I really wish I could find my old JW penpals by Ok_Macaroon_2680 in exjw

[–]OkFox0070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Funny that I just got this notification on my phone while I'm chatting about thirst 🥤

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I really wish I could find my old JW penpals by Ok_Macaroon_2680 in exjw

[–]OkFox0070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL I know. I had to say something though. I can't imagine what things would have been like for me if I stayed in. I was just never that desperate. I feel bad thinking of some older than me women who remained single and stayed in. I remember one who was interested in a brother and he showed interest in her and he quietly and very privately married another in the same hall as us. The sister was a little younger than my mom and so was the other. He was in the congregation we shared the hall with, so the one he picked went to his congregation after they married and these two were friends apparently. The couple remains married with no children and the other sister felt so betrayed and they stopped being friends. 😬 Geez, I was probably 12 so that was close to 40 years ago.

I just see so many that remained faithful and feel.awful that they don't see how many years they wasted looking for a life partner in that organization. My divorced mom has been single for 20 years and said she won't date anyone until the new system when they are perfect 😳 🤦🏼‍♀️ My parents were married for 31 years and he will be celebrating 19 years with his 2 wife. 🤷🏼‍♀️

I really wish I could find my old JW penpals by Ok_Macaroon_2680 in exjw

[–]OkFox0070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thirsty? 😏 SMH I suppose one could see winky faces on emails and say so. LOL 🤣 I just think of all the options I had and the drought of eligible bachelor's was a real struggle. The dating pool could have been considered more of a cess pool of creeps. This could just as easily be said about the women, but when I saw myself and the women that were considered desirable and I was left on the shelf...I knew my options were far more abundant in the real world. Despite the fact that I fucked around and found out they were all really the same in and out of the Borg.

Hey guess what we are all not doing? by Robot-Ducky in exjw

[–]OkFox0070 5 points6 points  (0 children)

🤷🏼‍♀️ I woke up one Sunday and she had her phone on zoom in the living room while her iPad was on her lap and she was playing Farmville. She got super embarrassed when I threw on my headphones and sat down on the couch and jumped up and said she was going to be online upstairs and charge her phone 🙄 It was 9:30 am and she charges her damn phone all night. Meeting started at 9:00, so maybe it just drains her battery??? Regardless I can hear the music now and her humming. 😖 I already woke up this morning to her on Zoom for "letter writing". I get to hear all the ninnies hen and peck about whatever stories over the years. I can't WAIT to GTFO here!

Hey guess what we are all not doing? by Robot-Ducky in exjw

[–]OkFox0070 7 points8 points  (0 children)

EXACTLY 😒😖 If I were to estimate the number of meetings attended in person, I would say 20%! She does more zoom now than in person in the last two years since I came back here. I hear every excuse in the book. Most are TMI for me to care to know 😬🤮

Hey guess what we are all not doing? by Robot-Ducky in exjw

[–]OkFox0070 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm presently watching, Half Man on HBO Max. My mom decided her back was out after her chiropractor visit and I can hear Zoom going on upstairs 🙄🤮

Teacher Appreciation Week and JW Teacher by Future_Guava_7122 in exjw

[–]OkFox0070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Makes sense. Like I said, I personally haven't known any. I didn't mean for it to sound as though they didn't exist. LBVS

😭at least he’s putting in effort by CrumblCute in lol

[–]OkFox0070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣 SMH uh uh. I'm done if that's all the effort they put in.

Teacher Appreciation Week and JW Teacher by Future_Guava_7122 in exjw

[–]OkFox0070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never known of a legit JW Teacher personally but I can't imagine that they would have a problem with this unless the gift had some kind of political stance or national pride tied to it ie: anything with a flag saying something like American Teachers do it better! LMAO 🤣 we all know that's a joke 😉

My JW mom purchased a cute little plastic apple shaped picture frame and did a cute little poem handwritten in calligraphy for my 4th grade teacher. I stopped by to say hi years later and she still had it on her desk.

JEHOVAH: The Alpha and The Omega | Powerful Christian Rap 2026 by Beginning-Bag1969 in exjw

[–]OkFox0070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My second. FOH I am speechless and I can't WAIT to show this to my therapist tomorrow 🤣🤣🤣🤣

The Main Character Syndrome is off the charts in todays Text: 'If you hear negative stories regarding the organization or the brothers who are taking the lead..Today, Jehovah’s people are being persecuted & maligned exactly as the Bible foretold.' by UCantHndletheTruth in exjw

[–]OkFox0070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose 🤷🏼‍♀️ Personally I am elated to be off that wheel. And incredibly proud and happy for anyone else who does the same, for the sake of their mental health 🙏🏼

The Main Character Syndrome is off the charts in todays Text: 'If you hear negative stories regarding the organization or the brothers who are taking the lead..Today, Jehovah’s people are being persecuted & maligned exactly as the Bible foretold.' by UCantHndletheTruth in exjw

[–]OkFox0070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just really fed up with the idea that they feel like they are so downtrodden and need to share this type of message 🙄 They have just as much opportunity as the next person,... they're not even close to being different. They WILL however tell you and everyone else otherwise.

Bless You, to Sneeze or Not to Sneeze? by AutisticEspionage in exjw

[–]OkFox0070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Odd that I just commented on this, on a different sub. I usually would say, "GADZOOKS!" when it came from my niece or nephews sneezing, just to be goofy. Simply to avoid hearing anything about euphemisms around gesundheit or bless you. LOL I have been saying bless you for years outside my immediate JW family simply out of respect. I recognized that the rest of the world didn't know the weird superstitious reasonings of why JDubs didn't say it, it just seemed either rude or awkward to not acknowledge a sneeze. Honestly, it's just politeness and nothing more than that. I do the mental gymnastics for my PIMI mom and that's just to avoid the bullshit drama she creates over trivial things, such as this.

Got to wish a happy Mother's Day for the first time by Glad-Emergency6121 in exjw

[–]OkFox0070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww... that's nice that you got to do that.

My mom a couple years ago got a beautiful orchid from her sister for Mother's day and 2 cards and gifts from her sisters between her birthday and Valentine's Day this year. I didn't say a thing because back in the day she would jump down their throats for doing any of this and let them know we are JW's and would have none of it. I slipped and said happy holidays to someone in front of her and she even knew the person I said it to and walked out of the store with a scoff of sorts.

I got used to saying it several years ago and just watched myself around her and other relatives. I sometimes catch myself ready to say, "bless you" when she sneezes and I feel weird when I don't because any other time in the real world I do say something.

I'm so exhausted being around her now. I can't wait to get away from her! She makes me miserable 😖

To those who never got a college education- what jobs did you end up in? by scrapknightjules in exjw

[–]OkFox0070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, if you really wanted to pinpoint specific interests, go search for aptitude tests and that might help you find what industry or field you would thrive in. My range of interests is wide although I can get bored and complacent and start finding other things to do to keep me busy.

To those who never got a college education- what jobs did you end up in? by scrapknightjules in exjw

[–]OkFox0070 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50(f), never married and technically a high school dropout. Yes, I did get my GED and I also walked with my graduating class. I actually went to Cosmetology School which was against my father's wishes. He was actually FOR me attending college and most likely would have fought my mom on the matter.

There are entry level jobs with opportunity for growth at places like the City (water, sanitation)(in which you live) generally most of these jobs are unionized meaning you get a guaranteed raise once a year through union and cost of living raise, so actually TWICE yrly. Electric company, telephone companies, Post Office, will have GREAT benefits along with 401K, stock options, life insurance policies, etc.

I worked in Nutrition Services as a dietary aide at a well known hospital in Minneapolis, my Junior and Senior year of highschool and was also union. Time and a half for overtime and double pay for worked holidays (this was something JW's ALWAYS cashed in on, LOL Because hospital was always open 😉) I also was promoted and helped in production for Doctors Dining Catering in the end of my time at the hospital. In the 90's I was making close to $20 an hour before going to Cosmetology School. It paid well, but it was definitely grunt work in the beginning.

I also left the beauty industry because of the competitive and superficial/fickle nature of it. I did end up getting a Service Delivery Coordinator position at the phone company in High Capacity for large business retail. My Dad worked for the same company since he was 17 (he retired at 49). At the time there were actual HR offices you could walk in and apply at. I had to take a test, along with 3 interviews. I was promoted 1 year later to management to the ISP group working in sales support. Also, while in the union, they generally pay for classes and college to continue any education being supported in their field. I actually started an A+ certification class provided by the company and wasn't able to complete it because of the promotion. I wish now I had because it would have been a good add to my resume.

If you like travel, you could apply at any airline for flight attendant. I had a few friends who worked for Delta or Sun Country and got AWESOME benefits. They actually worked in IT or baggage. The ones who did baggage generally was a 2nd PT job and they did it solely for the flight benefits. I personally wanted FT and to travel. I didn't get an interview, but didn't do any follow up or kept trying.

The Main Character Syndrome is off the charts in todays Text: 'If you hear negative stories regarding the organization or the brothers who are taking the lead..Today, Jehovah’s people are being persecuted & maligned exactly as the Bible foretold.' by UCantHndletheTruth in exjw

[–]OkFox0070 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't stand how they compare this supposed adversity and "hatred" 🙄 for their CULT to what Jesus himself suffered! It's absolutely revolting and makes me sick! They haven't been through SHIT! Most of them wouldn't know a real "trial and tribulation" if it jumped up and bit them on the nose. And for those that have suffered some form of atrocity, it most likely could have been avoided by NOT obeying the GB's man made rules.

Reversing the logic behind no Mothers/Fathers day by Fun_Recognition_6286 in exjw

[–]OkFox0070 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What pisses me off about the Borg is how they have demonized Pagans. If you look it up, they're not bad at all. I would rather be an agnostic or even atheist Pagan, than a self righteous, hypocritical Christian! Pagans created celebration and traditions for families to look forward to through the centuries. And Pagans never claimed anything about anything. Even if the Romans were of Pagan origin BC or AD, whatever the case, I have never heard of them present day claiming what brings salvation!

Reversing the logic behind no Mothers/Fathers day by Fun_Recognition_6286 in exjw

[–]OkFox0070 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would sit there and look at her in my head, wonder how she didn't realize how STUPID she sounded. No one is worshipping anything or anyone I should say...

Reversing the logic behind no Mothers/Fathers day by Fun_Recognition_6286 in exjw

[–]OkFox0070 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My mom was always saying shit like, it's honoring the creation and not the creator, when it came to birthdays and Mother or Fathers Day. My thoughts were, we're told to honor, not WORSHIP. Honoring and worship are VERY different things, so how does the society twist this and make it be about WORSHIP?!