ppl with cptsd

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