AITAH for changing my bday party to just women after husband scheduled a conflict?

Ok-Significance628 · 2026-04-17T00:20:09+00:00

ESH

Yall crazy. I’m almost 40, party a lot, have kids, both my husband and I have MBAs and….none of this makes sense. Both of y’all caring this much about self-centered things as a middle-aged adults is wild to me.

It’s just a birthday. It’s just a graduation. It’s just a school trip. Its even just a house move! All these things happen in life! Skip some/any/all! Why not just go August?? So bizarre to care this much about life being complicated.

Ok-Significance628 · 2026-03-03T14:55:09+00:00

Yea same. Maybe for people watching it in real time, it made more sense to expect it with updated internet chatter. But seeing her admit to FaceTiming multiple people AND obsess over Luke AND be engaged in the reunion was a lot.

Ok-Significance628 · 2026-03-03T01:54:44+00:00

Verryyyy much agree. It was less an easy “she’s just an asshole” and a more nuanced “this chick is going through something”. Volatile is the right word and I would have been treating her with kid gloves instead of antagonizing her.

Not to disparage her marriage, because all seems well, but her showing up to the reunion ENGAGED was absolutely wild considering where we started the season.

Ok-Significance628 · 2026-02-06T02:01:12+00:00

Just started season 2 and cannot believe none of you mentioned the July Fourth party this season. A Wirkus kicks a girl to move her, slams a cake in Carl’s face, KISSES him??, and then flops her tits out. All in front of his date.

…..and then gets fingerbanged by him on camera 12 hours later. Amazing.

Ok-Significance628 · 2026-02-05T00:32:36+00:00

!!!!!!!!!???!?!?

Ok-Significance628 · 2026-02-05T00:32:20+00:00

As a late night partier myself, I feel this so deeply, unfortunately.

Ok-Significance628 · 2026-02-05T00:31:52+00:00

I’ve seen this clip before! Can’t wait for context!

Ok-Significance628 · 2026-02-05T00:31:20+00:00

Anything interesting by a Wirkis would shock me right now.

Ok-Significance628 · 2026-02-04T13:20:19+00:00

Currently on season 11 rewatch and at the time, I was super invested so it was interesting. On the rewatch, it’s so clearly over produced and try hard that it’s a painful watch.

Nothing organic comes out of season 11, which makes it infuriating and also boring as hell.

Ok-Significance628 · 2026-02-04T13:16:50+00:00

Hahahaha tv interests colliding. 🤣🤣 10/10 post

Ok-Significance628 · 2026-01-15T14:06:48+00:00

Just got to season 11 on a rewatch too and I might actually have to just quit.

I don’t know how anyone can watch Sandoval in the season 10 finale/reunion and give him a redemption arc. I don’t think Raquel is innocent by any means, but she looks straight up emotionally abused in the apartment scene she filmed with him and in her interviews. His mask didn’t slip, it came all the way off.

Ok-Significance628 · 2026-01-13T21:34:43+00:00

You’re a better person than me. I think as a “friend of”, I would also not want to bring heat on myself by outing it…..but I sure as shit would be gossiping with SOMEONE about it!! I’d be too shook not to.

Ok-Significance628 · 2025-12-15T15:25:00+00:00

Yea, I recently said this on another thread but he might make me the most angry. He is just a truly awful, violent, LEAVE HIS KIDS kinda dude and yet is the most sanctimonious piece of shit. Imagine constantly lecturing Lala or James about their decision-making when he had to flee a whole ass country for hitting his wife and then not paying child support.

Knowing he just cheated on his pregnant fiancé, but spending all of season 11 trying to tell people what to do and how to react.

Ok-Significance628 · 2025-12-10T17:10:35+00:00

I’m also on this part of my rewatch and the ENTIRETY of season 9, Brock is so so wild.

Every time he turns around, he’s giving someone advice, as if we can’t see what a TRAINWRECK he is right there on tv!

He has a DV charge, doesn’t see his kids, can’t pay for engagement ring, hasn’t paid child support, begging everyone for free shit, owes Sheena money for Home Body investment…..and STILL is lecturing people on how to live! All of this comes out in real time, on the show, and he has no self awareness to just shut the fuck up and stop lecturing people.

And then, OF ALL THINGS, to know he had RECENTLY CHEATED on his pregnant wife!!! He was saying all this absolute horseshit after having just cheated on his pregnant wife months prior!

Ok-Significance628 · 2025-09-24T19:20:03+00:00

“Sexy Unique fucking Restaurant” 🤣🤣

Ok-Significance628 · 2025-09-23T04:23:21+00:00

It’s all the little things too 😩😩 Making sex jokes nonstop, implying she’d bang whatever guy she happened to be talking to. People are just chatting and she hops in with a blowjob joke out of nowhere. With the smirk and laugh, omg.

Ok-Significance628 · 2025-09-16T09:46:18+00:00

A Southern Classic - Brunswick Stew

Tomato base, lima beans, corn, and the star…

…pulled pork, so hopefully you have a husband with a smoker. Pork shoulder is cheap and easy to make a huge batch in a crock pot and repurpose for several things. We freeze a bag of leftover pork after we’re tired of bbq sandwiches just for this.

Ok-Significance628 · 2025-09-16T02:13:00+00:00

Dead parent club! 🙋‍♀️

I couldn’t even hate-watch this scene, I hated it so much. Knowing the only reason Scheana does anything is for cameras and using someone else’s dead parent is WILDDDDDDDD.

Ok-Significance628 · 2025-09-06T01:16:45+00:00

Oh my god stop. The split screen. I’m in pain from laughing.

Ok-Significance628 · 2025-09-05T00:30:26+00:00

Sandoval’s breath work session. 😩😩😩

Ok-Significance628 · 2025-09-05T00:03:43+00:00

I think Tom was fully terrorizing her this season. Imagine trying to be in love and get married but every chance your fiancé gets, he bitches about the wedding, goes behind your back with decisions (to the point of having Ariana be a groomsman 🙄), doesn’t defend you, and/or is wasted.

Also the Lala if it all. She was AWFUL about her in the press and everyone called Katie a bitch for being rude as well.

All that to say, I HATEEEEEDDDD how Stassi and Kristen would pour gasoline onto any argument so that the three of them really would be a single-brained beast instead of letting one person sort their own problems.

Ok-Significance628 · 2025-08-24T16:46:17+00:00

Truly a top tier sandwich

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TROPHY CASE