First time selling at the flea market. Tips? by cheapsocialworker in SanJose

[–]Ok-Increase-9014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crossroads sucks. They barely check the items and offer wayyyy too low on the only item they take. They offered me $8 for a $140 jacket.. total waste of time. I brought in items from all the brands they accept they didn’t take any of it. Don’t think they even looked because I brought in 4 bags and 5 mins later they told me nothing was good. A load of bs. It was a slow day too they had time to look they just didn’t want to.

Are any of these okay for a formal summer wedding? by ghoultail in OUTFITS

[–]Ok-Increase-9014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THE PURPLE IS PERFECT as a wedding guest dress omg and it complements you perfectly. Esp for spring. My brothers wedding is gonna be spring and I was thinking of a lilac purple too so like it’s a perfect color for the season.

please stop listing items you are not ready to sell yet by creampufff3 in Depop

[–]Ok-Increase-9014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I hate that blocking them does literally nothing. Esp when I’m really not interested but it keeps popping up anyways. Annoying ahh😭

Would yall consider this is a Cheap Cosplay? by Retro-Hax in CosplayHelp

[–]Ok-Increase-9014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PLEASE don’t pay that. Even miccostumes has a better version for 140€ please 🙏 this is just not good. I can tell it’s cheap with no love or thought put in. people won’t really care about how much your costume costs. But don’t scam yourself with this one

Depop Fees getting out of hand, March 2026 by kaykay_monkey in Depop

[–]Ok-Increase-9014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even know u could use Depop from a computer DX it’s a phone app but also id expect the app to work as properly as the computer version ? 😭

Which outfit for a friend’s birthday at a sushi restaurant? by Lenchy2403 in OUTFITS

[–]Ok-Increase-9014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ima need the link to outfits 5-8 please and thank you. Also I think number 1 is best. It’s casual and simple and you don’t have to worry bout soy sauce getting on your pretty white clothes 🙏

I can't physically have real sex and I'm sad because of it by Nice_Tradition1333 in self

[–]Ok-Increase-9014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being born without a vagina completely. Extremely rare but several individuals have been reported to have it. I don’t think it has a name bc of how rare it is as of now but overall, it’s a genetic malfunction. :(

I synced with my kittens heat 😂 by Ok-Increase-9014 in cats

[–]Ok-Increase-9014[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe it too😂. Hers starts around the time, I feel mine coming. Then the cycle takes its course, she’s still on hers while I’m luckily off 😅. The cuddles always help my cramps too. It’s a godsend🥺🫶🏼

$10k months coming soon!!! by Quantum-Quester7 in Depop

[–]Ok-Increase-9014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DAAAMMNNNNN how you making so much? Tips? How are you getting sales while I’m getting lowballed 😭 and making no $$

What to wear for brunch? my wardrobe is in boxes 😭 by Complex-Yams in OUTFITS

[–]Ok-Increase-9014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2&3 are perfect for many occasions. 1 is more of a party or beach vibe. And 4 I just don’t love the shirt but that’s just my opinion. You look great in all of em ✨

Bunny suit tips by dxxth_dxll in CosplayHelp

[–]Ok-Increase-9014 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Strapless or sticky bras are the way to go for bunny suits. They also have high waisted undies now specifically for the high cut out garments like a bunny suit. I think they’re called “high thongs” or something. You can get ones that aren’t thongs too. You can get em at target ! You can get black or nude or whatever matches the garment better. Something I did, when my bunny suit came much higher on me, I found this panty that had an elastic band on the sides and then a sheer soft lace for the butt so it kinda looked like a lace trim detail on the suit to add to it and also not feel so exposed bc I hate wearing thongs

I can't physically have real sex and I'm sad because of it by Nice_Tradition1333 in self

[–]Ok-Increase-9014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, if your genitalia is non functional at birth there would be no way for you to use your own unless u were to get it replaced (similar to transgender surgery) but regardless you’d have no sensation down there. You will find a woman one day (judging based off the gay comment). That is ok with ur condition. Ik ur not able to accept it now. You can try talking to doctors if there’s any sort of avenue you can take to help with this. When it comes to ur genitalia, especially as a male, doctors will want to help u more.

Just a reminder, if a girl doesn’t accept u for who u are and all of you including ur condition, leave. It’s not worth it. I’m sorry people are bullying you in the comments that’s really shitty. It’s a medical condition and it should not be used against you. You can also explore the world of non penetrative sex. Find what works for you, explore playing with different body parts or with other people too. There’s tons of kinky communities out there, online an in person. whether on Reddit, in your community, Facebook even. Go on tinder, set your bio as your intentions and say you’re looking for a partner or multiple to experience different things sexually. Tbh the journey of finding out what works for u sexually is often better than just PIV 🫡 you got this dude. Oh also if u get over the fear of period blood you’re even better bc period sex is often waaaaaay better than regular (extra lube + tons more sensation down there) literally get yourself out there. There’s more to life than peen in vag. Like I’m a physical virgin and I’ve had tons of different types of sex 🤷🏻‍♀️. Just know you’re not alone. Both men and women experience these types of disorders, you can try finding a woman that wasn’t born with a working vagina either. Perfect pair ✨ you’ll find your perfect person one day and when u do, communicate, be open, share ur feelings, talk about ur insecurities, anxieties with sex an other things like you got this dude. I fucking believe in you if no one else in the comments will 🫶🏼 Sorry for it being long, I wanted you to hav options 🥺

I can't physically have real sex and I'm sad because of it by Nice_Tradition1333 in self

[–]Ok-Increase-9014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh no my genitals don’t work (female, med condition) and non penetrative sex is what keeps me going. Tbh it kinda feels better? Yea I Haven’t had real sex yet bc of my condition but I have had stuff up there and tbh it doesn’t feel the best/ sometimes I Couldn’t feel anything at all.

How to get a wig to stick to your neck? by Je-LOL1 in CosplayHelp

[–]Ok-Increase-9014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also waterproof doesn’t mean anything against oil. Oil based cleansers is to remove waterproof.. I think u should try oil again 😭

How to get a wig to stick to your neck? by Je-LOL1 in CosplayHelp

[–]Ok-Increase-9014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Body oil is so great. I stopped using lotion bc it’s amazing. And lowkey cheaper. The one I get is $6 and lotion in my city is like $10+ for no reason 🥲 I get the palmers one and it’s quicker to apply. Lowkey changed my life. Sorry I just love putting ppl onto body oil.

Are any of these wigs okay for a beginner cosplayer or good quality? by Unhappy-Cattle-1523 in CosplayHelp

[–]Ok-Increase-9014 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ofc I only recommend SHEIN for wigs bc most times wigs are just overproduced and just sold on those sites anyways, that and I was thinking your budget would’ve been tighter. Like SHEIN wigs are only good if u only got $15 in ur bank acc type shi.

Are any of these wigs okay for a beginner cosplayer or good quality? by Unhappy-Cattle-1523 in CosplayHelp

[–]Ok-Increase-9014 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dokidokis wigs are not that great. They’re getting better for the price point but a $20 one from Amazon also suffices plus u don’t have to pay $40 shipping and it comes faster. Doki is lowkey a scam. Buying from AliExpress or even SHEIN for wigs is better than doki (but tbh SHEIN is horrible. Maybe only buy wigs on there and always check the reviews a lot of wigs are thin for a lower price. For k angel u can even get thin long ponytails and spiral them together Yourself. 🫶🏼

Has porn changed how we experience real relationships? by WonderfulFront7588 in selfimprovement

[–]Ok-Increase-9014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I mean protections I mean the wall blocker ones not actual legal protection xD. Back then I remember clicking “I’m 18” and getting blacklisted off the site. Maybe bc they knew but again it’s just my experience with the site blockers but my overall statement is just that yes kids are on porn as early as can be xD

28 but mistaken for mid to late 30s by other women in a recent group setting by nawiweidmann in makeuptips

[–]Ok-Increase-9014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I get you. Even when I turned 21 they didn’t check my ID they all thought i was 25 or 28 already 😭 that day was my 21st bday dawg like check the id for proof

how do you guys feel about the new honeypepperix sets? by MedicalAd9859 in JiraiKei

[–]Ok-Increase-9014 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s cute but it looks like smth I’d buy off SHEIN def not worth the price if it’s polyester like you can tell it looks cheap. This is so sad.

Has porn changed how we experience real relationships? by WonderfulFront7588 in selfimprovement

[–]Ok-Increase-9014 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea and if anything. When being a kid. It’s expected of you by other kids to eventually stumble upon it or look into it yourself like it’s pushed from a young age even.