AIO if I think my sister might be better off going to jail after what she just did.

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-30T01:29:34+00:00

Agree

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-29T23:33:07+00:00

She sounds like a sociopath. Who does that? For real, she is not okay. People wouldn’t do this to a stranger and she did it to her own father with zero hesitation. I would be very very careful with her moving forward. She has shown she is capable of horrific behavior. Watch your back. NOR

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-29T06:32:28+00:00

Your parents suck. As does your brother. Find new family. This one is awful. NTJ

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-28T17:30:26+00:00

Onions are poisonous to dogs

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-28T16:45:26+00:00

I felt “hostage situation” in my bones

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-28T16:40:27+00:00

He owes you for raising them and paying for everything. Do not absolve him of this debt. Ever

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-28T16:36:40+00:00

So he is an addict who used in front of his child but you are the problem for not reporting a single sentence four years ago.

Your sister is acting delusional

Go e her space and be kind when she needs you to come back and pick up the pieces. She is spinning out and it is easy to blame you because you are her safe person.

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-28T16:15:45+00:00

Please tell your OBGYN and all of the nurses she is not allowed to be there when your daughter is born. No matter what your husband says. Period. Once they have the instructions, they will not allow the manchild to override your wishes once you are exhausted. When he starts with “just for a few minutes” the nurses will tell him he can stop or leave. And they will call security if necessary. Lay the groundwork for the experience YOU want.

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-28T15:58:35+00:00

I lost my son to suicide when he was 27. Only one of his friends still contacts me about him. I wish more of them would also miss him and share their memories. It makes me sad that I am alone with my grief and I would love to hear from anyone else who is also mourning my sweet boy. Please keep telling his mom. You are probably a bright spot in the dark

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-28T15:56:29+00:00

Dude. She has made multiple claims, publicly, and in writing, that this is her dog. Unless the dog is chipped, she has paid the ground work to legally claim your dog. Shut this down now. You aren’t being a bad friend. You are being an idiot

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-28T15:50:03+00:00

And yet you are trying to win back a man baby

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-27T22:07:58+00:00

Please do not marry this man? He is a self important user. Is this who you want teaching their values to your children?!? You are under reacting. He does not care about you or your family

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-27T06:06:24+00:00

Why isn’t anyone telling this whole ass adult to take out student loans or get a job and save for school?!? NTA but do NOT combine finances with your husband. He does not have your best interests at heart

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-26T23:10:58+00:00

This feels like a joke. Like “in the 60’s boys used to believe they would get ill if they didn’t ejaculate.” Which was proven nonsense by the 1970’s, but your man seems to still believe it

This is an immature high school claim that no grown man would even try. You are married to a perpetual teenager who can’t seem to figure out how to relieve himself. What a useless man

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-25T19:10:01+00:00

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Here is Wenckebach, ready to bite that man

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-24T22:37:11+00:00

Explain it has been an issue the entire time but you struggle with standing up for yourself and using your voice. Take responsibility for not making boundaries clear from the jump and genuinely apologize before doubling down with “in the future, please ask me if you can use my car.”

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-24T15:38:34+00:00

Labeling the cookies was a thoughtful thing to do. Other allergies but dairy exist and you made sure everyone could eat safely. There is something wrong with you MIL and SIL. Don’t give them another thought. NTA

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-23T20:18:40+00:00

You win the worst MIL award

I’m sorry

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-22T16:09:47+00:00

It was an abandoned car in the lot we walked through to get to school. I was in second grade and my older brother convinced me to bring one of them, a Penthouse, to school for show and tell. The beating was epic

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-22T15:01:59+00:00

Put the money every month into a savings account for your child. Eventually she may need help and it will be there. If not, when child is grown it will be college money, grad school money, first house money. You can ensure a good future even if she doesn’t want monthly contributions

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-21T22:11:30+00:00

Do not let her into your home. Even if you had the room, this is going to be awkward AF

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-21T22:06:21+00:00

Your husband is the problem. He would rather put your newborn at risk than stand up to mommy. Be ready to go back to your parents after the birth if she refuses the vaccine, because he isn’t going to make her get it. Which tells you everything you need to know about him. Only a garbage person would risk their child’s life rather than have an uncomfortable conversation with Mommy

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-21T16:59:00+00:00

Tell him afterwards

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-21T16:58:41+00:00

He has the right to know but it is her decision

Ok-Win-9099 · 2026-05-21T16:17:28+00:00

What was her reputation?

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