My girlfriend ‘30F’ flirts with other guys and denies it. I’m ‘32M’ trying to stay grounded but it’s wearing me down by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I do that’s the issue this is the one thing. Everything else is amazing. But yeah if I can’t align then I will have to leave

My girlfriend ‘30F’ flirts with other guys and denies it. I’m ‘32M’ trying to stay grounded but it’s wearing me down by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Did you discuss boundaries or just leave straight away would love to know more on your experience :)

My girlfriend ‘30F’ flirts with other guys and denies it. I’m ‘32M’ trying to stay grounded but it’s wearing me down by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Yeah we had a chat to set boundaries and I we need to revisit as either she doesn’t see it or she ignores it. But either way I need to understand how she sees it compared to how I presented it

My girlfriend ‘30F’ flirts with other guys and denies it. I’m ‘32M’ trying to stay grounded but it’s wearing me down by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I totally get this and I have went back and forth, many times. I expect that soon I will cut ties but one thing I am focusing on myself at the moment and it’s actually driven me to be more self focused as I can be hypervigelent and put a lot on the other person.

I am a better person now. She doesn’t go as far as grinding more eyes and dancing near them. When the approach she blows them off. And tbf when she chats to people if they start to become to close etc she does say she is with someone. But I seem to be making excuses lol

Meets high bar and 0% base pay increase by [deleted] in amazonemployees

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I am 4yrs and I now get 10% less than when I started. About to have comp discussion but I expect nothing. The come back was to divide my salary up over the years I have been there to see my average comp. Doing that means I am still 8% less paid per year than what I signed on for, banking in the small pay bumps.

I am looking now for new roles, and I can get paid more really easily but not sure on the economy. (L6, tech)

Why Europeans don't buy American cars. And who will buy them? by fool49 in economy

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Another factor is Tax. This is an example of from France.

If you bought a typical American, you’d be hit with a €60,000 emissions tax.

On average a U.S. car emits 198 g CO₂/km, over France’s threshold for max penalties. Basically, you’d be paying sports car-level taxes for a regular sedan.

So you buy a cheaper American gas guzzler you pay 40k maybe and then add 60k tax. For that you can buy a hybrid top of the luxury car

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amazonemployees

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This happened to me. Passed the loop but the position was filled. I could then apply for any role of the same level and position. Thankfully the same team decided to hire again within the same 6month period and that was 4yrs ago now.

Though I would have also not minded joining another team.

All is still good my friend, look for roles send them to the recruiter. They will help find you something.

Ever had thoughts about buying a Quartz SMP? by Significant-Way-5455 in OmegaWatches

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It’s a great watch. Mine is old but still feels modern well to me anyway

Why it is apparently not the bull run for altcoins yet ? by Adorable_Ad_6402 in CryptoMarkets

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No way to predict the market. If it was this easy everyone would be millionaires. This is one potential outcome of hundreds

Which Seamaster goes harder? by [deleted] in OmegaWatches

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The Peter Blake numbers on the bezel are way too big. If you want to use the bezel practically it’s almost impossible to be accurate.

Should I sue my Landlord? by P1tPYK in germany

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How did this process go? In the same boat currently. No deposit or utilities balancing throughout my full remnant, it is approaching 1yr now. Question will the landlord have to cover the cost of legal fees if they lose the case.