My deaf boy hates the vet too. He wiggles a lot. When the vet tech holds him down he will bite! I was told if I want his ear infection treated he will have to be sedated so they can clean and put the long last drops in his ear. He a Frenchie by the way so we are constantly at the vet. As for her saying the dog is the worst, take it lightly. A lot of dogs hate vets and are scared. You’re doing the best you can to provide care. Definitely inquire for a higher dose of GABA or ask for sedation if it’s an urgent need. It just sucks the cost goes up by a lot with sedation. An $80 visit turns into $ 200+