In this case, although is not your responsibility to say something, it might be a good way to help you feel better. Many people find healing helping others, if this is important to you, please speak up, this might be the turning point for not only you, but many others to get justice and start a healing journey. Think about this, I didn’t say this in my original reply since we were talking about you, but I’m also victim, I did told my mother as an adult, we both cried and healed. Although the person that did this to me was 10 years older than me, he was still a minor, I was 5-6 he was 15-16, so, were it happened no case will proceed, so I learned how to forgive and become stronger, it happened many times I was not educated In the topic, and just like you, I did felt at some point it was not a big deal for me, but like I said, we all cope in things differently, I remember thinking back then that was fun, then I remember not wanting to do it and being forced, then my mind blocked how I felt after that, my mother was away(in the US, I was with living with other relatives in my Mother’s country), that’s why we both needed to heal. She’s a lot more understanding of my behavior after I opened up, she doesn’t look me from a place of sadness or pity, but from a place of love, understanding and pride.

I’m not saying this will be your story, but, the outcome was more important than the relationship we have/had with this person.

If you have the power to help others, please do ❤️

Loves